He's a young guy, he's horny and likely watches porn where he hears the things he wants you to say. It's up to you to tell him what you're okay with and not okay with, otherwise he won't know. If you communicate your position and he still doesn't respect it then perhaps it's time to reevaluate the relationship.
The birthday thing crossed the line. It's your birthday, you should spend it however you want and he should support you regardless. But again, he's a young guy and he's horny. The "look cute" comment also crossed the line.
Reacting like you did to him grabbing your butt is over the top in my opinion. Couples (guys and girls) always do this as a sign of affection. If he's standing there feeling you up for 5 minutes that would be one thing, but a simple squeeze isn't that bad.
What do you want to happen with your relationship? My guess would be that if things continue on unchanged either you're going to get tired of telling him "don't" or he's going to get tired of hearing it.0 0 0 0
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You need to talk to him about that. Tell him that what he is doing is not okay with you. You can't just keep it all bottled up and not tell him what's wrong. Because if you keep doing that then eventually you're just going to explode and everything will come out at one time and that's never a good thing. I think you should just talk to him face to face and tell him that you're not a porn star and that's not who you are. Let him know that if he doesn't like you the way you are then there is no point in being together. If he really loves you then he should understand and stop acting like that. It's not fair to you for him to always be doing crap like that. Just tell him exactly what you said in the text message. Best of luck:)
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