I hate my boobs, do guys like big areolas?

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I'm a 23 year old, my boobs are not too small, but they're not big either (36B). They have big, brown areolas (I'm olive skinned). I haven't measured my areolas, but they look big and they're definitely bigger than the usually "ideal" areolas depicted everywhere... my boobs are also more in the smaller size range, and guys usually expect small breasts to have small areolas.My nipples are about the size of a pencil eraser. But they only stand out when they're touched and stuff, otherwise they look kinda flat in the areola, the areolas also shrink and get wrinkly when you touch them. But I also don't like the shape of my boobs too much, they're kinda pointy, rounder in the bottom half, but overall kinda pointy. I really don't like them... they're so not like the boobs usually drool over.Are there guys out there who find my type of breasts more attractive than those with tiny areolas? I've thought about surgery, but I'm afraid it could go wrong, plus I'd feel guilty about spending so much money on vanity issues.

LoveLikeNovocaine · Accepted Answer

Pretty much what other people said. if a guy doesn't like you solely bcoz of how you look, then it's just not meant to be. each person has their own preferences, i'm sure there's someone (actually more than some-ONE) out there for you. i kno it's cliche' to tell you that you have to love yourself first before others love you. but it's true, those Buddhists got it right. *im not a Buddhist by the way nor a devotee of any other religion, just purely synical by nature* everyone has their own insecurities, believe me. i dont like being a short guy (5'6" at age 25 is short by norm, not like im a dwarf) but it's just the way i was born. so i accepted it, moved on and tried to better myself in other areas where i can change. if someone doesn't find me attractive due to my stature then it's NOTHING PERSONAL... i dont blame them nor blame myself. think about it... if all of us in the world want the same things all the time then we wouldn't be able to survive and evolve for this long. sure there is a golden standard set by the Greece regarding human aesthetics *i think it was PLATO who came up with it, can't remember, dont quote me on it* but nobody is that "perfect" and to each his own. you don't need surgery, you are far from being disfigured. plus look on the bright side, natural selection wise, your physical feature (that you dont like, will be your greatest weapon for evolution) will eliminate the mates who are not compatible to you. dont feel sorry, just embrace your differences and love them. they'll open up the door to a whole new experience. * i kno i type like a retard coz im lazy but trust me*

txmade · Accepted Answer

To be honest, if I had to pic, id pic smaller ones. Big ones don't bother me at all though. My girlfriends are pretty big (has D cups). I love everything about her, and wouldn't change a thing, to include her areolas. Yours are fine I'm sure sweety. If its a deal breaker for a guh, then he didn't deserve ya in the 1st place. If he loves you, he will love all of you. Be proud of your body the good and the flaws, its how god intended for you to look. I have things id like to change, but I'm proud of my body anyways. :-)

galleon1988 · Accepted Answer

Bigger areolas are actually pretty hot. Way nicer than tiny ones, in my opinion. That said, you don't date a girl for her areolas. As for boob size, I guess all guys have their preferences, but I've dated hot girls with B cups to E cups. My preference is probably for slightly bigger ones, C or D cup, but like most guys, if you meet the right girl, her boobs are just a nice bonus to the overall package. Pointier boobs or puffy nipples can actually be hot.

bluewingedangel828 · Accepted Answer

to be honest girls care about and have boobs on the mind more than guys do! all guys want are at least something to grab, nipples that when touched turns a girl on. which if you got boob surgery you would lose ALL feeling in your boobs so you would actually feel like you have no boobs. don't sound fun at all but its your choice.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm here because I googled it lol

From the majority of the responses by men, they seem more OK with it than I was thinking. I have triple D's and my areolas are also big so, I was curious on the same thing.

Hope you find happiness & contentment within your body, sweetheart.

archer86 · Answer

Shove your boobs with the big areolas into a man's face and he will show you just how much of a damn he gives about them! Never in all my years have I ever heard of a man rejecting a woman because of her boobs.

Never

Now go get your man and suffocate him with your chest! Think I'm kidding? Oh do try us

TheDigitalSaint · Answer

It is like any male preference, some of us will not like them, some of us will. In general, unless you are really overweight, men are far less judgmental on a girl's body than the girl is on it herself. Most men would be delighted to see any real breasts, instead p*rn. If you give a man access to your bosom, odds are, he will be a very grateful man. I've never known of a man who made it a requirement for a girl to take her bra off before asking her out on a first date.

zinclozenges · Answer

You're breasts are beautiful, just like mine and every other woman's on the planet.

EverythingReal · Answer

I have a feeling you are dating the wrong kind of guys if they are going to dump you over the size of your areolas. Get what I'm saying? It's a small thing, you're fine hun :)

glamphotog · Answer

I don't know about other guys but I don't go around with a ruler and measure the diameter of a girl's areola before I decide to like her or not.

byronbuckles · Answer

Quite simply guys just love boobs. Don't worry about it, you see flaws that guys never will.  And if you find a guy who is worried about your areolas, he's not worth finding.

WoIIie · Answer

Olive skin and big brown areolas? Don't tease me like that!

markscott · Answer

There are guys who will not like your boobs, as whatever kind of boobs a girl has, some guys don't like that type. For the vast majority of guys, your boobs are just fine. No girl has the perfect weight, height, hair color, perfectly shaped ass, perfectly shaped nose, perfect boobs, etc. All girls have several things that are not the "ideal." That doesn't keep guys from liking their ass, their hair, or their boobs. Plenty of guys will like your boobs, just as you described them. They will love to look at them, play with them, etc. No guy is going to look at your boobs, and think I won't touch, because they aren't perfect. He's going to think, she's letting me see her tits, and they look great, and I want to feel them and play with them. Honest, that is how it will be.

Guysensei · Answer

look, guys are into different things. don't presume to know that just cause the so called "ideal" is small areolas that guys don't like big ones. There are some guys that are ONLY into big areolas. Don't presume to know and generalize all guys tastes as if they were the same, taste is very individual.

GrayWolf · Answer

sexy sexy sexy oh yes did i say very sexy, dont change a thing. keep and enjoy what God gave you. i know i would.

Lardy_Pirate · Answer

I'm a 38 B! Smiles!

Aquarian-soul · Answer

I love them, play message me haha

GingerGuy · Answer

Yes we love them!! (most guys anyway). They have porn categories specifically for them! YOU'LL hate them, we won't.

taster · Answer

I prefer smaller breasts and I do not mind large areolaes..you might want to look at this old Question..and particularly the last (first) female's response...(:

lkjhg69cum · Answer

Can't really say for sure about yours honey with no pics, but I just love boobs, so I am up for whatever. ;) I'd tell you honest though if you sent me a pic.

hockeykid29 · Answer

they sound just fine :)  don't worry so much.  guys won't really care that much.  you're overthinking it

bubbakong2006 · Answer

Yes I have a real attraction to big areolas I really get turned on by them they make the sex so exciting

ed1969 · Answer

They are phenomenal boobs. Any man would go nuts over them. They are my favorite!

internet_guy · Answer

learn to love your body and you would feel better

markony · Answer

for me and before met my mate I hared big areola too much, not was my preference at all
after met my wife i don't care (even she has small areola) but I learnt that it is not the thong for a serious relationship or commitment
don't worry
uf any guy would leave you for this so the are the acid test for guys

bifriend2013 · Answer

I love big areolas

BoobMan · Answer

Sounds pretty good to me!

PhoebeCaulfield · Answer

HUGE areolas are the BEST. Even one's that are the size of a silver dollar is on the small side for me. MASSIVE areolas are so attractive! Usually the aureolas increase in size with the size of the breast. But sometimes, flat chested women have BIG areolas and that is an awesome, rocking look. So, if you are a flat chick with BIG areolas, get into it and be a wild sex partner, embracing them.

Kain6th · Answer

My mouth would not complain if they happen to be all over them. no worries. ;-)

Xx_DRE_xX · Answer

I love them! So much more attractive.

answermethis20 · Answer

I'm kinda similar and I used to worry about it but guys seem to love them lol so you have nothing to worry about! :)

BonnieBunny · Answer

Who cares?

asphaltcowboy84 · Answer

What do you mean by big areolas, more than 3 inches in diameter? I like large ones on girls but any size works for me too

xXxAx3LxXx · Answer

Breasts are breasts...Big or small I find them sexy ;)

tvede1027 · Answer

Any man worth his salt will not care about your nipples,

UsernameMadness · Answer

All boobs are good so long as they're reasonably firm. Don't lose sleep over trivia and certainly don't get unnecessary surgery.

JWalker87 · Answer

Well I would have to see them to have an honest opinion. You sound fine to me from the description

Jade12 · Answer

in my honest opinion.. I find larger areolas a turn on and the nipple thing is pretty normal when not aroused they blend in and when touched they 'poke' out.. as for the overall shape I didn't understand you.. but seriously dnt change them..

Nobody39810 · Answer

Most men will not have any issues with the shape of a woman's areola. If you have a man that does have an issue then he's probably as worthless as the day is long.

lunny · Answer

I love girls with big boobs especially big areolas ;) thats a turn on for me

rush69 · Answer

I love to swallow them

Samy2018 · Answer

This is very sexy description why u not like!!! No surgery please

Rsh113 · Answer

I have long been insecure about my soft, large pink Ariola‘s since I was little.
I have come to find out in my late 30s is that my large breasts with large, soft pink areoles, before they are stimulated are extremely sensitive and huge portion of getting off for me. For whatever reason they bring huge arousal for me being sucked on. Extremely erotic for me.

I almost got them surgically removed for being insecure but my sister is a Director of nursing for a large plastic surgery hospital in Seattle. I told her I wanted to get a nipple replacement and she said that’s possible if you want, but I’m gonna tell you that large pink Ariola‘s are extremely attractive to a lot of men so think about It. A lot of women are trying to get your nipples.
Love to hear in the men’s thoughts.

LintuMies · Answer

For me, I much prefer big areolas over small ones. So much so, I will almost rate my boob preference entirely on areola and nipple size alone. There’s something super hot about it, Like think it looks more feminine to me.

Anonymous · Answer

I have almost the same problem. I feel ya girl. :(

Anonymous · Answer

I signed up just to answer your question because I was actually searching the question "why do I like huge areolas?" I think a lot of guys have fetishes that they keep to themselves. I seem to have a few, but when it comes to boobs, I like real boobs. The perfect ones seen in movies just don't do a whole lot for me. I like real boobs and that means the saggy ones too. I especially like large areolas and add visible veins and a little hair and that's even better. I also like when a woman's pubic hair goes up to her belly button. Women with hairy arms, especially darker skinned ones, are also a huge turn on for me. Yeah, by now you're probably thinking I'm just a perv, but I just think real women with real imperfections are very sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

i have them too I'm 34C and even though I have fair skin theyre quite brownish and large, but I've never gotten any complaints. ha ha don't worry. theyre fine =] I actually read up on them one time and it said that areolas evolved so that when babies are born and they automatically breast feed, because their eyes aren't developed much yet they can only see black and white they need the dark areolas to see the nipple so they can latch onto it to drink milk.

Anonymous · Answer

We are going to have to see them before we make any judgements, it's hard to tell

Anonymous · Answer

big areolas are way better than small ones. men have small areolas, its feminine to have big ones. its hot down worry.

Anonymous · Answer

I am almost certain that I would enjoy them if I were your boyfriend.

I hate my boobs, do guys like big areolas?

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