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I have small breasts, yadda-yadda...
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I have small B's. And no, my frame is not small, I'm not skinny or athletic. I'm a freakin' pear shape. And yes, some guys say that smaller is better, but I don't buy that for a second. Why is TV plastered with huge boobs then? What about Playboy, Penthouse, and well, most porn? Strippers? Argh! I know I should feel beautiful and confident and all that, but it's so hard when everything I see are big breasts being adored. people always tell me well look at small chested celebs like Keira Knightley, etc., well they're gorgeous and very skinny, they suit them, not me, I'm very curvy in my lower body, and look disproportionate up top. My boyfriend loves me, but all his celebrity crushes have big breasts. Also the porn he watches, big breasts. He says he likes mine, but he prefers bigger ones, but that he loves me and he's not perfect either so I shouldn't fret. But I do, regardless! Anyway, it's not enough to hear just a handful of guys say that small breasts rock, because usually they also like AA or A's, not B's. Then are the guys that like big ones. Ugh. What can I do? I feel so ugly, I never see my body type being glorified and feel hideous, I want to cry! It's always the uber skinny type or the busty ones.
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I don't want your sympathy either. Don't just tell me that my boobs are fine so I'll shut up and feel better. I want the truth, I want facts, as much as it may hurt. Why are big breasts so adored, everywhere, and not small ones?
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What Girls & Guys Said
20 15Listen. You can't please everyone. what if you got implants and more guys said they liked small breasts? Be glad you have a boyfriend who likes you for you. Why try to impress anyone else? Only you and him have to deal with them, and to be honest, do you really think that bigger breasts are going to help you in life?
You worry way too much about this. There are beautiful boobs and ugly boobs in all sizes.
Personally, I prefer a C cup or smaller regardless of her frame size.
But it shouldn't matter, you should be comfortable with yourself.
I have a small penis, but it doesn't bother me and I'm not rushing out to buy a male inhancement pill.
As a guy in my 40s I can say as a young man I liked large breasts (is this a Freudian 'mother' thing?) but as the years have passed I find small breasts more appealing. Small breasts represent 'real' women and in the same way we men are excited by women dressed as school girls, hockey girls etc, we are excited by small breasts as 'little girl' on a mature woman. I would add that oversize breasts are a turn off to me, and silicon implants are obvious so don't go down that road. Hope this helps small breast girl!
I know exactly how you feel. I have smaller breasts than you and I have a large frame with HUGE hips. I feel the same way you do.
Do you want big breast because you feel like your man likes that or for your self ?
If you had big breast it would'nt matter ,because men are never happy with what they have they still look every where else.
Honey I can tell you, big boobs are not preferable. I have about a F or a G cup and I am slim so they look totally off on me. So I am like you though the opposite. But the thing is that nobody nowhere around the world is perfect, and although it completely sucks to accept it, there isn't much you and me can do about it unless we want surgery. I for one happen to know so many guys that prefer women with meat on their bones, and with small boobs, and also about noone who happens to like big breasts. The thing is that small boobs are easy, safe, and natural. big boobs on the other hand are in the way, downright uncomfortable, sometimes painful and its a pure hell finding clothes and bras for them. Imagine being a size 2 and have to have your bra's specially designed for you since your waist is too small for your bust size. And that the salesmen in the store tells you to eat more so that you don't have to special order bras. Imagine that. Now that's what I call downright depressing. I know its hard but try to see the good side on things. You're a beautiful curvacious woman with a boyfriend who loves you . Its also easier to be taken for your personality and not your chest when you have small breasts. I am a tomboy so its even lonlier for me since girls are envious for no good reason and guys don't take me seriously. They look at my chest instead of into my eyes, they think I am a slut and have slept wit ha lot of people just because of the size of my breasts etc. I can assure you , its a hell of a lot easier being small chested and less painful. So lets just be content with what we got , I mean both of us. You want big boobs I want small boobs. if we could trade chests hell yeah I would but we cannot so screw media and tv
why do you care that big boobs are adored, if you want big boobs you can do couple of things...
1-eat a lot of lettuce and I'm not kidding,
2-before your period in 3 days til after it..take off your bra before you sleep and if your not going out and staying home try not to wear it
3- some people wash some lettuce and put them on their boobs half an hour before they sleep( I never tried this one but that's what I heard...you don't need to try this lol)
I'm skinny and I wear 32C I have big boobs I used to be proud lol, but not anymore, when a guy I like comes to talk to me I should be very happy but guess what I'm not!..and why is that?...because he was staring at my boobs the whole time!, and that's what most of the guys do!
so be very happy that your boyfriend loves you for who you are and try to etc bigger boobs now:P
take care
LOL? Lettuce?
Yeah I'm serious hehe
Could be worse. You could be a 34 AA like me.
I'm not thin either. WOO HOO I LOVE MY LIFE.
Awesome. Good to know I'm not a freak ... Or at least not a lonely freak. Haha
I know how you feel about your breasts. I feel the same way. I used to get upset that I was born this way. with tiny boobs. Every guy I've dated has said they like my boobs just the way they are. They would say bad things about big boobs too, just to make me feel better. It was sweet of them, but I still wanted, if not big, then at least a normal size to fit my body type.
But, I finally learned to work with what I have. Slowly started to accept my body. And slowly gained confidence in the way I look.
My boobs are still small, probably smaller than they used to be, but I feel sexier than ever. Not because of the compliments I get, but because of how I see myself now. Now I know what I DO have, and I flaunt it. Its just confidence, oh and alittle bit of my peach butt, and long legs.
I realized there is nothing I can do about my breasts, so I learned to focus on what I do have. My outfits usually emphasize my butt shape, and my legs. I wear tops that don't make my boobs look tooo small, or tops that make my boobs look alittle bigger than small.
Now to answer your question, guys like big breasts because they like curves. And it just looks so nice to touch, and squeeze. To cup, and massage.
But lucky for you, you'v found a man who loves you for you. Yeah big boobs look good, but it does get tiring, and boring, if that is all she had. Don't you think?
Wear clothes that flatter your body type. And learn to love other parts of your body. Wear clothes that flatter your curvy area :)
But remember, nothing is more sexier than confidence. trust me. Notice the women who look sexy, are the ones who have confidence in themselves, and actually FEEL sexy. That's all it is.
I still think about having implants done sometimes, but I'd rather be complimented and liked for how my body really is, rather than get complimented for something that isn't really me.