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I'm a white girl with a brown/black vagina. Is this gross or a turn off? Answer honestly please?
amberbyrne Xper 3
I'm a white girl and my vagina, skin between my anus and vagina, anus, upper thighs and slightly into my bum crack are all a dark brown colour. I don't just mean slightly darker like most women they are literally a completely brown different colour than my skin. I was born normal but this developed shortly after when I was a small baby. It used to be much worse and run further down my legs, it has shrunk as I've aged. No doctor has ever seemed to have an answer as to what it is or a solution for me. I only have sex with the lights off and I am TERRIFIED of anyone ever seeing it. I want to be able to have sex with the lights on and do more things sexually but I am just too afraid to let anyone see. When I think about it and my future, it scares me so much that no one will ever accept it no matter what even if they love me or whatever. Honestly if you were with someone and you loved them and eventually they showed you this completely discoloured disgusting looking vagina what would you do? Honestly? I hate my body so much and literally no one knows about it other than my family really. When I really start to think about it it upsets me so much. Please answer this question and if anyone knows what it might be or a solution or if anyone suffers similarly please let me know. Thanks
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 38It doesn't sound like a turn off to me.
There is nothing at all wrong with your vagina color. Requiring lights out for sex is a bigger tun-off for guys than a little extra melanin between your legs will ever be.
That's how I always feel, like I'm ruining if by needing the lights off but I just don't have the confidence otherwise and I don't know how to help that
I wouldn't say you're "ruining it." LOL. Really, though, most guys won't even notice the color difference. And even if they did, they probly won't mention it. None will be turned off by it. To build your confidence, maybe before getting intimate with a guy, try making a joke about it. Say that you have localized reverse-Michael Jackson syndrome. Or, in conversation, ask him what he dislikes most about his own body. Then tell him about your dark jellyroll. When you finally grant him access, he will most likely give you complement after complement about it. It actually sounds kind of sexy.
Haha I like that Michael Jackson one, sounds like an alright idea I just need to work up the confidence to ever even hear myself say it out loud to someone! Thanks for the advice
I think it's normal. Majority of men won't care.
I'd fuck it all the same.
Lol most chicks have vags like that OP, its normal
I have the same problem!
Really? Follow me so I can message you
It won't let me message you because I'm not at a high enough level as I only joined this site today. But I would really like to discuss this further with you
Okay :) My English is poorly but I will try my best :)
Lol. We really don't care.
Normal
*shudder*
Thanks that helps
Lol. You have a brown bootyhole.
Pics of rear glute spread?
very sexy!
It doesn't matter to me, your just making a big deal out of something small
yeah thats disgusting ddude
Good to know thanks for the answer
no probs :D
TMI WARNING!
I dated one woman that always wanted to sex in the dark (we met in winter time) and worked morning shifts. Eventually in spring/summer she couldn't hide it as well. Not going to lie I ejaculated very fast when I first saw it. I asked her why she wanted to sex in the dark and that was the reason. Apparently some ex wanted her to bleach it and she became very wary since. I told her it made me very arroused and we have to take it slow at first or I will instant finish.
In my opinion I wish there was more women like you because its my ultimate turn on I never knew I had until than haha.
You know... It could be from vaginal discharges such as menstruation... You could use coconut oil.. Just add a tsp. Of ginger powder 😉
I wanna date you... 😍 Fb: inass biash..
I have the same problem, i can feel that pain
I don’t even know if you are still active on here but I hope you have found someone who loves and respects you. Honestly after reading your question that I found by accident I had to join to add this opinion. The woman I love has the same sort of issue as you. She’s super white in the winter and tanish in the summer if she gets sun but all year round her vagina is dark dark brown as are the inside of her thighs close to the vagina and all the way back and up her butt crack. And then to top matters off her arm pits and her nipples. Are the exact same way. But I think her uniqueness is part of her sexiness to me she’s absolutely perfect I wouldn’t ever want her to change. She also has large labia that honestly say down a bit but I think that’s beautiful too. Again I hope you found a man that finds you as appealing as I find my woman. Until then don’t settle for less. If a guy treats you with any disrespect for it be gone with him because you deserve better! I hope if you ever see my statement that it helps give you piece of mind if you haven’t found it yet.
There is a medical definition on this. It has to do with pigmentation in places where skin rarely moves or is subject to abnormal stress.
For example but cracks are dark because you sit on it etc. I'll look for a link.
Yeah there's a couple of things I've seen online that sound similar to me, but pictures etc never look as bad as me and I haven't seen many solutions, if you had a link that would be great. Thanks!
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