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I'm asexual, should I kill myself?
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So I'm asexual and I'm VERY concerned about that, and even planning to commit suicide as an option because of my asexuality. I'm asexual and I hate masturbating (A few asexuals do this and like this.) and sex and think that they're gross. I don't even like nudity and think it's gross. I want a girl to spend my life with in my life because someday my parents will die, get too old to take care of me and all, and I want a girl to love and share my life with. I feel that EVERYONE will automatically write me off because of my asexuality because even though sex is only 1% or 2% of life, a small part of life, I think they still need it sometimes and that asexuals aren't their type to be in a relationship with. I feel that no sexual will want to be with me and that I will never find an asexual because they're so rare. Only 5% is asexual and that 5% is little and rare and must be EXTREMELY hard to find. Will I be lonely forever because of my asexuality? Am I worthless junk because of it? If so, I don't know what to do than just end my life. I haven't really talked to anyone about it except my mom who's sexual just like my dad and she said "You can't say that you're asexual, no girl will want to be with you if you say you're asexual. You have to say that you're sexual and wanna have sex and sexually masturbate sometimes! I'm sure that this is just a late phase you're going through, you'll become sexual and have desire to have sex and maybe masturbate.". I'm pretty sure that this isn't a late phase like she said and all, I'm pretty sure that it's permanent, and I can't lie saying that I'm sexual when I'm not and the complete opposite, asexual. And no, I haven't tried dating any girl yet, I don't have any experience of dating at all and I'm very shy.
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thanks guys, most of these were very good and helpful answers. Now I'm actually proud to be asexual and don't mind it and I'm not gonna kill myself. Being asexual is equally as normal as being sexual. Those few who said I should kill me, go to hell.
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18 14What the Actual Fuck, yeah ure right don’t listen to them. I’m an asexual girl myself and I know dating can be hard. But not all women want sex and ull find the right woman when it’s time❤️
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No don't, you can't still live a healthy life
Ok do not kill yourself! I'm not asexual but, I would have 0 problem marrying someone who never wants to have sex like you know what who gives a fuck if we have sex or not I don't want kids anyways so why does It matter? I'm sure there are other people like me so seriously don't kill yourself. I bet there are asexual girls out there as well!
Something tells me that since you were alive to type to this question
A little hunch tells me that you are still alive
Hence you won't be killing yourself anytime soon
Just a wild guess
Dating another asexual would be ideal since you have no interest in sex at all. While the pool is smaller, it's definitely still a pool and by joining in you help make it a little bigger. I've known several couples in happy and sexless relationships. There is hope, don't give up.
Technically if you're unable to compromise and basically would *never* under any circumstance have sex with a female, then that really does hinder a healthy relationship. I'm sexual, and I'm dating an asexual, and I would expect her to at least try to have sex every once in a while, or just do something intimate in general. You might not experience sexual arousal per say, but that doesn't mean you're incapable of intimate actions and even to have sex if it's necessary. Of course, there's no fun in sexuality if it's causes only discomfort, so I'm trying to figure out how to make it be not terrible, don't think I'm heartless :P
Also, no, you probably shouldn't kill yourself, that's excessive. But unless you find a completely asexual person such as yourself (they exist), you'd need to compromise somewhat.