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I'm officially done with girls. What should I do next?
Anonymous
I'm soon to be 25 and I haven't even kissed a girl yet, forget having sex. I haven't met one girl that was attracted to me. I've been rejected by every single girl I've approached. Even on the internet, when I look for girls to talk to like on video cam sites like omegle or chatroulette then not one girl even gives me a chance to even talk to. They disconnect me before I even get a chance to type out "hey". In real life it's just bad. I've never had a girl really interested in me or flirted with me. Whenever I tried to show interest in a girl she made me feel uncomfortable due to the fact of not being attracted to me. So now what. Yeah I'm ugly and these are the things you have to pay for when it comes to being an ugly guy. But I can't be patient any longer. I wanna stop worrying about things like getting a girlfriend and focus just on living my life and making money to feed myself till the day I die. Now how do I do that? Because every now and then I'll find a girl attractive and have feelings for her but in the end I'll be disappointed and upset as usual so I just wanna stop going through that once and for all. Please don't say "turn gay". I have childhood memories of being molested by my neighbor at age 7 who made me suck him and what not many times before I finally moved. So yeah, the thought of even being in any sexual activity with another man traumatizes me. But seriously, what can I do to stop thinking about that. My mind tells me to be done with girls but it's really hard.
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 16If you obviously loath yourself so much, then no one else is going to like you either. Find a reason to like yourself (I guarantee there is one, everybody has redeeming qualities). When you start liking yourself other people will too.
..and maybe you should try seeking some kind of professional help, I mean psychologically molestation will f*** you up.
I never said I didn't like myself.
Your entire article is tinged with the negativity about yourself.
Oh god. It's not negativity. It's the facts. My life experiences!
Ok, then in that case, I'm sorry your life has turned out so sh*tty, but sometimes you have to make your own path and create your own luck. Figure out what it is you think is "ugly" about yourself. Overweight? Start dieting. You've got really bad acne? Invest in some good facial cleaners. Nasty hair and teeth? Try showering and brushing them. If one of these isn't the reason people are turning you down, then to be blatantly honest, it's your personality.. Anyway, like yourself and girls notice
Such a weak attempt...grow up.
Weak attempt at what? I'm looking for an advice.
your looking for advice but your not taking any
@tastetherainbow isn't that because the advice is shite
you'll find someone eventually, everyone does so try not to worry too much. For the moment focus on living your life, just as you said, and better yourself as a person. Focus on work, your personality and your physical fitness, and you'll be fine.