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I'm scared of having Sex because of my stretch marks, advice?

There are a lot of thin white ones over my biceps and there are deep red ones near my pelvic area. Also some on my abs. im very fit, and have a good sized penis (6 inches), but I'm afraid a girl is gonna notice my stretch marks and leave me over them. so many girls my age have almost perfect bodies with perfect skin but I'm the loser who is stuck with these marks forever. Bio oil doesn't work! do I pretend that I'm religious so I have an excuse for not enjoying sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have the same problem. I have marks on my thighs from weight loss and I'm very self conscious about them, so I make sure the lights are off (since they're flat and can't feel them), l0l. But I don't think girls are going to be that picky about it when it comes to a guy. I wouldn't be. I kinda feel most girls are sympathic towards things like that if they even notice. Most girls probably won't even notice.

    • mine are very noticable. I look at other biceps of body builders and their biceps are smooth. It's not fair! I hope you are right, or that most girls think like you.

  • Use Olive oil, the kind you cook with :) it helps a lot, massage it on every night before bed and I don't know about other girls but stretch marks don't bug me, my man has some

    • where are his located?

    • biceps and love handle area, It honestly doesn't bug, everyone has little flaws hun

  • My boyfriend has some. I don't find them unattractive.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have them after completely turning my life around. The difference between me and you is, I didn't let my stretch marks hold me down. You can't let these things speak for who you are as a person, just live on and deal with shallow girls when they come. If you play your cards right, it won't be that big a deal.

  • Don't be so hard on yourself. I'm a hairy motherf*cker and I've never been turned down for that. If you're in great shape I doubt the vast, vast majority will care. Honestly, the ones that do, you don't want those ones in your life.

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  • you've got nothing to worry about.i would'nt even notice them in the first place. don't worry about it.really!

  • No one cares about your stretch marks, except for you.

  • Everyone gets them its like zits. No girl is going to really care they have a ton after giving birth. So think of it as passing them on to the girl :) if it helps hahah!

    Hope it helps

    • I don't think they are bad, but I don't have any. Maybe because I grew gradually?

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