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I slept with my best friend's dad...
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Okay this isn't some sick fantasy I had or anything. It only happened because I went to her dad for advice about this guy I like. (Yes I know I could have went to anyone but I thought he would give me the best advice because he is very honest with his daughter). Anyway I went over to her house to hang out with her, (I was gonna ask him when he got home), but her dad was the only one home. My friend wasn't there and his wife was shopping with their two other kids. (Note that we had never been close but it wasn't weird for us to be alone until more people came home.) Sense we were alone I thought I'd ask him about my issues and we got to talking, then he said it seemed I just had some misunderstanding with reading the guy and he had some book to help me out. I followed him to his room to get the book (I'd been in there before) and he started reading some things to me and then he got kinda touchy. This went on to the point of actually turning me on and I started touching him back. About 10minutes later he started eating me out then I gave it back and we had sex. We finished a while before my friend came home but I felt so wrong I couldn't hang out with her. She has been calling me and her mom said she missed having me around because I was like a daughter to her. My question is how do I fix this? I don't want to hurt them but sh*t I've done that already. Any advice would be helpful at this point...please :/
Updates:
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In case any of you wanted to know: I tried talking to the dad but he just tried f***ing me. So I told my best friend & she thought we should both talk to her mom. She was pissed & kicked out her husband. She told me that he had cheated before & she kept giving him chances. My friend feels awkward about this but wants to stay friends & her mom was more sad about it being me than mad. My friend & her mom want to help me work through it. Her mom is trying to work through things too.
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 29I know you feel bad about it because of your friend. Honestly though it was super hot wasn’t it.
don't sleep with your friends dad a man does not sleep with his daughters friend, and I am the last guy in the world to talk about ethics I dated a 13 year old girl when I had just turned 18, went to school with her older sister became brain injured since then god has a cruel sense of humor, I don't feel sorry for myself, god saved my life, I would rather be brain injured, than the crackhead I once was
I did that with both parents of my friend. She was at her grandparents house and I spent the weekend with them. It was glorious...
Both parents? Did you have a threesome with your friend’s mom and dad?
@kayla69
@minuteman12 Yes i did. Both of them
@kayla69 What happened? Like what sort of stuff did you guys do?
Hey even though you did a bad thing, you confessed to them and told the truth and for that Jesus is very proud:)
yeah creampie both the daughter and the friend is Joe Biden's America do what ya want
yeah F Bidden
You're a little tramp and you need to put your feelings in check. You just ruined a relationship and are playing the victim. The 'dad' should have known better but he's only human. You should have backed off the family if you couldn't deal with it but instead, you just had to try to have it all. But you can't. Only thing to do now is, either fulfill your fantasies without guilt-but if you can 't do that then be in control over yourself.
Well did you enjoy yourself? It's OK if you did and what you accomplish by opening your mouth? Honey the negativity in your mind if you kept quiet your relationship with your friend and her mom would be in tact and you would be getting some experienced cock discretely
You gotta tell the dad it cannot and will not happen again as you will not respond to nor accept any advances upon you. And you shall not come on to him. Tell him you prefer your friend, his daughter not be made aware of what happened and would appreciate it that his wife also not know about your inexcusable actions with an attempt to go back to the way it was before. Note that it will never be the way it was before however it doesn't have to be the destruction of a friendship (though your friendship lacks in countless ways obviously since FRIENDS don't do such things because they are too busy putting their friend first and foremost before themselves) nor the destruction of a marriage and family. Take responsibility for being the bad girl here. Don't worry about daddy and his consequences. It is none of your business what comes his way from the event. What matters is that you will not let it happen again having learned from your own poor judgment and stupidity (not insulting, admittedly it was a stupid thing to do). Finally if in the event it comes to light in the future it will be so well into the future that the shock and awe impact will be dampened by time and allow for some good quality of relationship to be sustained among you and your friend as well as her family. TAKE THEE TO A NUNNERY... LOL.
I hope u didn't lie that he raped you, or something else, because that's what you do best
Love it. I'd have fucked your brains out baby
You don't mention your age. Let's be honest, sex is a wonderful feeling and getting seduced sometimes happens, don't beat yourself up over it, it happened, it's over, it's the past.
To be honest, you should never have told anyone and just kept on banging him. You know you liked it and wanted more of it, or you would never have done it the first time you naughty girl. It's ok if you like it. It's not sick that he was attracted to you either, any man that says they aren't attracted to their daughters hot friends is a liar. I think it's hot when younger girls like banging older guys. Wish it was me.
well at least there is a good news to this disaster..just learn from this mistake and never do it again!
That was pretty dumb. Now all you did was hurt the family, (well there is no family anymore). You are not the victim, the wife and daughter is. You should've just kept your mouth closed, sometimes its better not knowing and I'm pretty sure the wife would have rather not known.
I doubt that she didn't want to know sense he cheated before and I already know I wasn't the victim. The family ended up getting hurt but it wasn't my job to protect them from the dad f***ing someone else. I did what I would want someone to do for me and that's be honest. I was honest even if I lost my friend. And you act like I was the only thing that broke up the family. If he was so willing to f*** me and he had f***ed other girls before then he wanted the marriage over.
I know I did something wrong and I'll take my share of the blame. If your wife f***ed a family friend who was close to you wouldn't you want to know?
I would rather not know, I'm not someone who forgives things like that so if I was to find then it would be over, completely, no second chances for me, even if that was best thing for the family. So if my wife cheats she better keep it to her self, unless she wants me to leave. I have no problem with you having sex with the guy (even though I don't condone that type of thing) I just really disagree with you telling, because if you hadn't everyone would be happy
Yeah and my friends dad would still be sleeping around on her mom. Some people want to know, I would want someone to tell me if my husband cheated and if I cheated I would tell. I'm not the type to lie. I f***ed up and now I feel like I did the right thing by telling. Especially, because she was glad I told. I'd honestly rather a broken family then lies and secrets in a "happy" one.
you're not a slut. just keep it to your self
maybe try going over there and hang out, and if he gets you alone again tell him you can't do anything like that again, he's probably thinking the same thing. it's definitely going to be awkward but maybe someday that feeling will go away. but I agree with the others, keep it to yourself. and no I don't think you're a slut or a homewrecker, you just got caught up in a bad situation.
wow what a slut you are
you managed to f*** over a marriage, f*** over your best friend, and sleep with someone who is old enough to be your dad, ALL AT ONCE
Well thank you for saying what I already feel like. I don't need to be told this, I need advice on how to handle it.
That's the thing with this site, blunt honesty gets you thumbs down.
That's because its not helpful sometimes
good call I didn't have to call her out because of you she is a slut
try talking to the dad, ask him what's the best thing to do. I'm sorry its not the best advice I just put myself in your shoes and that's what I would do. If he wants to keep seeing you SAY NO ! itll make everything so much worse and the last thing you want is to be the new stepmom to your ex-best friend. remember to always focus on the wrong of this whole situation. yes you can keep ignoring her, but in some cases you should really forget this ever happened and just keep going if it ends up being impossible to do that, just ignore her again until she gives up, if she confronts you and asks you to tell the truth DONT in some situations the truth is the worst way to go. breaking up a family isn't something you want on your conscience for the rest of your life.
You must carry this burden to your grave. It was a mistake and you must live with it. Don't tell for that is up to him. BTW how was it?
Well aside from feeling like sh*t afterwards...honestly it was f***ing hot! I mean he was really into it and it turned me on so much. He taught me a couple new things.
Then you will be back for more.
I doubt that. I usually don't do stupid sh*t like this and I highly doubt I'll do it again. Besides I can f*** other people.
Well I bet he gives you a call sometime. Its not everyday a married man gets to f*** a pretty young thing like you.
I don't really know how much he actually liked it but I do know that I was his first black girl (he's white). Well that's only if he hasn't cheated before. But the point isn't about the sex.
damn! The plot thickens. Just don't say you're missing your monthly next:(
Oh god I hope not!
Tell me who you are and I'll send you a message.
Don't ask here. This is a really difficult situation and most people here are just going to tell you over and over again about how you were wrong without actually helping.