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I went down on him but...
calixta21 Xper 4
I went down on my guy for the first time. He hardly made any noise but I heard him say "oh" and "god" a few times quietly, and he did rub my head and hold my free hand at one point. I went down on him for over an hour. Seriously. My mouth hurt and my legs were cramping, but HE DID NOT CUM! Does this mean I did something wrong? I feel like I couldn't do it right or something.
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OK Everyone was so helpful and I appreciate it. I just kept at it and learned some new tricks and really paid attention to his expressions and movements to see what he liked, and the next time I went down he came within 2 minutes! I was shocked. :)
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Also, I asked him after about 6 successful bjs why he didn't come the first time, and he admitted he was terrified he would mess up my bed and I would be upset, so he said he was thinking about his grandma the whole time trying to not cum. haha
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19 29k no matter what bjs feel great.. and yea don't just leave it in your mouth for awhile because it will get wet enough to wear it feels like its just water taking a shower.. but bjs do feel good. don't engulf it in your mouth the whole time, the whole thing mix it up.. lick it suck it, and just get a rhythm
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I seem to find that a guy can help with this situation when he moves your head (pulls hair) so he can get that 'rhythm' and pace he wants. That way he has some control in it. Also it's good to tease and add foreplay to get him rock hard. And I find that my guy enjoys it even more if you suck on his balls. It adds up and maybe you should try that.
I find that a slightly less crude way is to lightly guide her by putting your hand on her chin like you might if you were telling someone to 'Chin up'
dang, an hour? I would have been 20 min max! You must have been really desperate lol
LOL I know!! I bet he felt like a King on his throne for that whole hour haha. AHHHH man. lucky dude. you know ur girl loves you when...
Lol sucking a d*** for an hour, he musta enjoyed that hope he returned the favor