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If my boyfriend is watching girls on their webcams and talking to them online is it cheating?
kmays89 Xper 4
I am p*ssed because of this sh*t, I feel like he wasting my time and lying to me, I have asked him over and over again just tell me the truth and it has got to the point that I KNOW when I'm not at home that's what he is doing, on a website called fling.com and he's has lied for months about this and I think that's its a way to cheat on me and he don't understand that I feel that way...wait let me start over...my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2years and we kinda fell out with each other a few months back cause I went through his email and found emails to girls about hooking up and having threesome and all this sh*t, he says he would never cheat on me he loves me and he wouldn't lie to me which is not true at all I caught him in a lie already over the same sh*t. I'm feed up with feeling like I'm wasting my time on him I love this man with all my heart and I know that he is still not telling me the truth cause I check his sh*t everyday when I get home and he tries to cover it up and doesn't do a good job so I need to know am I just over reacting or do I have the right to feel like this deceived and lied too I can't take it anymore thought cause when I confront him about this he gonna make me out to be the bad person cause I've been go thorough his email and opening his websites and using his passwords but it wouldn't matter if he was doing right and I don't think that I really did anything wrong
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28 20well its not cheatin but I shouldn b carryin on like that. you should mayb keep an eye on him for awhile. approach him wit a cool head.
Just watching on cams and chatting isn't cheating. Trying to arrange a 3way IS. But yeah that's the only thing you said I'd see as cheating per details given.
Ye I don't care don't know y I even answered a qestion to a lower form of life better off in the jungle were they belong. wrecked america and are wrecking the world. hate people who brought out of the jungle never invented a thing in there monkey life, how can you respect someone if they hate them selfs they hate them self much more than we ever can tats funny you hate ur selfs so much the rest of the world hates you 2 to die starve I'm lovin ever soul tat passes I laught die we hate you starve. die yes burn
You are not overreacting. He's a dog. what you need to do is take that cute tooshy of yours and find yourself a new man who'll appreciate you. This guy's no good.
Leave his ass! You deserve better than that. At least find someone who doesn't lie to you. Lying while in a relationship breaks the trust ya'll have. Without trust a relationship fails.
i would have to say is cheating..i honestly think you should leave him if this is still going on after the first time it means he hasn't change maybe you need to leave him...sometimes that's what it takes to open someones eyes
It depends on why he's watching them. As far as the three some. Mayb he's trying to suprise you, or it's a sign he's getting a little bored with the bedroom? Try suprising him out of know where
Dump him. He doesn't respect you
I agree with DanielSan. If you've asked him to stop, and he doesn't, he is disrespectful. *Porn is Porn / Webcams are real live people. But don't break into his email. That is also disrespectful.
hell yeah that's CHEATING! dump his sorry ass
Dump that mother f***er! Webcams are real people on the other end... consider them e-hookers... if your boyfriend is using their services it says a lot about him and what he thinks about your relationship... He has issues he needs to work out with himself and while he does that he does that you don't need to be there for him... Leave that sh*t bag... Seriously or you're just being dumb and should smack yourself
oooh girl, I wish you good luck, you should talk with him about this and show all your feelings. throw your anger out!
Yep that's cheating. When I'm with a girl every other girl is like a rock to me. If he can look at other girls it means that you are just a place holder till his dream girl comes along.
Thats a nice morals to have but you have never been with a girl...lol
inmy opinion..i think you should give him an ultimatum, tell him that you are uncomforrtable with him doing that and if he doesn't stop then ur gone...if don't want to break it off like that.. . ask him if you are still attractive and sexy to him...but TRUST ME don't waist your time on guessing if he's cheating or not or if he's happy or not.
Yes it's cheating and lying. He's cheating at least with his mind. There is obviously no trust between you two and for good reason but with out trust there is no point in continuing the relationship.
yeah dump his ass and leave him to his webcam girls! loser! you deserve more! he's a cheater.
Sounds like he's less than trustworthy on the surface, but that doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating on you. I would let the webcam sh*t go. just try and think of that as a better way of masturbation for him, I mean...to a guy..which is better? webcam sex with a real anonymous girl, or watching porn? you should also seriously stop going through his emails.
Thats bullsh*t... porn is porn... webcams are real people... they offer more of a connection... webcammers are cheaters... they could be directing that sexual energy to their partner but instead they would rather spend it with some other girl online... pretty f***in pathetic
Porn is real people too..
Okay, first of all, my girlfriend would say it is cheating and I am inclined to agree to some extent. Secondly, going through his history and emails and what have you is just pain bad mojo, unless he expressly gave you permission to. But, at the same time, if you know he's lying to you, then I think you're both in the wrong and you should break it off and before you find another man, try working your trust issues... I know it sounds harsh, but it's probably for the best.
YOU BETTER GET RID OF HIS CAMERA, THERE IS NO DOUBT HE IS PROBERLY JERKING OFF LIKE CRAZY AS SOMEONE ON THE OTHER END IS ALSO MASTURBATING SEEMS TO BE THE NEW SAFE SEX JERKING OFF ON THE FACE OR ASS OR PUSSY THATS ON YOUR SCREEN.
It sounds like you have all the evidence you need to know exactly what he's all about. Anything with another female that makes you feel uncomfortable is considered cheating. If you've confronted him already and he isn't willing to respect you enough to stop what he's doing than I think you know what you should do. Find someone who will treat you right and give you the respect you deserve. Don't settle! It may bring temporary happiness right now but in the long run, you'll most likely regret it.
I wish you the best of luck!
I say yes but that's because I'm very jealous. But it depends on you if ur secure about your self than you have nothing to worry about.
He is cheating on you.
Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.