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Girls, if your boyfriend lost his penis in an accident would you leave him?
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Some interesting answers. I can see both sides of opinion. for those that would stay with him and still want to enjoy sex, i guess he could give oral and use fingers to try and get you off. Would you try and get him off by playing with and sucking his balls?
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It's nice to see a lot of girls showing their love in this question. But it is life changing so o I can see why some girls would react differently- especially if you aren't in a long term relationship.
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Girls could you stay with a man if he could no longer give u penetrative sex after losing his oenis in an accident? It's a life changing decision. There's a mixture of results so far. Honestly would you leave him? What would you say to him if you did?
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(19)I'd leave, I want kids.
Its easy for me cause im married and already have children and we don't have sex that often anyway so yes I would stay with him
Ah that's good. I wouldn't say it's an easy decision though. Maybe you are just a very giving person. Does he give u oral at the minute? If he gave u oral would u try and get him off by massaging his balls or sucking them?
I would do what he wanted but he doesn't really do that for me anymore
So if even after losing his penis he refused to go down on you, so u never we're gratified off him again, would u stay with him then? It's shit that he doesn't lick u out any more all girls should be given head if they want it. I bet you give him blowjobs when he wants though?
I do I actually like to give him bj but yeah if still stick around besides I have my own toys ;)
Ah man another girl who likes to give BJS Where do u all hide? Sorry if to personal but i am deprived of any bj activity. Cum in mouth? Swallow? Facial? Only on tits?
I swallow and on me is hot I don't do face though
You sound like a very giving lover indeed! Do u let it go straight down your throat or do u let him cum on your tongue and show him it first like in hot p*rn? Your another girl who swallows and doesn't receive. I always lick and never get sucked never mind swallowed. Maybe I should stop licking as it sounds like these guys always get head lol
If he wanted to see I could show him but he doesn't like that. I would like to get also but I know he won't so I don't ask. Pm me and we can discuss it.
No, he'd still have his tongue;)
Ha ha indeed. What did you vote?
Considering that I have to feel a lot for someone in order to be with them, then I would stay. Plus, it would suck to lose your penis and your girlfriend at the same time. I just hope I wouldn't hold any resentment cause that would ruin things in the future.
What if he allowed you to have one week a year to get it out of your system? Where you could have penetrative sex with another man without judgement? Do you think that would help you stay with him?
I doubt I would be okay with that. I'm not the type to sleep around.
If I got that desperate for that kind of penetration, we could use toys. It'd be disappointing for both of us, but I think we could adapt. It would be much harder staying faithful to someone who lost their mental capacity...
Good point
I'd leave him in a heartbeat and wouldn't feel bad about it.
Fair enough. It is life changing. What would your parting words be?
Farewell, eunuch.
Ooh that's blunt. At least he would know where he stands with you I suppose! It sounds like you would just move straight on. Would have sex with a intact penis man soon after if you met a hot guy? And if you bumped into him and he asked you if you had had sex since would you be honest or lie to not upset him?
Yea, why not? If I ever happened to bump into my ex dickless bf and asked such a thing, I'd be totally honest. So what's your story? You lost your dick and your girfriend/boyfriend dumped you for someone whose dick is still intact?
Actually you are right I had to have a partial penectomy procedure when I had a freak motorbike accident 3 years ago. I am past the feeling sorry for my self stage actually I am lucky I have a little stump of my penis left to pee out of so I don't have to sit down like some penile cancer patients, and yes my girlfriend did leave me but she was quite young and we had only been together for about a year so I have came to terms with it. it sounds like you would tease me but I'm past all that now. I am seeing what other girls would do as I'm curious if she acted like most would.
LOL'd real harsh at this. It seems that your ex gf and I could be good friends.
Did she call you eunuch before leaving?
Well that's up to you if u find it funny I might have got upset a while ago but I doubt u can say anything that bothers me now. No she didn't call me a eunuch but she did say she didn't think she could spend the rest of her life with a dickless boyfriend so actually you sre similar there but I had been really mean to Her and we were drunk. you would enjoy winding me up if it had been you I was with but meh whatever
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, There you go, a bunch of commas. Use them. Are you even concerned about your nonexistent dick? I mean, you're already old, it's not like you'd be using it for anything other than peeing if you still had it.
I'm hardly old at my age yes I would use it if I still had it actually but what do u know your just a silly little girl. I' can still cun so in not useless your probably ugly or just plain nasty
Ohh we're getting childish, aren't we? So lovely. Lol. "I'm hardly old at my age" - yea, right. Keep lying to yourself, dude.
Nah I just think you have a cruel outlook on it but I'm here to see what people's honest opinions are- eve. If they would make fun. I wonder if u would be as teasing in rak life or if your just like this on a keyboard. It was upsetting the way my girlfriend left me but I'd rather be alone than be with her if she didn't want to be with me or be with you as you seem wicked
I don't think I'd ever date a dickless, old person. But whatever.
I may have lost my penis but i am too good for you anyway if I ever started dating again I would want to meet a nice girl or a real woman not a petty brat 30 isn't that old an you will be 30 one day
Maybe I won't. That's what is so marvellous about life, the unexpected. We never know what's gonna happen next. Or did you by any chance foresee you were going to be dickless?
Of course I didn't see I would crash my bike and lose my oenis but like U said anything could happen in your life too. U might fall in love with a man who gets his willy chopped off somehow and u might be distraught and remember this convo and want to stay with him.
I doubt that it'd ever happen.
Well I can't imagine any guys wanting to be with you or have sex with you so it won't happen
Lol Why the fuck wouldn't anyone want to be with me or have sex with me? Stop being so mental.
Your personality is coming across as awful. No matter how nice looking u may be what can you do for a guy that will compensate for being so mean? If your like this in person I mean I wouldn't have wanted to fuck u before my accident. u need to act nicer in my opinion
Oh shut up, I'm a nice person. I wouldn't have wanted to fuck you either cause you're old. So nothing to worry here.
Well u didn't seem like it tbh. do you still think its funny that i am "dickless" actually just be honest or what's the point. So you would leave a guy if he lost his dick?
Hell yea, still laughing at your no dick story, dear old dickless one.
So if I met you in person and you realised It was me In a club what would you say? I am trying to see what girls honestly think before I start dating again I need the brutal truth i think. I did get mad yesterday but at least your being honest and not fake. I am quite fit by the way o go to the gym a lot and do sports but you wouldn't go for me if you knew I no longer had a penis?
I'm tryna figure out how I could possibly meet ya in a club. Sooo we're in lalaland and I randomly met you in a darn club (yea, right, randomly). If I realised it was you, I'd fucking crack up laughing. No words, just plain laughter. Sorry. Even though you're fit and healthy, I still would not go for you cause I'm basically in constant need of dicks.
And you're old too. It's another con.
Well I imagined if I'm i a club getting with a girl kissing her then she reached down and doesn't feel anything so I decide to be brave and think she can either take me as I am or not and slightly pull open my jeans for her to see i only have my balls now (my stump is only visible when hard) as she may as well know from the start to not waste each other's time. I need to know the worst outcome before I get out there so what would you say if you were that girl? As much as I was annoyed yesterday I am grateful you are being straight with me and no bull shit. I will have to deal with teasing and need to be ready for it. What would you say once you could see I have no penis? If another guy was there who u liked would you move onto him? Would you say anything if I looked bothered?
First of all, don't go unzipping in public. Second of all, I'd be too busy laughing to even bother kissing you.
You missed the point. It would be after kissing me- you find me attractive despite my " old" age but then discover my injury. What would yiur first reaction be?
I'd offer you a dildo :D
So even though I may be In a good job physically fit and be willing to do anything sex wise you would still not be interested? What would you say if I asked why you were so put off?
I'd say 'I can't stand speaking English for over half an hour with a man who's got no dick.'
Really? Well I'm sure there are girls out there who would be nasty like that. If I pulled away from you and started talking to another girl who was interested and I looked at you and said "I could have set u up for life / a luxurious lifestyle" and started kissing the other hot girl who is interested In me what would you say/do?
My very first reaction would be to kick your dick, but as you don't have it I would hit your head with a bottle instead. Maybe slit your throat afterwards. Nah, seriously, I'd still be laughing.
But with bottle and slit throat? That's not funny at all. What's wring with you? I'm starting to think your much younger than your 18-24 profile. In which case that explains a lot. It I so start dating again I will hopefully not bump into you.
Nah, I'm not lying about my age. I'm 22 so yea I'm not that much younger than you. There's nothing wrong with me, and I saw and comment you other question, genius. Don't date her.
Which other question? Date who?
Lol, it ain't gonna work, man.
Shouldn't you be in a club tryna hit on girls and convice them it's okay to date a dickless man?
It is ok to although I don't blame girls for not wanting to but I might find someone who can accept it. I can give a girl a lot. I haven't tried dating girls get actually since I broke up with my ex. I will chat up girls again one day.
What about men? You might find some love in a man's arms.
No I love girls and pussy
Don't be so close-minded. Guess you could have better chances hitting on active gay men.
Please tell me you spent the day tryna hit on dudes.
Don't be stupid I can't and won't fancy men.. When I start dating again I will go for nice girls and I believe I will meet some girl who I can make happy and who will make me happy. I can make a girl happy sex wise without a penis and in every other relationship way for sure
HAHAHA This made my night. Wanna know why you can't make a girl happy sex wise? Cause you don't have a dick. Stop lying to yourself.
Why don't you simply go to a club and see how women are gonna react to your lack of penis? It's definitely more effective than trying to figure this out online.
Well just tell me this so I m ow how bad a reaction it could be. Imagine your in bed with me you get undressed and are naked then you start to undress me. I'm worried about the next bit. You slide you hands down the front of my boxers and can't feel a penis. Shocked and confused yoh pull down my trunks and my balls bounce out and you realise I haven't got a penis just a indented circular scar about an inch or 2 wide with 2 circles and a small hole (my uretha) What would your first thoughts be? What would you say to me? I know you are blunt and truthful so I am interested what you have to say.
I wouldn't say anything. I'd simply take a picture of it and then start a new thread on reddit with it.
I wouldn't let u I would break your phone or camera if I knew That was your intentions
If you broke my phone/camera, I would really slit your throat.
Would ya send me a pic of your non-existent dick? No reddit involved in it, I swear.
How can I send you a pic you are anonymous? You haven't really answered my question about what u would think wen u seen it apart from take a pic and put it on reddit.
Those are only details. Anyways, I'd think I like dick way too much to be with you. So picture or no picture?
I would think about sending you a picture. Would you send me a picture of your minge?
How much are you gonna pay for it?
Nothing. I want a picture of your clean shaven vagina for free- that's in exchange of a pic of the scar from my amputated penis. It's not like you can see a lot of pictures of what I have o can see a million pussys for free online
That's reasonable. But you still can't jerk off to any picture.
I might not have a dick to stroke but I can sometimes still cum if I try to.
Gross. I'd rather not think of it. Yucks.
My ex gf fucked another guy and I found out. I called her some terrible names and vowed to kill the guy if I ever found him. She said some nasty things about what she did with him and what she couldn't so with me. She was normally a nice girl but just got to a point she needed to leave me. Whixh I undertand. I'm wondering what you would say to me if we had been going out and u cheated on me after my accident. Would you tease Me like she did? Or would u be more compassionate?
I would tease you.
I know it sounds weird but I have to know exactly what other girls would say as this was the last sex talk I had with a girl. She told me how she missed having a hard dick inside her and even missed holding one or sucking one (which made me mad as she very rarely sucked me when I had my penis) I told her we could have other sex and I woukd kill the guy if I got my hands on him. But she gave me one more kiss and ran her hand over my scar (about 2 months after) and felt my balls a bit and whispered "I hope u meet someone who isn't bothered by this but I can't help but want to enjoy a penis i am so sorry but I can't do this anymore". What do u think!
I think I've spent way too much time on you. Are you gonna send me a picture or not?
How would I send you a picture?
Upload it somewhere and then give me the link?
I'd probably leave. I know it makes me shallow but sex is sex. I've never been deeply madly in love though so what do I know maybe I'd stay but knowing what I know now probably not.
its not exactly shallow as at 18-24 you have your whole life to live. How would you tell him? What would you say?
I would have to leave too. Although I would feel terrible it would be better than leading him on or cheating on him.