If your girlfriend never showed you her boobs, would you be OK with that?

[Anonymous]

If you had a girlfriend who you eventually became intimate with and she never showed you her boobs during sex or ever and would never would you be OK with it?

[Twatazoid]

My girlfriend says she has the hottest boobs in the world, but for some reason she won't let me near them. I mean unless she's wearing her bra but otherwise its a no fly zone. So one day I thought I'd test the waters (knowing she has awesome breasts) and I told her "You're flatter than a wall" as a joke.

She got so pissed and told me she waus actually considering showing me them but not anymore. So now I feel like a douche because I'm so much more of a boob guy than an ass guy (even though her butt is absolutely smoking too). I don't know how to change her mind about it because there is so much I want to do to them, it's ridiculous.

I even threatened that I'd cheat on her with other girls that have nice breasts, but she called my bluff and told me "Well, there are many other fish in the sea for me too who would love to get with me."

We have a dysfunctional relationship. But I just can't take it anymore and really want to turn her on because breasts are my specialty.

Looks like it's back to p*rn for me...

G ? R

[dtaylor31906]

Some guys are hella shallow and rather you not show them you breast because they can't appreciate the female body like a real man should. Honestly I love big aerola and I'm sure I'm not the only one. I'm positive more guys like other different kinds of boobs that society thinks is unattractive.

but too answer your question I couldn't be with a girl who wasn;t comfortable enough with her own body to let me see it when we are getting intimate.

[peace-love-couture]

No guys do not care.Guys always say sagging and/or big areolas are unattractive and a turn off,so if a girl has either,then all she'll do is turn a guy off.

Sure,guys have "preferences" but none of those preferences involve unattractive t*ts...

I'd never show my t*ts to any guy,I know they are unattractive and I'd rather not be a complete turnoff.

[genevieve]

r you serious?

[peace-love-couture]

Yes,why wouldn't I be?

[dtaylor31906]

dont fill the question asker head with your insecurities, guys do care so you really can't generalize all of us in that category that are shallow pigs.

[peace-love-couture]

How am I filling her head with my insecurities?Not at all.I've heard plenty of times that sagging and big areolas are no-no's. Never used the word shallow.Don't put words into my mouth

[Cool-Relax]

Who are you hearing that from? I've heard guys say that big areolas are a turn-on before. Even if sagging isn't a turn-on, that doesn't make it a deal breaker either. My boobs are on the larger side, so they're not exactly "perky." I could make a list of things that I think make them unattractive, but the guy I'm seeing loves them. Guys don't pick apart our bodies the way we do, so the "no-no's" to us aren't always a big deal to them.

[peace-love-couture]

Nope,I've heard all of this from guys.Couldn't care less what girls have to think of body parts,this is all from guys.Mine are bigger too and not perky.Shocker

[Cool-Relax]

So you'll believe the guys who say those things and follow that information, but ignore what girls say based on their own experiences with guys? Those guys aren't the ones you want to get involved with anyway. The girls who are with decent guys are probably a better source of information on that one. Or decent guys...

[peace-love-couture]

Girls are irrelevant.Girls say lots of things to make other girls feel better. Obviously I will believe a guys opinion over a girls when it comes to male attraction...I'm not saying I won't pay attention to a girls opinion,I will,but most guys are picky about things like that.And it's called a preference

[Cool-Relax]

Honestly, I'm not a part of some big sisterhood, I have no reason to make you feel better about yourself. It's not like I know you personally. What I said to you wasn't my opinion, it was my experience, which means it's what a *guy* thought. Girls are the ones attracting guys, after all, so they might know something about how to do it.

[Southern_Belle]

So what about the guys who said they would not be OK with not seeing a females breasts no matter what they look like. You hear and see what you want to and you retain the information that validates your insecurities. If you only focus on the negative that is what you will get.

[peace-love-couture]

Nope,not retaining anything.Most of the guys on this site are desperate virgins who will take any vagina or t*ts regardless of what they look like.They say things,but if they like the girl they will accept their insecurities. Any girl can attract a guy,but clothes on and clothes off are two different things.

[Cool-Relax]

My story wasn't just clothes on... You said that what girls say is irrelevant, yet you answered this question even though it asks for a guy's opinion. So how are you qualified to answer it? You're doing the opposite of what you think girls do, you're pushing insecurities on the question asker.

[peace-love-couture]

Nope,I'm not.I'm re-stating everything I've ever heard from guys:)

[Anonymous]

that's weird. you're not comfortable showing him your breasts, but have no problem sleeping with him...?

[ebrady5]

i would not be OK with this. Sure, she may be self-conscious about her boobs or other parts of her body, but who isn't? I know I don't have the perfect physiche, but that doesn't keep me from getting butt naked and showing it off, flaws and all. If I can overcome my insecurity, I would expect her to as well.

[mk4711]

no, that's not okay. At least not if she has seen your d*** and your balls it's high time for her to show her boobs.

[sinful1620]

No. If she refuses to show me her body that's an obvious sign that she doesn't trust me enough to share herself with me.

[LillyBear]

wasn't this just asked yesterday?

[foolycooly1001]

no

[carlstatlin]

Not cool, don't care if they are big small perky or mud flaps she better bust them out. I love boobs so much I donate a 100 bucks to the breast cancer research foundation every year

[peace-love-couture]

Aww,do you really donate?

[carlstatlin]

yes I do. this year I did a walk for the cure thing and raised about 80 for it.

[skinnyriblover1]

When I first met my fiancee she always used to keep her bra on as she had such small boobs. She still has small boobs but one thing had changed, she knows I love them and now even stetches back and begs me to come over them. Now that's a good change!

But we only got to this point by her showing me them

[Anonymous]

pancake nipples,pepperoni nipples,sagging,big nipples,big areolas,flat chest,boy chest,tuberous breasts,banana breasts are all breasts us guys want you girls to get fixed or cover up.Until then keep them covered.Pretty breasts only

[dtaylor31906]

This is stupid maybe if you have a shallow guy like this dude its true but I promise every guy isn't like that