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Is it bad to be a virgin at age 18 (nearly 19)
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I read all these posts and most if not all of you seem sexually active. Is it wrong for me to be a virgin this late in my life? I want to lose my virginity, but I just cannot find the right person to lose it with. I'm a nice guy and I only really fall for nice girls (whom I suspect are also virgins). We never get too far. I've never even gotten a handjob or a blowjob from someone else. What is wrong with me? Am I going to be this lonely forever?
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28 18no! god no! good boy :) you make have hope still :)
I was 18 when I first got a girlfriend. Having one sucks. My advice: get one so you see how great it is to be alone. Have the guts to dump her when she starts being a bitch. I know I wish I did.
I'm 18 turning 19 this year and a virgin, making a choice to be a virgin until marriage. Please don't give your virginity away like it's something that you're ashamed of...be PROUD of it! It's the most special thing you could ever give your future wife :)
It's a great thing, dude... You have avoided drama that modern dating is... be proud that you are discovering who you are... and don't let yourself feel bad for not being sexually active rite now. As corny as it soundds, you're gonna meet 'the rite one' wenya least expect it
Here is absolutely nothin wrong with that I wish there were more guys like you where I am. Your young. I'm 18 a virgin and I plan on staying that way until I find the right guy. I promise most girls will think it's hott that you are patient.
no you're not going to be this lonely forever.
plus, the word "virgin" is pretty complicated (and it shouldn't be. it's just a word).
to be honest with you, I've never had a penis in my vagina (and I feel ok about that; I'm a little older than you are too).
think of it this way: you don't NEED someone to take care of you sexually. :D
nothing is wrong with you.
im 18 and waiting till marriage so yea lol
its not weird to be a virgin at 19. there's nothing wrong with you.
im 19 and still a virgin and a lot of people I know that are my age are as well. :)
don't do anything until it feels right.
dont worry about it man there's no rush,i have a few friends that are still virgins and I don't see them any different, I'm sure you will find someone that will blow your mind so stop worrying , worry will kill you lol just go out and had funnnnn and it will cum!
I am 19 and I am still a virgin just wait until you find the right girl.
Yes.
Nothing wrong with that. I'm 19 and I've never even held hands with a guy!
You're definitely not going to be lonely forever.
Trust me, there's something really sexy abut a guy who is a virgin.
He seems like a keeper.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Girls don't want to be with a guy who's been "blown" a bunch of times, etc. They want someone with values!
Unles they are just looking for a hook-up. Watch out for those ones.
im 17 and still going to be a virgin till I'm married
Good on you!
Well, I'm19 tomorrow and I absolutely HATE it.
Aww!! GOOD CHOICE. Nothing wrong with being a virgin, especially if it's by choice. =]
Nothing is wrong with you. I am 20 in college, been on many dates, have had boyfriends and I am still a virgin. there are days that I wish I was not. It is not about losing it. If you make the big deal out of it, it becomes a big deal. Everyone is different but you want it to be right. I am not with a guy who respects that I am a virgin and he is not, but someday he knows we may o maynot have sex.
There is nothing wrong with it at all. It is good because you have respect for your self. When the time is right you will know. Just enjoy life and do it when you are ready. Do not let anyone pressure you in to doing it.
No honey... you are saving yourself for the right one... there is nothing wrong with that and there is nothing wrong with you being a virgin... be proud of yourself... be very proud of yourself... don't give up on meeting ppl, but I found you meet the greatest people when you least expect it when you aren't around looking for it.. let it come to you,... you will know when the time is right...
Nothing wrong with it, save it to you meet a girl that you really want to be with. That makes it more meaningful.
NO. Its great and you shouldn't force it
Don't worry about it! I'm also 18 and still a virgin. Never been kissed either! I think when you find the right girl, things will just fall into place automatically.