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Is it bad to have sex on the first date?

Will a girl be a slut for having sex with a guy on the first date...im going on a date with this guy tomorrow...and he told me he wants me to spend the night with him...but I really been wanting to have sex with him...we where first good friends and then we started liking eatchother & now he wants to take me bowling then out to eat then spend the night..Will I be a wrong for having safe sex with him On the first date... or Will I be considerd easy& why? good and bad opinions are needed thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you want that man badly enough and he passed all of your initial tests to gain your interests, go for it. Skip the troublesome stuff. Afterall, a woman doesn't screw just anyone right? You had known this man for quite some time now, which means he wasn't FriendZoned from the start; he passed the First Impression Test which is so critical for women during first contact with a man. So, in this situation, I would say sex was a long time coming.

    I like sex on the first date. It means that this relationship is a green light and there will definitely be more of it, unless it was made absolutely clear that this is nothing more than a fast fuck.

    I salute you. We need more women like you: knows what she wants and goes for it. We can only wish more women were more flexible with their choice of men...

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...er...um...

    oh boy

    I wish the best for you

  • I personally prefer a date with girls who don't have set time frames on when to do things. I personally take girls more seriously when they have sex sooner compared to girls who want to have sex but can't bring themselves to do it.

    A lot of girls who wait I find cheat the system anyway. There are girls out there who do silly things like anal sex just so they claim they are a virgin. Anal sex can be up to 18 times riskier when it comes to HIV transmission compared vaginal sex... all for a "virgin" title.

    Basically if you find that you want to have sex with him and trust him in that aspect, just be safe about it. If he turns it around and says you're a slut, he's just being a dick really. It's not you. You could always throw dirt back on him and tell him he's a minute man or shitty in the sack. Bruising a man's ego sexually is torture for a guy who is insecure.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he's already asking for you to spend the night, I don't see it as a "date" date, more of foreplay to the hookup/bootycall. If you're cool with that and aren't looking for anything more with this guy (be honest with yourself), then go for it. But if you actually are looking for a relationship with him, I would skip out on the spending the night to test his intentions.

    Just make sure you're on the same page. No woman should be considered a slut just because she is sexually active as she pleases. Just be safe, smart, and make sure you're honest with each other.

  • it will definitely make you look easy, honestly. some guys don't care. but if you have sex so fast it will make him think you do that with everyone. if you want to have sex have sex but if your priority is a relationship I don't think it's the wisest idea.

  • dont have sex with him on the first night. I don't know if I would say its "slutty" but its not very lady like.

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  • I always say have sex when you ready and aren't expecting anything out of it but mutual pleasure or a kid...

    Your fear of potentially losing this guy or being seen as being easy is holding you back so I will say that on this instant you shouldn't have sex. It is normal for a woman to want to protect her sexual reputation even if she really wants sex too. Just let him know that you aren't ready ( if you truly aren't). Maybe a few dates in when you trust him and yourself more you'll be in a place where you won't feel socially cautious to have sex

  • who cares what the world thinks.

    Live life by your own standards

    do what makes you happy

  • I only think its bad because sex can complicate things. I wouldn't think your a "Slut" If you choose to go through it with a guy, that's your choice

  • No way, it dpends. Have fun.

  • These days? No

  • It won't make a difference really. If he likes your personality anyway, he's not going to stop liking it. I had sex with my current girlfriend on our first date, we've been together now five years

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