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Is it common for girls saving their virginity for marriage to use anal sex as a substitute?
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I'm dating a really religious girl and we were talking about sex and started talking pretty serious about it. I told her I don't know if I could wait until marriage like she is and she said not to worry she can still do stuff to keep a man happy. She said she used to have anal sex with her ex boyfriend a lot and gave him oral sex. I was surprised she would have anal sex and she said that is what most of the girls she went to Catholic school with decided to do since they would get into to much trouble by their parents if they ever got pregnant and then they could still technically be virgins until they're married. Is that really what a lot of girls do?
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I wasn't expecting so many girls to have mean responses about her. If you met her in person I don't think you would talk so mean about her because I think you would agree she's a really nice person that does a lot of good things. I understand people are disagreeing with her that she's a virgin but there is no need to hate on her for it. In her defense she is still medically a virgin since no penis has entered her vagina.
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I don't get why everybody is saying she is such a hypocrite. She just has a different definition of virginity than you because of the environment she grew up in and people she is around. It's not like she is lying and saying she's never touched a man before she just considers herself a virgin since she has saved her vagina from being touched by a penis.
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People here are really quick to judge. I was just wondering if lots of girls do this or not but it seems like lots of people just want to criticize the person I mentioned in my question. I honestly don't care if she is a virgin or not. She's not the type to sleep around, she's only done sexual things with her ex who was her high school sweet heart and she thought he would be the one she would marry back at that time. She's a good person whether we agree with her definition of a virgin or not.
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 11She's fake and hypocritical. Doing that makes her cheap. It's like buying a used car but the salesman tries to convince you that it's brand new and never been used before. Then you get inside of it and it's very evident that you've been mislead. I think you should call her out on it.
I admit I think it's a little weird but technically she's still a virgin to me since her vagina has never had a penis inside of it. So I'm saying the car I'm most interested in is still brand new.
Well then you're a little shallow if you won't think bigger and open your mind to the fact that this chick is two faced and she needs to be called out on her hypocracy
She's stupid. I'm sure she's blowing a bunch of guys too. I've heard it before, though. This one girl on the radio said that she had anal sex to preserve her virginity, and now she is a prostitute at the Bunny Ranch. lol wtf?
It's an antiquated definition of virgin. Not sure why people still try to use it now.
@update: Well, she says she's saving herself, and she really isn't. Plus, it's even more amusing because sodomy is considered a sin, isn't it? lol
I don't know if it's common, but I've heard of girls doing it.
I think they're being fake as hell. They want to be a virgin and have the benefit of guys thinking they're rare and feeling special because of them, yet she wants to get a d*** in her too. I think it's bullsh*t and it's a disgrace to the point of being a virgin. The point of being a virgin is to save yourself, but they're kind of like "cheating".
I'm a virgin and I will not do that because it defeats the entire purpose and I think it makes virgins look like huge hypocrites.
@Question update I'm not hating on her. I am a virgin who has never even been fingered so if anything, I'm more of a virgin than her and I have nothing to hate on. It's the principle of the fact that she claims to be highly religious yet she's taking **** in the ass. She's a hypocrite and virgins like her piss me off because they are FAKE. They're misrepresenting what they're truly about.
@ question update No, she's a hypocrite and you're probably just defending her because you want to get in her pants. It's very hypocritical for a female to say "I'm going to save my virginity for marriage so that my husband will be the only one to have me." yet let multiple guys screw and maybe come in her ass. She's a hypocrite and she wants to have her cake and eat it too
The cheating aspect makes it even more fun. Girls want anal. All the other stuff is window dressing.
anal SEX is STILL SEX hence the word sex after the name. she's not a virgin its still penatration.
Right. I cannot orgasm from moving my hips back and forth. But I can orgasm from moving my hips back and forth -- with my dick in her ass. So anal is sex. And maybe better than vag for many girls.