Is he cheating? Guys, what's your opinion?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. I went out of state to pursue a chance to play on a professional female soccer team and it became an LDR and we agreed to remain exclusive. I came back after training last month and usually it is a huge thing when I come home after long absences. Dinner, movie, then right to his place. Well he said he had plans that night and would call me in the morning. I met up with him that next morning and he had a hickey on his neck. I freaked out and he told me he had been at a club with his guy friends and some random girl came up and planted it on him. Uhm ok? Its not like a hickey is a sneak attack move! So we spent the day together and I slept at his house. I left my wallet in his truck and went to get it in the morning when I wokeup. Under the seat I found an empty box of comdoms and a few pictures ofhim and some chick. I confronted him and he jumped up on his bed and screamed at me. Told me I was a stupid whore and I should just leave! So I left. I haven't talked to him in a couple days despite the constant texting and calls I'm receiving from him, begging for me to talk to him. I'm beyond a doubt convinced he is cheating with the 17 year old girl in the pictures. His explaination for the condoms was that his friend had left it in his truck to hide it from his girlfriend and the pictures are of him and his 17 year old "pot dealer" and "friend". I'm 24 and he is 22. Guys...seriously? What's your take on this.

[THAT-1-guy]

Umm its kinda obvious he has a hickey(they just don't appear out of no where)----empty box of condoms IN HIS TRUCK ---he gets mad when you confront him about it----- he hasn't talked to you in a couple days (he is preparing his lie)----there are pics of her and him y would he keep those? Add this all up and see what you get

[MrOracle]

He's cheating on you.

Unfortunately, this is a common problem with LDRs. LDRs require enormous commitment and dedication, and the sad truth is that most people don't have what it takes.

It sucks, but the only thing to do is leave him and move forward.

[latina1985]

hickey and condems dead give away as is the photos. And when you confronted him about it and he got mad at you. self explanitory. He's gulity. I went through the same thing when my ex was working out of town and I caught him talking to another girl, he tried to make me look like I was a cheater

[queenofpeen]

Dude, even if he's not cheating on you (which I really think he is), he called you a stupid whore. Stay away.

[Asker]

Thanks girl :) I confronted him via text and he wouldn't admit it to save his life. The evidence is pretty ridiculous. I'm so done, where in the world are the faithful guys? *Sigh*

[queenofpeen]

They're out there :) I'm sorry this happened to you, thinking about breaking up after four years must be insanely hard. But no one deserves to be treated that way.

[Guytalks]

Sorry to hear your story. I'd say it's 99% sure he was cheating and been deceitful to you. I hope you find someone worthy of your love and efforts.

[l-hedoniste]

Confirm with him, but this looks over. Sorry.

[jds22]

Nah he definitely is. Especially if he shouted that at you, you should take off and not even think twice. No man should ever say something like that to you.

[Asker]

Thank you :)...the evidence was pretty clear, but don't you hate that little denial stage where you try to convince yourself its not true despite the evidence? Thank you for your take on things. I guess I kinda needed a straight to the point answer from someone not involved :). I am done with him.

[7gnat]

there are faithfull guys out there but he is not one of them. he has some nerve for calling you the whore when he is.

[Dom163]

He is cheating