Is it normal for a man to be super hairy?

[Anonymous]

I am a guy and am super hairy, am way too hairy than other men around me. I have coarse long dense thick cover of hair almost all over my body from down below neck to ankles. Seriously it sucks me. I feel less of a human, low self esteem low self worth esp in terms of women n sex appeal. I want to keep myself away from women, dating sex and relationship forever.

[thephilosopher]

I know how you feel. I have thick hair all over my body and I can grow a thick beard if I wanted to. Thankfully I don't exactly have "carpet," but It grows long enough to curl and make my chest dark because of the hair.

Ladies; you may want to look away.

Here's what I do:

I use a "BaKblade" for my chest, back, upper arm, butt and upper thighs. Then I take hair clippers (same kind your barber uses) with no guard on my arms and legs and "blend" the hair. (look up hairstyle "blending"). Then I pull on the switch that makes the guard longer (built in one, not external) and trim my arm pits. Make sure you get a good set with never-oil blades. Next, I use an old beard trimmer and use a longer setting on the hair on my groin and crack. Finally, I take a shower and use a razor to clean up any hair only on the shaft of my penis.

Before the back blade I used the same clippers with no guard on my whole body. I tried creams and waxes and what not and my current method seems to be the best.
I do this every month or so and I'm always groomed. I know it feels like most guys don't have this problem but it's just a small thing you gotta do to be clean like them or even better. Oh and practice makes perfect, it used to take me up to an hour and now I can knock it out in less than 15 mins.

Trust me, you will look like a freakin' model when you're done.

[OpenClose]

Furr.

I think if you are naturally hairy, girls like you being naturally hairy. If you are not naturally hairy, being hairy might make you seem unkempt.

You wanna know a famous guy who was super hairy? Robin Williams. And everyone goddamned loved him, fur and all.

You've got nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

Sorry dude, I didn't get what you are trying to say?" If you are naturally hairy" , girls like you, but " if you are not naturally hairy it makes you feel unkempt", what does that mean? Naturally hairy and not naturally hairy? What's the difference? And did the women liked the super hairiness of such famous celebs?

[OpenClose]

Yeah, that was worded a little weird. It's kinda like people who can't grow facial hair very well look best clean-shaven. But when you can grow a legit beard, people find it awesome when you wear it proudly. Plus, hairy chests and arms on guys used to be a big sexiness staple. Heck, just look past James Bonds. And a lot of girls today still seem to like it.

[Asker]

Lol ooohh okay, yup that was a bit oddly said! Anyway. But what about hairy shoulder, upper arms, stomach and even sides of back? :/ :(

[OpenClose]

I don't know. I mean, I have a friend who has all of that. Hair everywhere. Arms, back, sides, feet. Thick Black hair. And that included arm-length hair on his head and a full beard. He didn't seem to have too many problems, with the exception of a gay roommate with a phobia of hair. He is now happily married, and I can tell you from knowing his wife and previous girlfriends, they liked having their "big ol' teddy bear." That's bearing in mind he was also quite overweight.

[Asker]

Lol wow :) this guy inspires me to feel normal. :)

[DaniaMQ]

Well, guess what? I have a similar problem, its not that I am super hairy but its more than other girls, I went to the doctor and it was a hormonal problem that CAN BE SOLVED.. So since you feel like it isn't normal, go to a doctor and see if there's a problem... But don't worry! There's lots of girls that prefer guys with lots of hair ! I'm not kidding ! So don't worry, calm down and do like I told you, everything will be ok 😊

[Asker]

Yeah I feel weird to grow lot of hairs even on places like shoulders , upper arms n sides of back, and am dead sure girls won't like hair on those places at all. I will try n seek doctors help :)

[DaniaMQ]

Yes you Go a doctor and they will tell u what's wrong 😊 good luck 😊

[Asker]

So, your hairiness has reduced after treatment? And infact I like somewhat hairy legs sometimes, its fun to see sometimes hairy legs and sometimes waxed , naturally bald legs is boring :p

[DaniaMQ]

Hahahahha 😂 your girlfriend will love you so much when she knows that you also enjoy seeing hairy legs 😂 😁 yep, what I have doesn't just affect on more hair growing, it affects also the acne, and other girly things lol 😆 anyways , yes I'm getting better, it needs years of treatment but I noticed the difference since the first months , so yep, in definitely made me feel better! 😄🙈

[imanf7]

what kind of doctor?

[DaniaMQ]

@imanf7 to a doctor of hormones, he will ask you to do some analysis first and then he will do his job by telling you what you have and need and blah blah blah 😁

[Eat_Lead91]

Yeah hormones are responsible for all of your hair growth. Any physical activity, especially heavy, strenuous activity will cause a release in testosterone which will promote hair growth. I didn't start getting a hairy chest until I began working out and lifting weights properly. Basically I have to shave my face at least once every 2 days on weeks that I work out, but I find on weeks I take off from the gym, my hair only grows half as fast and I can get away with shaving once every 3/4 days, although I will still get a lot of stubble after 24 hours either way. Actually right now I am rocking a small week long, beard. Anyway, my point is, regardless of whether you are male or female, your body genetics may be predisposed to have higher amounts of testosterone than average. A woman has just as much of a chance as a man of producing 10% more testosterone than your body needs, which will then result in hairiness. I guess we just have to live with it.

[dr34mz]

It's very normal and you're not alone. It also shouldn't be a reason, there's tastes for everything, there ARE women who will like it. I, myself, like hairy men. But that's just details, because mate it really shouldn't matter. If it bothers you, can always go and shave, if you want/can/have money for it.

[Asker]

I don't know , but I am really very hairy. Thick dense long curly coarse hairs at most of my body :/ it seriously sucks. And yeah some of you might like hairy men, but not super hairy men, the way I am :'( I seriously from bottom of my heart hate being super hairy like a dirty gross beast.

[dr34mz]

Don't be sillyyyyyyyyy! Hair doesn't make you look dirty or gross. I know plenty of guys who are VERY big time hairy and they don't look like that for me when we go to beach. Bodies are just bodies.

[Asker]

O ya? So you see super hairy men, even with really hairy torsos, shoulders and all stuff and it doesn't look dirty gross untidy unkempt beastly to you? It's sexually repulsive, I guess.

[dr34mz]

It's not repulsive for everyone! Some people like some people don't. Like in everything else.

[Asker]

So its perfectly normal and fine? And not a problem at all in terms of women, relationship and sex appeal? As a girl you are totally fine with this much hairiness? Or do you feel such guy needs some sort of shave n wax n trim somewhere?

[dr34mz]

In ***MY*** opinion, I like both hairy (yes, VERY hairy or just medium hairy) and shaved. I like both for different reasons, it turns me on for different reasons. And I am not the only girl in the world who likes it. Of course the vast majority wants a muscled, soft shaved, shiny, model like, alfa male boyfriend. It's only human and biological to seek what is the current standard of HOT and STRONG. But many girls like skinny/lanky guys, hairy guys, geek guys, submissive guys, chubbier guys... There's always someone who's gonna like you, sexually and emotionally, in any way.

[Asker]

What are those "different" reasons may I have the honor to know this without offending you? And seriously you don't find super hairiness to be gross beastly dirty? I am this hairy and seriously feel beastly dirty all the time.

[dr34mz]

If you feel like that, then wax. And well I can't exactly explain the reasons, they're just different feelings about it. It's how it is.

[Asker]

Hmm ok. U know what I even have long coarse hairs on fingers n toes :/ Anyway it's OK. You won't get how it feels to be this hairy.

[Blonde401]

I love a hairy guy! Rock what you got. It just means you have more testosterone surely? Hairy bod isn't a bad thing dude, seriously. There are chicks that like that. If you're not into it yourself? You can always start waxing some areas until you're comfortable. It's your body, love it.

[AmandaLynn1930]

It's not uncommon for men to be very hairy...
U just gotta find someone who likes a hairy guy.
If u don't like the hair, then find what u can do to make it look nicer, or remove it...

[MichelleJustAsking]

You've posted this question before. Have you done anything to seek laser hair removal treatment?

[Jxpxtxr]

I think it's because you just have the hairy genes, if you don't like all the hair (and yes, it's not particularly attractive) just get rid of it. ;)

[Asker]

I know its grossssssss.

[Poppykate]

Don't most guys?

[Asker]

No ma'am MOST guys aren't super hairy as I am. So obviously not most guys do it. Do you as a woman feel that most men are super hairy? O you are so very wrong on this.

[Poppykate]

I grew up around Italian men, who are super hairy! So hairy is normal to me.

[Asker]

So, doesn't it sexually repulse and out you off since it is dirty gross?

[ThatAsianFellow]

Im one of those odd Asians that can grow a full on beard and got body hair.. :/ but it lets me look more rugged and i dont mind it too much xD

[Asker]

Lol, that might look quite odd to have hairy chest as a Asian guy! What's the reactions if other guys and esp the Asian girls?

[SomeKindOfPerson]

You could do laser hair removal. It's a little pricey, but it works and doesn't hurt. Too much.

[BreatheMe19]

It. Kills. KILLS.

[SomeKindOfPerson]

@BreatheMe19 the pain you mean? I've done it and it wasn't that bad.

[BreatheMe19]

Maybe you're just pain tolerant? I was literally crying. I also think it depends where on the body you do it.

[SomeKindOfPerson]

@BreatheMe19 Oh yeah. I think it does. I heard it hurts a lot in the crotch area.

[BreatheMe19]

Oh. My. Goddd.

[SomeKindOfPerson]

@BreatheMe19 :( sorry

[BreatheMe19]

Haha, don't be.

[MissNowhere]

I suppose it's because of genetics.
You know there's always waxing and laser hair removal. It's not the end of the world.

[Asker]

Yup its not the end of world, but sometimes it does feel like it is the end of world! You won't understand.

[Happierthanever]

Men are mammals and mammals have hair, the length and density of hair depends on genetics but all humans will have body hair to various degrees.

[Asker]

Normal? But gross,?

[Happierthanever]

That will depend on the person as each person has their own tastes. I am not bothered by hair, if a woman I am seeing has slight arm pit hair, peach fuzz, leg hair or strands of hair on her arms it doesn't not make her any less attractive in my eyes. I'm a hairy man, I have chest hair, some hair on my back, the back of my neck, my arms, my legs, my genitalia and my anus area and if a woman has a problem with that, she is free to go and chase the millions of hairless men that live in our societies. I am not changing for anyone but myself.

[Asker]

Uhmmm so even you do have a hairy front torso! Great.. Ever felt or made to feel dirty gross n weird by other men or women?

[Happierthanever]

Most of my hair is located on my chest with virtually nothing on my stomach apart from a small snail trail but yes I have received a lot of negative comments and comments made in jest. I get told I resemble a bear and I have more hair on my chest than on my head etc, but I don't let it bother me, I just crack on with life. If I took every negative comment said about me to heart then I'd never get out of bed in the morning lol.

[Asker]

Lucky you dude. my hair is in whole of my front torso. How do you manage to stay positive despite being poked? Any girlfriend ever told its sexually repulsive?

[Happierthanever]

I stay positive because I am secure with who I am and my body, I like my body, I feel I am handsome and so I don't take people's opinions of me seriously because I only value my opinion of myself and no they haven't ever said that my chest hair is sexually repulsive. One of my ex's loved it.

[Asker]

Only 1 woman loved aww :/ :p

[Happierthanever]

She was the best girlfriend out of the lot because she accepted me for who I was, what I was and never tried to change me. Unfortunately it never worked out but I remember her fondly.

[nakedalligator]

What's wrong with being hairy?

[Asker]

Nothing wrong in growing lots of thick hairs almost everywhere?

[nakedalligator]

Why would it be, means your a sexy beast. -nohomo-

[Asker]

"" beast" :/ that's the problem, it looks like a beast, unkempt dirty. While other people esp women look so clean, nice angelic with smooth skin. and women don't like so hairiness I guess. by the way, are you also by chance this hairy?

[nakedalligator]

Not as hairy as you are describing, but I have hair on most all my body. (chest, back, stomach, legs arms) Yes women look like women, why do you want to look look like a women? It's the way you are, you should embrace it. Your problem isn't that your hairy. it's that your not confident in your body. It's not "dirty", it's masculine and women like that, even the ones that say they don't.

[Asker]

Mmmm yeah, I think you got it right that I am very insecure and not at all confident being this hairy. And I can't imagine myself being this hairy and next to a smooth skin if women, I would feel so weird beastly and odd. "" women like that, even the ones who say they don't"", lol why n how do you say this? MOST actually say they don't like, but if they are OK or like it then why would they say they hate or don't like it?

[nakedalligator]

They don't know what they like, they'll change their mind if they like you, but if you don't even like you they won't, women are much more attracted to confidence than anything else.

[Sam19XX]

I am extremely hairy as well and i dont feel that way even after reading your question but anyway , if you dont like it , shave it !

[Asker]

So you don't feel insecure, inferior n weird esp next to hairless skin if women? And most even older men are less hairy than you? by the way dude, do you get girls attention or have gf? Without pokes. N all?

[Sam19XX]

Yeah i definitely do. A lot. Actually i have seen a poll here on gag a couple weeks ago that asked if women liked guys with shaved arms/legs/chest , more than 70% preferred hairy dudes. And no i do not feel insecure at all. Still, if you dont like it you can get rid of it. That doesn't make you gay or anything.

[Asker]

Wow, which poll, so you have any link of that poll, because generally women do prefer shaved smooth torso. Well, is your torso also very hairy? U go to gym, beach n all without stares n comments from men n even teen girls your age?

[Sam19XX]

No i dont have a link.. I saw it a couple weeks ago , i didn't bookmark it or anything but i was surprised to see the results. And yes my friends tell me that that is a lot but hey ! If the girls like it then why the hell should i care about my friends' opinions?

[Asker]

Aww wish I could see that poll. lol Do you know what real life girls around you feel about your hairiness? Wish I was as confident as you r despite being a teen.

[Sam19XX]

No i dont know what they think about it but i do know that many of the girls at my school find me attractive and all i can say is ; Its all about the hairstyle. Believe me ! A good hairstyle will make your face and eyes look better ! Then comes the skin and the body. Everything else (including body hair) is just unimportant.

[A-Y-Y-Y--L-M-A-O]

I'm just like you man, I'm hairier than my dad it's weird how shit works

[Asker]

Aww dude. You feel gross dirty weird beast?

[Ohsnapitsjo]

You can try waxing, if it makes you feel insecure. Its your genetics

[Asker]

Of course it does make me feel very very very insecure. It's no fun being super hairy , the way I am , obviously.

[SpecialWael]

Hey man whats up? U are okay and its totally normal.. there are a lot of guys like u super hairy and they are proud of that !
I'm sure that there are a lot of girls like hairy men , So just be more confident and everything will be okay don't worry :)

[Asker]

Proud of it? I feel they try to show that they r proud but deep down they do know they are gross n repulsive to women.

[SpecialWael]

No bro , I swear they don't ! Believe me a lot of girls like hairy guys like u

[Asker]

Seriously dude? That girls do like super hairy men like we are? Where r they hiding then? No girl ever said this here.

[SpecialWael]

Yeah really ! No i saw girls here said that they like hairy guys

[Asker]

I suppose they meant hairy, not super hairy!

[SpecialWael]

The ones who like hairy will like the super hairy , Just be more confident and don't worry :)

[Asker]

I hope it is true bro:) Thanks

[Anonymous]

It's pretty normal yes. I am just as hairy and I use kerosene and a lighter.

[Anonymous]

I wish I had a lot of hair hair makes you look like a man

[Anonymous]

WOAH! Who taught this gorilla to type?

[Opinion Owner]

... It's probably not as bad as you think.

[Asker]

Omg girl! :/ you seriously thought to poke fun at me? Hmm, anyway , didn't feel nice reading this. Thanks anyway.

[Asker]

Omg girl! you seriously thought to poke fun at me? Hmm, anyway , didn't feel nice reading this. Thanks anyway.

[Anonymous]

You know, as I recall, in the old James Bond movies, Sean Connery was a pretty hairy dude when he had his shirt off. A lot of women seem to find him attractive.

[Asker]

But he didn't had a hairy back n shoulders :/ :p

[Opinion Owner]

True, but he looked like he was still wearing a sweater in the front lol. He was also going bald and had an excessive sweating problem, so I don't think you have a whole lot to worry about.

[Anonymous]

do wax. problem solved!

[Asker]

That's a solution to be appealing to women and get love n sex. But is it normal in first place to grow such hairs?

[Opinion Owner]

for some men, yes. what ethnicity are you? if you're really concerned about it go see a doctor

[Asker]

For some men yes , its normal wow :) thanks.