Is it morally right to masturbate to your crush's pictures?

Ok so I'm not saying I've done it! I'm just saying that I feel terrible considering wanting to do such a thing. Especially knowing that she might not know if you like her. Like what I meant is photos on Facebook... What do you guys/girls personally feel about the subject? I'm more of a shy guy so she probably doesn't notice me, but there will always be those times where I find myself dreaming/fantasizing about her. Please, no negative downgrading comments! I'm simply trying to ask if this is an immoral thing to do.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • it is normal to masturbate to an opposite gender who is not your family and is not underage. I don't understand why some people think its immoral just because the masturbation object in your mind is someone you know and like so much... do they mean you have to masturbate to someone you don't know? does it make you have good morality ?

    • That is indeed a good point you stated. How does masturbating to someone you know vs. someone you don't know much different? If anything, to somebody you actually like seems to make more sense.

  • Yeah it's a little sick because you download her Facebook pic without her permission, and jerk off on it. How would you look her in the eye next day?

    • Very good point you make. Would definitely make conversation with her strange in person.

Most Helpful Girls

  • yea it kinda is, I mean if you were dating her and if she's not around or had a trip somewhere and then you would have done that would be understandable and cute! Just imagine doing it with her in the head, even though its not much different as to jerking off from her pics but hey at least its way much better and less creepier

    • I appreciate your comment. It is definitely how I saw it as well.

    • Gettting pleasure from something she will never know and doesn't affect her is not inmoral. And its kind of necesary if she is not into you, it could help you release frustration.

  • I may not understand it but I don't think it's "immoral." You're not hurting her, and you're probably not doing it with malice, haha. I can understand the point of view that consent is an issue, but this is something that doesn't affect her at all.

    • Yeah I suppose it wouldn't effect her, unless she figures things out... then things may get awkward... and ugly!

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  • I personally couldn't even bring myself to do it, the whole, picture part dealy.

    Now fantasizing in my head? Well that's a different story.

  • I say...there;s nothing wrong with that imo.

  • Its something I've done, can't say I'm proud of it though. I think its normal to fantasize about your crush we just happen to be more visual.

  • No. I do it all the time.

    • Your not anonous for once lol. You've gotten a lot of xper points really quickly lol

    • Lol this was a long time ago

  • I'm doing to but I fear that I might loose her thinking that it will be immoral. I'm doing it because I really love her.

  • Hi, yeah I think it’s normal I have a huge crush on a guy and I find my self masturbating thinking about him I mean I feel terrible after lol but I think it’s just human nature When you’re attracted to someone special if you can’t have that person.

  • Could it ruin the friendship

  • I'd say it's fine. She made the pictures public, so it's not like you are jacking off to some secret stash of her pics or something. Just don't tell her. It might seem immoral if you have to keep it a secret from her, but it's truly not hurting her or anything. She just might feel weirded out if a person who she is not dating said that they jacked off to her pictures.

  • Is nothing bad. I even do it for a female friend of mine. I enjoy more to masturbate about someone I have seen in real life, it makes it more real.

  • of course its not immoral, I do it all the time and I'm a priest.

    • Really? Woah that's interesting... never thought I'd hear anybody say that!

  • It is a bit creepy but I don't think it is immoral.