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Is my boyfriend overreacting about my bikini accident in front of his friend?
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It was finally warm enough yesterday to go to the beach here in South Florida although the water is still pretty cold, my boyfriend, 2 of his friends, and myself drove down to Key West yesterday to go to the beach. They all brought their surfboards although I did not plan to surf I just wanted to lay out on the beach. When we got there they all ran straight for the water I laid out for a while then my boyfriend tried talking me into going surfing with them but I told him I wasn't exactly wearing the best bikini to be surfing in and he told me not to worry about it, I warned him again that a big boob girl should not be trying to surf in a strapless bikini but he was persistent. I got on the extra surfboard and swim out with them and that's when the bikini started acting up, when I would straddle the surfboard my bikini bottoms were kind of small so they kept riding up my butt cheeks higher than I like to show and I figured that's why the guys kept paddling behind me. I caught a few waves and constantly keeping an eye on my girls to make sure they did not fall out. Right before I was about to go in I was trying to get up on the last wave and fell off into the water as the wave rushed over me, my boyfriends friend was right next to me so he gave me a hand getting back on my board, when I got on I sat up and that was the one time I forgot to check my bikini top. We sat there together for a minute while I was trying to get my ankle strap back on, I looked up at him and he was staring right at my boobs, I looked down and realized my right boob had fallen completely out of my bikini top and the left side was barely on but my nipple was still sticking out of it, I was embarrassed pulled my top back up really fast and my boyfriend saw the whole thing. He did not really say anything at first but I could tell he was little bit upset by it and then later in the day he got pretty mad about it, I tried telling him that I shouldn't be surfing in this bikini but he was persistent on me going, he started telling me that it was my fault because I didn't check my top before I got back on the surfboard. He still mad about it and not really talking to me that much I just tried to explain to him that it was an accident but he doesn't seem to understand, he still says it's my fault he is acting like I did this on purpose or something. He is not even answering my text today. Is he overreacting or was I really in the wrong here? I don't understand why he thinks it's my fault when I told him that my bikini was not appropriate to be surfing in. What's the deal here?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 25Why are so many guys uptight about their girlfriend or wife showing their boobs? Over the years, most women will have dozens of men see their boobs. The two of you need to go to a topless beach and see how many women are there with their bfs or husbands. Their boobs will be shown off to everyone.
he's a asshole you clearly were not wearing the correct bikini for surfing. if he insisted you go even though you told him your top is not right and then you go and you get a nip slip its his fault for making you go even though you didn't want to. Maybe next time you bring a extra suit for surfing that fits you better and gives you more coverage.
This is an old post lol, but he acted really immaturely and totally over reacted. I'm not sure what exactly his issue was, but on top of the fact it's not a big deal in general (in my opinion), you warned him it could happen a couple of times. Update since then? Did you work it out and talk to him about it? Still with him?
If he wanted u to go surfing he should have bought you a bikini there, there is no way you should be surfing in a strapless bikini.
he's angry because of jealousy
he is overreacting.
There is no big deal. He's just a cry baby