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Is it normal when a guy cums just from dancing?
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So I was in New Orleans for mardi gras this year and I was doing quite a bit of dancing and grinding with one guy in particular. I know its kinda slutty, but I didn't even really see his face although my friends assured me he wasn't good-looking. So anyway, we were dancing for a while and I felt him put his hand on his crotch, although I could feel that he was hard I just kept dancing with him any way because that seemed to be the trend with all the guys I danced with. Anyway after grinding to a few songs with this guy I felt something wet on my back and I thought someone had poured a drink on me.I turned around I saw his penis and I touched my back...thats when I realized what had happened. The guy immediately disappeared in the crowd and being that this was the only "sexual experience" I've ever had I started to cry and was really upset...my friends and I left immediately. So what I want to know is...did I do something wrong or is this something that guys do a lot?
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 25the story sounds totally made up. if it's not then this statement makes you a tramp: "I could feel that he was hard I just kept dancing with him any way " obviously you were in one of those disgusting high school grind dances so you deserved the come shower.
Well this story is not made up...and it was in new orleans around mardi gras...and every one was doing it...like literally everyone. And every guy I danced with was hard, like really...i would have just had to not dance to avoid that. I don't know if that's just how people are in clubs or whatever. I do agree with you however that it was very slutty behavior, which I will never participate in again. But I don't think I deserved that since it no one deserves that. Its just not normal behavior for a
Guy to do that. No matter how slutty anyone is...which of all things that are slutty I think dancing can be put on the bottom of the scale...they don't deserve for someone to come on them unsolicited. That's just like saying that girls who dress promiscuously deserved to get raped... Those men should control themselves as he should have. But anyways, thanks for your answer.
Are you f*cking kidding? you equate dancing slutty on a guy who has a boner then getting splooged on to getting raped for dressing promiscuously? wow. that's not the same thing at all. I have nothing more to say to someone like you
Ha really I'm not saying that the two are anywhere near the same category...of course rape is clearly a lot worse...I'm saying that people who saying that it is just as wrong to say someone who dresses slutty or even acts slutty deserves to be raped. no one deserves to be raped no matter how they are dressed or how they behave. I'm saying that in that same manner dancing in a slutty way does not give a guy a right to "splooge" all over anyone. Like why can he keep it in his pants. Clearly rape is
Much worse. No one deserves to have a man do something to them that they did not say was ok whether they are dressed slutty or acting slutty. Simple as that.
I would like to disagree with your answer a thousand times! you are disgusting. an act like this is disgusting and not hre fault. should she also dress like a nun so that people can't look at her/ you are just dumb. and have no concpet of womens rights.
How is that not bringing it onto your self? you were grinding on him......you said you reached back and felt that he was hard.....you knew very well that he was getting off to the fact that you were grinding on him!!! I for one if I am dancing with a guy if I feel him get hard I walk away....but you continued to grind on him......this told him ok she knows I am hard and horny but she continues so its ok to get off.....too bad it was your back he should of did it in ur face like the slut you are!
Ok let me get this straight, he whipped out his dick and jizzed all over your back? WTF!
Alright that's the strangest and most perverted thing I've ever heard. I' mean seriously, W.T.F.
I'm really sorry that you had to go through such a violation...
LMFAOO !
That guy should be shot in the head, including the one below me. I mean how can you do something like that !
WTF hahaha that's hilarious I'm sorry to say so, but you saw his penis ! on the dance floor what a FRRReaaaaaaaaaaK
This is a form of sexual assault. this is NOT OK. and NOT funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes it is
Lmao
no...this isn't normal...i almost wonder if he didn't beat it all over your back...actually its crazy you say this because i...myself did masturbate all over this girls back while she was dancing with me at mardi gras
Lol
Um...i sincerely hope you are joking....
LMAO.
Lmao
Ur an ass. this isn't funny
ROFLCOPTOR
Haha
It ain't funny , this girl had a trauma
She wasn't that traumatized if she waited several months after mardi gras to bring it up
I just wanna know how a guy pulls his dick out and dances with it out for a few songs and nobody sees it or says anything to you before that happened?
I'm going to more than likely say because everyone else was probably as uncomfortable as sge was.
That is not normal in any way. Obviously a perverted freak, you did nothing wrong, but if you're going to be putting yourself in a situation like that you should just be careful, you never know what kinda freaks are out there.
Yes He did something wrong & so did you..you dumb girls think it is OK to dance like that!?
Wow that really sucks for you. That guy is pretty f***ed up.
wow sounds like superbad where he gets period blood on his pants when grinding with some her lol
ur ok just don't eat it wash that sh*t off that's pretty gross
Ok I get a guy getting hard because there getting grinded on and that turns them on, but what I don't get is why was his dick out of his pants? I could understand if he cummed in his pants... But why was his dick out?!
Lol..maybe he liked her!
I live in New Orleans and Mardi Gras has become "tourist gone wild". Would you do that in your home town? You are right very slutty behavior. I wish that had never happen to you, but I also wish that the tourist who come to New Orleans would stop acting like they have no morals. Its not the locals showing their t*ts for a pair of 2 cent pair of beads or having sex in the middle of crowds because its Mardi Gras.
Firstly, this was at a bar on bourbon street and everyone was dancing...literally everyone since you are a native I am sure you know what bourbon street is like during mardi gras. Secondly, it was just dancing! Yes I would have done it in my own hometown...it was just dancing and all the people around me were dancing the same way I was. Thirdly, I will never and have never flashed any part of my body at any point in new orleans or any where...i was actually with people form nola, I was the only