Of course.
You want a relationship with anal sex.
she wants to (I assume) be monogamous but not have anal sex.
Break up, find a girl who likes anal sex.
Anyone saying no just thinks that because they don't like it, nobody should be allowed to want it. Just like short guys pissed off about girls who want tall guys, fat girls pissed off about guys who want thin girls, broke guys pissed off about girls who want guys with a job, girls who won't do anal are pissed off about guys who want girls who do anal.
Too f***ing bad. Nobody is owed a partner. If you want a partner who does anal and can get one, nobody else gets to say that you should have stayed with them anyway. If its worth it to them to break up to not have it, why wouldn't it be okay for you to break up in order to have it?
How shallow are you? Should she dump you if you will not eat her out after you ejaculate in her? If she can't finger you while giving you head, should she dump you?
Piles, or hemorrhoids are a valid excuse - not that she needs an excuse - if she does not want to try it that is her decision.
You dump her and you'll never know what could have been...hell it took me more then a year of being married to tap my wife's ass and we dated for 8 years before - the whole time trying to get the brown eye.
Now she loves it, even lets her best friend borrow my penis and oral skills on the backdoor!
Yes because you obviously are not compatible. I personally had a boyfriend for 6 years who wanted anal so bad he could taste it. I REFUSE to ever do that. It wasn't what made us break up we couldn't do the ldr thing when he moved. However when I asked how he felt about how we would never do that. His reply- He loved me too much to EVER make me do anything that made me uncomfortable, and if I never did he could live with that, because he couldn't live with making me do something I didn't want to do. And in that I think you have your answer.
That's not cool dude.
I think that's a little drastic to break up with her over that. I mean, at least you can still have sex other ways.
If she does have piles I don't see why you want too. But if she doesn't I would suggest that you try and figure out why she doesn't want to try it. Then based on whatever her answer is try to find a solution.
Yes, dump her. No girl deserves to be with an a**hole like you. No girl would make up a medical condition to get out of anal and even if she did no guy should pressure her so much about anal that she has to make something up. Why don't you take a dildo up the ass before trying to force another girl to have anal.
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If you feel anal sex is a must need, and that it holds a lot of importance in your sex life.
You will feel dissatisfied constantly and this can cause further problems for the both of you.
If you really love her , work past it.
But if you feel like you can't, you should find someone you are more compatible with sexually.
Sex is a part of happiness too, and some people need to realize that.
Also, I would stop pressuring her if she has piles. She is already in enough discomfort already. Either you can accept that she doesn't want to or not. If not, find someone that satisfies you sexually.
You should have broke up a long time ago , Instead of harassing her.
-You can not convince her nor should you try.
-Anal is important to you . She DOES NOT WANT TO DO ANAL.
-Respect her boundaries and move on.
Yes
It's an issue of compatibility.
Maybe you ought to put yourself in her place and see what it feels like.
I agree with the others, go to a gay bar and find your true purpose. Tormenting this woman is not getting you what you really want.
It is OK to admit you are gay. Using a woman to convince yourself that you are not is just making the woman upset.
Pursue your true calling.
you're not compatible,break up. she obviously doesn't really mean much to you anyway.
pretty shallow. prepare to be spit roasted by many a women
you need to respect her wishes. if you truly liked her, cared about her, respected her and weren't selfishly pushing your own needs anal sex would not be a deciding factor in whether or not you liked her.
It wouldn't be a deciding factor in whether he likes her but it might be a deciding factor in whether he wants to have a monogamous relationship with her.
You are kind of an ass, anal sex isn't the most important thing in the world. You know how we consider guys who nag virgins for sex a**holes, you are just as inconsiderate
Yes. Dump her because she doesn't deserve your nasty ass. The fact that you claim you've been asking her time and time again and she still says no, but you repeatedly interrogate her and try to make her feel like she's obligated to yeah, she doesn't need to be with you anyway. You don't respect her.
think of it this way: even if you get her to try anal, there is no chance that she will enjoy it. There are girls out there who like anal, and if you are sexually incompatible with your girlfriend, that's going to lead to problems. I don't see the point in dragging it out, myself. Break up with her - you'll be doing both of you a favor.
Sure. You can dump her for any reason.
Lol at downvote. Like ... what there are only certain reasons you're allowed to break up?
Seriously. Probably by a girl who's dumped a guy because he had spinach in his teeth one time at dinner.
you sound like an inconsiderate a**hole yourself! She should dump you!
If you're happy with her in every other aspect besides the fact you can't stick your d*** in her butt why would you break up? Is your relationship really based on anal sex alone?
You both aren't sexually compatible.
Anal sex isn't the most important thing in the world. Maybe negotiate with her?
no that's selfish of you
She's lying to you. Those ones you should force her to have anal sex with you.
Yes. Dump her. I'm shocked she hasn't dumped you. You're a total inconsiderate jerk.
i understand that you need that,but dude lets supose you dumped her and found another girlfriend who also don't want anal,what would you do?dump her too and move to a third one who most likely wouldn't like it too.you have to know that most girls refulse anal sex,and most of the ones who agree to do it actually don't like it.
asking/begging is never going to get you anything/anywhere with a girl. doing that is an instant turnoff to all females. explain to her why she should let you in and why she is wrong for not letting you.
you have to find what you like. if she isn't up to your standards or doesn't want to satisfy your needs, then move on.
you can convince her to do it if you show her that you can put something in your A*S as big as your D*ck , and if you feel no pain with putting that thing inside , she will try it.
That's a shame that your relationship is based on anal sex alone.
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