Is virginity more important to girls or guys?

loads of girls I know think its too important to waste so go celibate but like almost all the guys wanna lose it ASAP to me I wanted my 1st time to be with someone that really cared about me and loved me. I wanted it to be more about the romance that the sex, I may sound like a big poof but it meant quite a lot to me =L so what's a girls and guys view on it so I can see the difference on how much it means to each sex
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  • As a girl, I would say girls...Society has formed us in such a way that sex is a very 'risky' topic. Often boys are told to be promiscuous but girls are told to lose it to only one man or they will be 'useless' and not wanted. I think with the recent trend of purity rings, virginity is coming back into fashion (especially with Miley and the Jonas brothers sporting them), making it popular for both sexes, but right now, I would still say girls.

  • i know a lot of guys who either want to wait until they're in a meaningful relationship or want to wait until they're married. I know a lot more of my girlfriends have already lost theirs, but maybe that's because they've spoken about it more.

  • To girls.

  • Girls. Hands down

  • i think girls guys really don't have as much to be scared about

  • I would say girls, because girls can get pregnant

  • It means a whole lot to me. I not only want to connect physically with the right man but emotionally. It's very important to have that connection. Thus, I still am a virgin and will remain that way til I find the one!

  • girls

  • hahah this is funny cause I've had 4 gf's and never had sex with them...yet I lost it to my 5th gf...which I plan to marry too...and she told me I was pretty good at it. I guess its more important to girls.

  • I wanted to lose it to someone who truly cared about me and that I loved and then when I met that person it didn't matter whether we were married or not, and now sex is a fun important part of our relationship

    we can enjoy it now and then when we get married we can get going on the offspring situation

    use protection kiddos!

  • girls like to put emotions into every thing they do. losing their virginity is no exception, it's probably one of the most emotional things that we'll do. I'm not saying all girls are like this but it's a pretty good majority. I know that when I lose mine I want it to be with the one.

  • aw that's cute and I feel the same way you do.but not much people are like that nowadays.but also a lot a times, people also lose their virginity in unexpected situations like getting drunk or something...

  • I am waiting til I'm married. I know it's a little old fashioned, but I don't care what people say. :]]

    • Will you marry me??? I'm actually waiting on that too...

    • Now that's a good answer :)

    • That may be old fashioned, but that is statistically foolproof, to say the least. Same here. I wish I could find more people like you in our society. We are currently 1 out of every 9 people, isn't that sad?

  • i would say girls just because we are more emotional most of the time it take a lot

  • In themselves, it's more important to girls.

    In their partners, it's more important to men.