I'm in the exact situation. I'm 22 and I had my first bf at the age of 21. We are still together and all, but at times that question does come up. I think that every situation is different and every person in different. Some might need those 3 or 4 boyfriends to get it right and some don't. I think that the culture we live in has created this idea that in order to experience life and know what you really want you need to go through a bunch of boyfriends. I disagree with that completely. In this case if we have waited so long just to have a boyfriend, I think that the way our relationship and thoughts work would already be pretty different from the rest. Hope all is well :)
0 0 0 0I think it is much better the way you have it than to be 35 later on in life still single and unhappy with your self for screwing a bunch of losers and still have nothing to show for it.
1 1 0 0Yes it is fine to have been with only one guy. Not all that often one makes the right pick right off the bat. Hope all works out for you
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not really I mean if you are really close to your boyfriend and you love being with him always then its great.
just because your friends are bragging about how many people they've been with doesn't make them think of you any less, it just means they haven't found the confortable person they want to share their sexual desires with on more than one or two occation like you have.
if your great with your boyfriend and your sex life is great then you have nothing to worry about.1 0 0 0If being part of the group means having had sex with many diff people,why would you want to be part of that group? Its a good thing to be with only one person at your age, and its sad that that's not the norm in this culture.
If he is the one then he's going to last a lot longer than your slutty friends.1 2 0 0Thanks :) that's just what I needed to hear.
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