Is it wrong to film us without her knowing?

[Anonymous]

Well. I've been dating this girl for 2 years. She moved back home and we broke- up, but she wants to come for a while during the summer. I know we will have sex when she comes. I've always wanted to film having sex. Is it a really big deal if I film without telling her (not to show anyone or anything) lol. I know its kind of messed up, but she really hurt me during our breakup and I'm not sure I care haha. Is it really really wrong? Even if I'm the only one who ever sees it?

[dakadan]

Hell yes it is wrong! Why do you think so many women don't trust men? One of them is because we pull stunts like this. Be open an honest with her that you would like to do it. The worse thing she can do is say no, but she might say yes. Also, there are plenty of people in the world that like to do stuff like that. Create that as an intention and it will manifest, but always ask and be above board that will build trust.

[ppfxxx]

". . . this girl is kind of a freak anyway who prob wouldn't mind. So its not as bad as it sounds."

I afraid it is as bad as it sounds I think most peoples problem is not with a sex tape per se it's the fact you were going to film a girl without telling her and if you think she wouldn't mind then ask her and that would solve all your problems

[scorpio23]

I have not made a sex video because my husband thinks I will lose it or something.I would love to do it..But I think is to much information for anyone LOL.

is not freaky is normal but if UR a freak welcome to the club..Crap I would hide the camera but I would feel bad..but do it just don't get caught and show your friends.

[Asker]

Nice to hear from at least one person who thinks its kind of fun and kinky! Haha

[LessthanLisa]

It's against the law. And even if it weren't, it's just plain wrong. Why disrespect another human like that? If she's "kind of a freak anyway who probably wouldn't mind" why not just ask her? If she says no, don't do it. If she says yes, have a blast.

[Belleza]

Yup if I were I'll probably kill you - what do I look like I want someone to see me in action even if its only him! So what she hurt your feelings - everybody's feelings get hurt that's what makes us humans!

[Asker]

You guys are right. I'll pass on the idea. Just a clarification though. Hurt feelings isn't a justification. Its just the reason I don't care.

[Belleza]

Ok I got you!

[MangoMooMoo]

No, and dude its probably illegal anyway (without her consent). Get ask freaky as you want with her permission. Without it, that's just really messed up. Big time.

Mango =]

[archer86]

Hello! This is illegal! And just plain wrong. I am happy for you that you thought the better of it. Were she to find out about it. BAD THINGS!

Terrible idea.

[AJtogo]

Pretty sure you're headed for trouble there guy. Better off passing on this idea.

[Asker]

Ya. I think you're prob right.

[johnsmith2116]

You're darn right it's wrong. A guy has to be a real piece of sh_t to do that.

[ppfxxx]

Wrong and probably illegal

[sgl2997]

Well I wouldn't do it without asking her first because being in a relationship is having trust and respect for each other. Once you screw that up it's gone forever!

[Anonymous]

Not only is it morally wrong it's also illegal. If she ever found out about it she could sue you. If she hurt you why are you having sex with her in the first place. Wait until you find a girl that allows you to film her because if I found out a guy I slept with filmed me you can bet your bottom dollar I would sue him.