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Just found out that my boyfriend has a REALLY small penis. Girls, would this be a deal breaker for you?
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Both of us have decided not to have sex before marriage, so I've never even felt him up before. But we were making out last night and things were getting pretty heavy. I pressed my body against his and I could feel his erection with my thigh--and it felt like it was about the size of my thumb. Maybe he wasn't fully erect, but he acted pretty turned on and after a few minutes he pushed me away and said he needed to calm down. As a virgin, I've never really put much thought into my sexual preferences, and I don't know if I'd like big penises or small ones. But if I do end up marrying him, I might be stuck with someone who can't satisfy me? I want to be 100% faithful to my husband, but what if I'm sexually frustrated? I love my boyfriend and I want to be with him though. I really don't know what to do.
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I'm not actually supposed to touch his penis... it's part of our religious beliefs. So taking it out and seeing it for myself isn't really an option. Maybe I'm mistaken about the size... regardless, I have to commit to marrying him before I can find out. :/
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 22it's better to see it now than never or be disappointed at the sight of his loins
I'm sure most girls would end the relationship
Maybe that's why he doesn't want to have sex till marriage lol
Haha, ha, ha... *laughter trails off into sobs*
Wow that sucks.
And to the guy who says "that's like a guy who doesn't love a girl for small breasts", just shut up. You can see a girls boobs from a mile away so they wouldn't go up to her if they didn't want to date her duh. We can't determine a guy's d*ck size until we get freaky.
Invite him to a nude beach. He will think you're really cool and open-minded, and you get a chance to check him out at his smallest.
Not trying to be harsh here, but on the contrary men often have no idea what's under a woman's shirt because of the scale of padding and pushing up that exists in bras these days. Can be totally misleading (whereas most guys wouldn't go to the extent of padding out their package lol...would they...?)
Why don't you stick your hand down there and have a feel to find out, Tbh if your love your boyfriend you love every part of him, that's like a guy saying he doesn't want to be with a girl because of her small breasts.
^this sorta except breasts aren't what really "satisfy" a man, it's the vagina. So the penis is different...if it was something like not having a six pack then you could compare it to small breasts.
small breasts are still seen as a loss compared to bigger breasts...
I wouldn't break up with a girl for having a loose vagina *shrugs*
Yeah also maybe he gives great head
What if it wasn't just loose though? What if it was like the batcave in there?
Was it really that small, seriously have a good look before you make any calls
@pickiextofu not really since there are guys that do prefer smaller breasts same can't be said for girls preferring small penises tho... but I don't think the question asker should break it off, if you love somebody you learn to love every part of them. good luck
oh god that sucks :/
maybe you should feel down there next time? What if it just felt small and really isn't?
I couldn't be with a guy that was THAT small...
I feel so bad for you :(