Long vagina lips: Do you mind if a girls has a large vagina lips?

[Anonymous]

I have wizard sleeves and they get me down. I'm 16, never had sex but I used to innocently play with my vagina when I was younger. I don't know wt I was doing lol but I think that's why. I'm planning to have sex soon but my vagina lips worry me because they are big, it makes me self conscious. I'm worried guys will find it disgusting and not want to have sex with me. Do guys find long vagina lips disgusting? PLS answer honestly.

[Serjio87]

I dont want to be that one dude that's a dick but to be honest personally speaking for myself and all of the guys I know and I know a lot, we have talked about this before and none of us like it or find it attractive at all when a girl has a lot of lips down there, yeah when you love and care about a girl you don't want her to feel bad about herself so of course niggas gone say they like it and even play with it to make it believable and because they wanna fuck but if a man tells a woman other wise and is too honest about it not only would he be an asshole and make his lady more self concious but the sex is also gone stop! Same reason a girl would never tell the guy they love his dick is too small. I know most people would talk shit and say we are being immature but no, we like what we like and that's a nice tidy and clean looking pussy that's what's attractive because when I spread open the vagina I like to see the lips as a surprise! not all out their already beat up looking like everyone had a turn even yo homies ran threw that shit! that shit looks disgusting and like bacon or even a few inches of raisin skins! But then again what it all comes down to is to eaches own I guess but I know my friends and myself don't find it attractive at all but some guys like a kraken looking vagina so its all on the person and how much you really care about them.

[davele2]

You are entitled to your opinion. But I think that you "& all the guys you know" have a very different opinion to the majority of males.

[ikbenanoniemofzo]

but you’re a black guy so it does not matter what ur opinion is honestly, we don’t care

[admiral4her]

No, you should not be self conscious about your vagina lips. Many if not most men find a woman with large lips to be a sexual turn on. To be a bit to the point it gives them something more to play with in foreplay or even in oral sex. My personal prefernce and those of all of my guy friends has been to be with a woman that has larger lips than those that don't. I personally enjoy being with a woman with larger lips during oral sex because there is more there for me to tease and stimulate the woman. In addition during intercourse there seems to be more enjoyment being with a woman with larger lips because my penis has more stimulation. There is more there surrounding my penis during sex which can be a wonderful feeling. I think you have no worries at all. You have more to offer and there isn't anything wrong with that at all. One thing you may want to consider is a more mature lover who enjoys and understands a woman's body that someone not so experienced. It makes a difference in your first time. Hope this helps.

[mrt123]

I totally agree with you. And I have also notice that women with larger lips are defo more turned on

[Pumpetypump]

Listen babe dont listen that sugar coated reply above she a woman trying to make u feel better about ya big lips and lead ya into a false sense of security... Am a man and trust me if it's long n flappy n stands out it's gonna maybe b a tiny eeeeny beeeeny bit off puting putting milderly so seek treatment from a surgeon asap if tbey r longer thanncuple inch n hang out ya knickers cos it's dangerous n catch things n is more exposed to the outdoor eminent

[Anonymous]

Hun, I'm a woman (if that isn't obvious here), and I've wondered that plenty of times especially with a new partner. I've never once been told in my parts were any less than awesome. The most sexually attractive thing is when a woman is comfortable with herself. Like some men said here, a lot of guys like it, just like some guys like large breasts and others don't. Some girls like crazy huge penises and others prefer good sized ones. And for the 'men' on this board who don't like them and answered in such a crude way- that's cool, but this is a 16 year old girl - get a clue. Comments like that to such an obviously young mind could potentially harm her self image for years to come. And girl- if a guy ever says anything negative about it, tell them they have a small d*ck and they suck in bed -that'll really f*ck them up. (Sorry 'nice' guys, some dudes are just a-holes all around.) Good luck and stay confident!

[Red_Arrow]

You are soooo right. Some guys don't care if they screw with someone's head. In fact they actually get off on that. And those of us who either find all vulvas beautiful, or who actually find large labia minora to be sexy and a real turn on, cannot convince impressionable gals that they are normal or better after they are shattered by someone intentionally being cruel. Thank you for speaking out so well about this. I just wish you had not gone anon because I would like to know who you are.

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend and I fought when I dumped him and he so nicely pointed it out to me to hurt my feelings, and in return I pointed out how fast he came and couldn't last... To try to make myself feel better, but honestly I'm still extremely insecure about it to this day... I can't even enjoy sex because I'm so worried about it... I just want to be able to be good enough and please my significant other... This is one of my only and biggest insecurities... Considering the surgery, they gross me out I guess because I think most Hott guys probably don't like it but it's not fair considering the shit us woman put up with but honestly my ex was the only one who said anything but was with me for two years so who knows... I just know I can't take it anymore not being able to feel sexy in bed anymore it's sucks I'm 20 by the way.

[Red_Arrow]

Your ex was the only one to tell you that and he did it to hurt you, not because it was true. It is too bad that when couples break up they often try to hurt each other. But it was only one guy who was intentionally saying things to hurt you, that said bad things about them. I hope you can find a guy who loves them like an obsession so that he can show you how wonderful they are and get you back to feeling sexy in bed, as I am very sure that you are!

[Miss_Martini]

I too have wondered the same thing! I'm a girl who indulges in p*rn and for the longest time I thought something was wrong with the way it looked down there because all of the p*rn stars I saw had small lips that you couldn't really see. It wasn't until I was with my current boyfriend that I realized that I have something the girls with smaller lips don't... The ability to be stimulated way more. My boyfriend told me that I was silly for worrying and that he enjoys the way I am.

[batman95]

I'm right there with you I stayed a virgin because I thought something was wrong with me not I'm like fuck yea! I can make a guy cum so much faster than a girl with nothing

[Sowavy]

@batman95 🙄 I think girls That's have large Virginia lips are sexy af and they are more fun :) just wanted to tell u that...

[dakadan]

There is nothing sexier than a womans vagina and everyone of them is different. I've said it before and I'll say it again, "Your Perfect! " Really, you are. If you don't believe me then go out and get the book Petals. It is a picture book of nothing but vulva's. You will see that there are all different types and each one is beautiful.

If you do decide to have sex with a guy and he doesn't like it then he is not very enlightened and if he says anything then he is more than likely trying to make up for some sort of inadequacy within himself. You don't need him around. Move on.

[Zephyrus]

It doesn't bother me personally no =P. Unless is like abnormally large, usually guys like "tight" vagina's though lol, as in hugs his penis tightly, so the lips shouldn't be a problem, its the fit inside, and even then most don't really care =P.

[RFRFRF]

Well if you never had sex then I wouldn't worry about it. If a guy feels that they are big they usually think its because they a hoe and got it beat up a lot. But you a virgin so I think you'd be fine. Good?

[aamy811]

Most guys would probably prefer they be smaller and less prominent

[alpinestars-2002795]

No not at all, I find it appealing. I like women that have em like that. Haven't got a chance to be with one that had one like that, but honestly I can't wait :D!

[Jake769]

I have had the chance and I'm still with her! (2years) best sex I've ever had! I'm never letting this one go!

[davele2]

Disgusting? No. Quite the opposite. A large percentage of guys find large lips very exciting.
As a woman gets aroused blood flows the vulva making the clitoris & lips grow. So the natually larger genitals subconsciously trigger a "Yum" response in the male.

The majority of women have inner lips that are larger than their outer lips. That's what puberty is all about. Your breasts & hips change shape. So does your vulva. It gets bigger too.

Some tribes in Africa actually practice pulling the inner lips to make them larger. They claim it increases the erogenous zone & makes sex more enjoyable for both the woman & the man.

Of course many guys don't care either way. Maybe they are into breasts, legs, bums or something else.

Maybe a small minority of guys have a preference for smaller lips. Hey it is a big world, full of diverse opinions. Some love small pert A & B cup boobs, while others rave about DD cups. It is impossible for you to be the ideal shape for everyone when they all completely disagree on what ideal is.

What most guys can agree on is they like a partner that they have fun with. Someone who is good to talk to. Having someone who is always anxious about a whole lot of irrelevant flaws is emotionally draining.
A guy will not notice if you have split-ends. Nor will they care if you wear the same outfit two days in a row. They don't care if; one boob is bigger than the other, if you have a 3rd nipple, your lips are darker at the edges or if one lip is bigger than the other. if you have skin between your toes. It is just not that interesting.

Remember: Teen boys spend all week thinking about how they can get into your pants. An entire wizards coat would not deter them. Finding a wizards wand might freak them out. ;-)

So relax, you lucked out in the gene pool of genital shape. Enjoy it.

[uknaked]

I absolutely adore long labia on a vagina, I love to lick them and bury my face in there as much as I can and taste a ladies nectar. Don't panic about not having had sex yet, take your time, and whoever the lucky guy or girl is, they should accept you as you are.

[MarkRyz]

Don't listen to these pieces of shit who commented hun... they don't know what they are talking about. They are just little boys who, i would put money on it, don't even know how to please a woman... and probably have a little tiny caterpillar between their legs. Dont take advice from someone like that. It makes me wonder why people with no intellect or wisdom would be on a site giving advice to begin with... probably to stroke their own ego... to make up for something they are lacking Im sure. Number one, you shouldn't feel self conscious of any part of your body, its part of YOU... and never feel like you have to change who you are for some guy. If he doesn't appreciate and embrace every part of you then tell him to "kick rocks" (that means get down the road) he's not worth it anyways. I've been with quite a few women and have never judged a woman's labia... usually i was just happy to be there you know what I'm saying... lol. That shit those guys are talking is just little boys shit... a real man will make you feel comfortable with yourself. So, with that being said... I'm actually a big fan of big labia... yup... roast beef, mud flaps, beef curtains... whatever you want to call it... it is a HUGE turn on for me! And believe me darling, there are many more men out there who feel the same... so embrace that and never feel ashamed okay. Actually I've only been with a couple of women who had this... and what I wouldn't give to find a girlfriend who does. Personally, I find a little "slit" between the legs kinda boring... but Im not judging... lol. I love to eat pussy and I want something to nibble on... and when a chick sits on my face I wanna feel that rubbery roast beef sandwich squishing around all over me... not to be crude... just being real... nothing turns me on more. Dont you dare have them removed!!! lol Its like this... if i order a burger... i don't want two buns pressed together with maybe the edge of a slice of cheese showing... I want to see some beef... with lettuce and tomato... and cheese just melting all down the sides... oh and slathered in secret sauce.. can't forget the secret sauce... my burger will always have secret sauce dripping from it! Anyways, hope you enjoyed this as much as I did... take care hun. Just in case you might wanna chat some more... here's my cell... ate won ate tree oh six sev for ate five... I'm Mark... hit me up

[legslover79]

i think thats very cute if a girl has your type of vaginal lips. it could be a possibility that when you played with your vagina that made it like that. but only a possibility. if i had a girlfriend with your type of vaginal lips, i would have a field day with it... rubbing it with my hand, sucking on them and kissing them. dont worry ok. its like if you were truly innocently playing with your vaginal lips when you were younger, that just means you were wondering how it would feel when you played with it. and how pleasured you got from that (which i bet you got very pleasured too huh)

[Mark987]

Not at all.. me personally. I like lips inside... like ( pamela anderson). I've seen outties and innies

[dillon393939]

They are beautiful. Most men love sucking on them. Just don't call them wizard sleeves.

[Caliguy88]

I love em. Different options. Don’t worry. Guys may say they like this or that but they often don’t really care. Am meet a guy like me, liking them. He will never leave ya! Lol

[GoldCobra]

I don't think a guy is going to look at your labia and decide to peace out on you. He'll probably want to have sex if he's gone that far with you.

Same thing with a girl and a small penis. It's like, you can't back out now muahahaha

[Ghostedm]

lol you kidding me? if i was with a chick and she had a ugly labia, id be like "brah, you gotta work on that. im out ;p"

[koko124]

It depends on which vagina lips.

Personally, large outer lips (labia majora) are very attractive. Large inner lips (labia minora), aka "roast beef curtains", not so much.

[Miamiguy821]

A sexy pussy is the epitome of being a woman and the larger the lips, the more I get turned on. I have been with women with small lips but I wouldn't want to go back after being with a woman with big lips. My wife has large pussy lips and I absolutely love them. It is such a turn on to go down on her and suck her large lips into my mouth. Don't listen to ignorant guys (or girls) that make obscene or degrading comments about large lips. It is most likely a sign of immaturity and/or inexperience.

[MissLiana]

Great answer!!

[wombat]

They are a definate turn-on. Every person will differ but most men will agree. A less mature male may not find it so but take my word for it they lack the experience.

[elmaschingon559]

hell no its actually kinda hot(;

[heyman3007]

I guess I'm in the minority then. I think big/long lips are a major turn off. But I'm shocked to read that every guy that write here states it's a "turn on". Quite the education for me today. I have always wondered about this...

Looking thru various xxx sites on the net, I see some girls with huge lips. Kinda reminds me of a penis I'm sorry to report. I don't like to see all that hanging off a girl. I like them small and smooth. And it's odd, but none of my girlfriends ever had big lips.

Oh well, to each their own...

[mke_stud_2009]

Personally I think that p**** lips are bigger the better. I love being able to suck all of a girls lips into my mouth while I am eating her out. If you happen to be having sex and the guy doesn't like it then I would move on to someone else. There are plenty of guys that love big p**** lips.

[terrtec]

I find it kind of creepy myself..allot of guys do..its stuff we talk about..I guess it like girls talking about guys penis

[PhantomBeast]

Each Woman's Vagina has her own unique qualities. Most Men prefer a large visually distinctive set of outer lips, Labia Majora, well lubricated and scented inner lips, labia minora, and a very well lubricated silky and satiny well muscled undulating vagina.

So Yes, large outer lips arouse men...don't worry, it's how you take a Man with your own unique equipment.

[eazyeric]

Definitely do not be self conscious my gf now has big lips she was the first woman I've been with that has big lips and I love it definitely a big turn on for me so much so she has let me take many pics to keep on my phone :-)

[Thehardpilltoswallow]

Duh, vaginas are supposed to have lips... the ones that look disgusting to me are the ones that either don't have them, that look all caved in or the ones with razor blade thin ones. Lips are beautiful, soft and attractive. The bigger the more attention they'll get making your, married sex life more exciting. The. When you have children, the look won't change. now as for the lipless or thin lips ones for some reason they look wrecked, not cute as all. Trust me God made you beautiful everywhere.

[christheboywonder]

i love large lips you are my woman call me chris 215 206 9788

[grneyez]

Ur fuckin sick ur a 50 yr old man she said she's 16. Ur a fuck pedophile and deserve to be burned in hell u fuckin creep. U called her a women she's a baby a little girl u nasty fuck u need to shoot urself u probably malested a few girls in ur life u sick bastard. I wish i could call and report u to the cops so u can go to jail and get raped in ur ass and get HIV.

[Magilla]

rather "outie" over "innie" any day.
way sexier.
innie lips are boring

[juicegod]

not at all most dudes love girls with big lips mainly if they big enough to get in their

[Alwayshorny]

Don't b silly lol

[longlivelips]

I think it's enjoying to your spouse

[Red_Arrow]

Agree totally!

[Ghostedm]

ya it's pretty ugly to look at. not gonna lie to you just to make you feel better, just speaking my mind. but there are some weird guys who like them but for the most part, no. it's not attractive, it's just disgusting.

[John_Strange]

Big outer lips like a camel toe? Yes, perfect. Big inner lips like roast beef curtains or a hanging ball sack? Yuck. Sure I will still fuck but I will be slightly turned off.

I always said that guys who like big hanging curtains and big clits would probably secretly prefer sucking on an uncircumcised penis.

[Illmatic518]

I prefer long pussy lips on a woman it is turn on for me

[phillyguy1]

Sweety relax it means u have a big
Vagina more babies its a good thing

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn't like it. We never have sex now. I'm considering surgery.

[Opinion Owner]

and he's not young and very experienced...

[Red_Arrow]

Any guy that drives a woman to having surgery to change something normal about her is NOT worth it. Regardless of his personal preference, I he really cared for you, you would still be having sex. Lots of it. You will do what you decide, but what you have is normal and tons of guys love that! I am sorry that your situation has come to this.

[Opinion Owner]

@Red_Arrow I understand what you are saying. However, I also don't like it myself. I've dated a lot of men that didn't mind it, and would never even allow me to consider surgery. But it never changed the fact that I hate it myself. I'm considering surgery not because the fact we never have sex now. Truth be told I can't be sure if that's why we don't have sex now. We don't really talk too much about it. But I think I would be happier if I have it done. But I won't do it if our relationship doesn't become the real deal (marriage). I don't want to have it changed, then breakup, meet someone new that prefers large lips. To me, it is important that I strive to be the best partner I can be, physically, emotionally, financially, etc. If it's something I can do to make our relationship better, then I don't see why I shouldn't do it...

[Anonymous]

I freaking love long lips - soooo hot!

[Anonymous]

Myself and every friend I have do not like large vaginal lips that poke out and look sloppy. If it's under an inch it's not a deal breaker most the time anything over is in most cases. Guys like it smoothe and tight down there, we like to open the pussy and see the lips inside. It's what we like just like im sure girls like a dick with nice shape.

[Anonymous]

No way, vaginas are awesome! Bigger lips can give you more feeling and sensation. Only had sex with one vagina with bigger lips-and it was >>> than the sex with other "normal" vaginas

[Anonymous]

i don't like fertile vaginas with inside labia what looks out and is good visible. i only get hard with small, tight, totally hairless vaginas where you cannot see the labia in normal position, only when open it a small inside labia is there. and finally yes, sorry but big vagina lips turn me totally off.

[Anonymous]

im one of those ladies with big vaginal lips and my husband loves them. So no need to feel self conscious at all. I've heard from many of engine much they love them

[Opinion Owner]

Men sorry about self correct

[Red_Arrow]

He is a lucky man!

[Anonymous]

Me for one have had the same problem I used to be worried to but I have never had guy complain they all loved it so don't worry girl ur good if he doesn't like it then he is to immature to understand

[Anonymous]

I don't find big meaty vaginal lips to be disgusting at all. On the contrary I enjoy a nice set of "naughty girls"down there. I enjoy licking and sucking on them for hours. Don't think about it a guy who loves sex and is about to show you a good time will most definitely go straight to taste them: If not loose him ASAP. Enjoy your sex life.

[Anonymous]

Ok so I'm 16 and I have big vagina lips and I was just wondering if guys are grossed out by that or what? I've never had sex before or a boyfriend because I am afraid that if I did have a boyfriend and we did something he might get grossed out if he saw it and not wanna be with me and tell other guys? So do guys like big bag lips or not?

[imran03214100630]

i love big lips 00923214100630

[Anonymous]

Wouldn't matter to me, I'd actually be lucky if I go to see a naked woman.

[Anonymous]

I personally love a girl with big lips. It adds to the feeling. Go for it you got nothing to worry about.

[Anonymous]

It's okay, a lot of girls are like that. My friend and I have our vagina lips like that to. It worried me as well...and to this day I'm still scared of what guys think of it.

[Red_Arrow]

We are happy with them.

[Anonymous]

I've heard that women with larger vagina lips are easier to please in bed because the skin is more sensitive. I've looked at women with larger vagina lips in porn films and I actually thought of it as being sexy. I got turned on by what I saw relating to the larger vagina lips part not the rest of what was going on in the sex scene.