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Men, when do you want a girl to cover up or not show her body?
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My very first boyfriend who I am still with,I lost my virginity to and the first time we were going to have sex,I stupidly thought I should go out and buy sexy lingerie and ended up embarrassing myself because I know I have cellulite(on my thighs and butt) but still did it and he basically just told me to cover up so we have sex under the covers now or if he wants to do it from behind we turn the lights off.And one of my closest girlfriends told me her boyfriend told her to keep her bra on because he was turned off by her breasts although I like her breasts,mine are a B cup but she's like a D,we always say we'll trade one another because she wants smaller and she wears a bra every time they have sex.So what are some other things she should cover up for?
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 34I'd never ask a woman to cover up because I didn't like her body. If she wanted to cover up because she was insecure about a certain body part, or if she wanted to "use" the lingerie or outfit she bought by leaving it on, that's a different story. Besides, being in a relationship means accepting the person as a whole, flaws included...
There's one word to describe them, 'Fags'.
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Might as well keep it going... Fifth!
Shame no one kept it going yesterday, thanks girls, it's appreciated. ;)
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Jerks! One, if they don't like something about your body so much that they want to turn of the lights dump them, and Two what guy is turned of by boobs?
yeah I think those guys are just weird losers.
don't show too much skin at church haha
i think that's totally wrong for your guy to make you guys do that...they should love your whole body and not be ashamed...i wouldve walked out right when he told you to cover your butt up...you are who you are...if he was any loving caring boyfriend he would deal with it
The point of sex is to feel good and revel in each others' bodies. Clearly neither is happening for you because the guy you are with is shallow. Sorry but it's true. Find somebody who respects you more and is happy you even have sex with them.
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This is disgusting, your bf's attitude is. You shouldn't be with someone who gets turned off by the way you look, it's really cheap to give yourself out to someone like that.
Well if you have a boyfriend, I wouldn't recomend going out in public with a lot of skin showing, he can get jealous, and trust me that isn't what you want.
The only reason to cover up your body is when your uncomfortable, and even then the "right" guy would assure you that every fatty area, every dimple, and everything that you don't like about your body is beautiful. Your with the wrong type of man.
It is that specific mans fantasy. To get the maximum out of a man on bed, the woman has to do very subtle decorations on her. You have to just ask that specific man, because it is different from man to man.
For an example, I used to ask my ex to wear some jasmine perfume and brought her a waistband jewelery, and asked her to get a clip on nose ring. She had a dark complexion. She had quite small breasts, but that was no problem to me. I was not particular about that, so she preferred wearing nothing when we were on the bed, then I could caress her breasts easily to take her up when we both reach for the "goal". We always used to score the goal both at the same time :-). We also tried some candles besides the bed, and it was sensual..
Those things were "my" fantasies, so I told her that these are what turns me on. And she also found some new things that turns me on, because she experimented, and she continued the ones that works. And on the other hand, I also tried new and continued what worked well.
If a guy wanted me to cover up, I definitely would not want to have sex with him. Sex is personal, and if he puts me to shame by telling me to cover up he can go stick it somewhere else. I wouldn't want to give my body to somebody who just puts it to shame.
You don't have to take that from him!
Use what you've got - YOU HAVE TOTAL CONTROL - IF A GUYS SAYS "COVER UP" ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS: "OKAY, WELL LET ME PUT IT THIS WAY, IF YOU STILL WANT ME TO COVER UP THEN YOU DONT GET ANY PUSSY - YOU'RE CALL".
Your the girl - you have total control by simply not letting him get to have his d*** inside you
- But the guy just isn't ever going to be able to fight back in the same way the girl is. - He's male - and males are born with their DNA telling his he has to come into girls to make as many babies as possible - my point: GUYS CAN'T GO FOR MORE THAN COUPLE WEEKS without cumming
- ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS JUST WAIT A FEW DAYS AND HE WILL SUBMIT TO ANY AND EVERY THING YOU TELL HIM AND HE'LL DO IT WITH A SMILE BECAUSE ONLY YOU CAN LET HIM FINALLY GET RELEASE AND EMPTY HIS MASSIVE CUM LOAD IN HIM BECAUSE YOU WOULDN'T LET HIM INSIDE YOU BEFORE AND ONLY YOU CAN GIVE WHAT HE NEEDS
IN THE END, YOU COULD MAKE HIM YOUR SERVANT CUZ YOU KNOW THAT HE NEEDS YOU AND THERE'S NOTHING HE CAN DO ABOUT IT - HE IS HELPLESS LOL
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As I said in another post,what matters is whether we like a girl with clothes ON or not.If we like a girl with clothes on,then we'll most definitely like a girl without clothes on.And your boyfriend sounds like a complete ass douchebag