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My boyfriend bought me a viberator, He wants me to let him watch what should I do?
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We have been going out for about 3 monthes all we have done is make out. He knows I play withmyself and one day we were talking and somehow a viberator came into convo and were joking. He knows I don't want to let him touch me and I don't want to touch him and I want to keep my virginity. We were at the mall walking around and there's a store caleld spencers and they sell viberators and some clothes an belts an puzzles etc. He spend almost 200 bucks on 3 of them he wants me to use them in front of him. Should I or shouldnt I.
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 19Dont ever do something your not comfortably with. It seems to me like your not ready for something this intimate. Just stay true to you and don't have any regrets. If you think it would be fun go for it but if you feel some presure and uncomfortable DONT! you will regret it later!
don't use it and just ram it up his ass and see how he likes it
Hahahhaa ew lol
it will start you into other things like sex and if you don't want him touching you don't put those thoughts his mind cause he will just want it more and push harder for it.
ok ask yourself do you love him? also ask yourself does he love you? if you said yes to both then don't do it. if it is true love wait to do anything and whenn you want to do something big like sex it is better to do it with someone you love then someone you dont. tell him that you think the playing with toys should wait if he really loves you it will be ok
NO don't. keep your virginity :)
Nope! Make him work for it. If you want to keep ur viginty don't compromise any aspect of it for a guy who wants to jerk off and use you as a tool. 3 months is nothing...if he's around a year and something later by all means enough and explore, but if he hasn't even touched you than he's using you for dirty pleasures...please don't do it. Stand by your morals and be true to your self. You asking this question in it self shows that you aren't okay with this. So go with ur gut feeling and don't make him force you into anything, that's called rAPE.
well as I see you are under 18 so you probably shouldn't. If your boyfriend is also under 18 and spent $200 on vibrators then he is a freakin perv in my opinion (even buying one in the first place is weird but spending that much money is freaky). Personally I don't think you should, you should wait since you are under 18.
If you are uncomfortable then DO NOT do it. He may be ready but you don't have to do anything that you are not ready for. Discuss with him your boundaries. He will never know what the lines he's crossed until he has crossed them if you don't tell him ahead of time.
Good answer now if I had the power id vote you for best answer
U should do it... I did the same with my girl well she already had one... Its a big turn on to watch a girl play with herself... I don't see a problem with it... I bet you any money he would love it and itll turn him on big time
What matters is pleasure, not what we've been taught about 'right & wrong'. Fun and pleasure are ultimate. Do it girlie.
Simran0703 your comment is just as dumb or even dumber then this guys answer but now I can see why you are single. and as for my comment on the answer that would not be a turn on for me at all that would make me feel weird and uncomfortable sex is one thing but watching someone masturbate and someone watching you masturbate is a complete other and it sounds like to me if you read between the lines it sounds like she doesn't want to do it so I don't think she should
Simran, obviously an Indian girl...and iNDIAN girl with NOTHING INDIAN about her. Pleasure yes I AGREE is important. However, not at the expense that you are giving someone else pleasure and recieving none in return. This girl obviously doesn't want to do this, and obviously your stupid comment I hope doesn't sway her, which I don't think it will. Ur truly an idiot and raise ur self esteem before you give other girls lectures about right and wrong.