My boyfriend dumped me because he says I'm a slut.

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for 6 months, he knew that I wasn't a virgin when we first started dating, but later he found out I had sex with a bunch of guys in bands and models and dumped me because he says I'm a whore. How is this different from me sleeping with a bunch of ordinary dudes?!

[Bvroon]

I wouldn't worry too much about him and his small minded opinions. If guys can go out and have multiple sexual partners then why can't women. I completely support equality for men and women, and there is nothing wrong with a woman expressing herself sexually. The fact of the matter we are very sexual creatures, and both men and women desire sex on a pretty regular basis. I know that my wife was very active before I met her, and I'm ok with that, we made a choice to be with each other and do things now to foster a strong exclusive relationship, which is helping us to have a very satisfying emotional as well as sexual relationship. What happened in the past, is in the past. So were I you, I would try and find someone who is a little more confident and less worried about what you did in the past.

[BadBoyLifestyle]

He's an idiot who is conditioned by society and who doesn't understand the meaning of being sexually open It doesn't matter if they are ordinary dudes or guys in bands. I just hope that he will find a chick that can satisfy him as much as you did (or could have).

[Anonymous]

1. He's not worried about what type of people you slept with. He would have dumped you even if they were ordinary people

or

2. He's jealous and insecure and doesn't think he's as good looking or as talented or whatever as the other guys you've been with. So, to make up with his insecurity, he takes it out on you

[DanielSan]

I would say number 2 for sure...and that he is afriad a better guy than him will come along and you will up and leave...this is from a guys perspective

[SCU2013]

its not different. he isn't secure in himself enough to be with you. but someone like him isn't worth your time. if he's gonna be bitter and call you names for no reason at all than you should just live your life. =)

[myths]

It's no different but I suspect it adds insecurity to his jealousy. Men, despite our rough outward appearance, are often intimidated by a woman's past experience.

[Puremilan]

It isn't. You're better off without him, so he really just did you a favor. Move on.

[Cartiphilus]

That sh*thead doesn't realize that many girls he has met have had boyfriends and perhaps casual lovers long before he arrived. He's insecure that you've had so many men and he hasn't had so many women. He's just trying to hurt you. Don't take his ranting personal although they are meant as such only to hurt you.

[adur2000]

Let's summarize:

1. You like to have sex with men you hardly know anything about.

2. You chose the men with superficial reasons.

To a man that wants to trust a woman and wants a long term thing that information means you are not worth his emotional investment in you because it's probable that when you get bored or times are hard you will cheat or leave.

He could be insecure, but he could also be a man that knows what he wants, and that ain't you.

It could also be that your value in his view is not high enough for him to take the risk. You can only trust people to be what they are.

In a way you should be grateful he has enough self esteem to just end it and not string you along to have somebody to f***.

[blah52]

He probably didn't want to date a groupie.

[mandingo1203]

it doesn't matter what kind of guys they are. sleeping around is sleeping around. but if he knew you had been with people before him then it shouldnt matter. I mean if you slept with those people while you were with him yeah your a slut. or if you have been with like 50 people then yeah your a slut. but a handful or guys and you didn't cheat.. he is just scared he sucks in bed and can't deal with it. some guys can't handle the fact that their girl has been with someone else.

[lv4lv]

Most likely he thinks you had sex with them *just* because they're models and in bands. I wonder why this wasn't the first answer or thought of herself...

[thedocj]

The truth is he didn't like the idea your were a tramp at all. Your pathetic excuse that they were band members and models just makes you look even more pathetic and superficial. You have no morals, and are dirty... why would any man have anything to do with you?

[Anonymous]

I'll be honest... (with probability of lots of down ratings)

I would dump you if they were ordinary people too...

I think he thought you did this because they were just fame or good looking and you didn't care about other things ... (sorry butI think so)