My boyfriend fell asleep on me while we were fooling around?

[Anonymous]

this weekend was our year anniversary we stayed at the disneyland hotel in a suite and haddinner everynight and had loads of fun. well the first night we fooled around and had sex but he got sick to his stomach since we were preeeeetty drunk so we stopped and went to sleep. well the next night we were fooling around in the shower and had sex a little then I said lets go to the be I want you to finger me (the night before I did everything to please him...)so we got out and got in bed and he started to finger me and fell asleep on me. we wern't drunk...so I don't get it. guys have you ever allen asleep on a girl? girls has a guy ever fallen asleep on you? I can't help but think this is MY fault a guy would never fll asleep on a good looking girl...at least I don't think he would. this has gotte me feeling pretty ugly and like I'm not good enough for him, he told me it's not my fault and he got really sad saying he feels like crap making the one person he cares about most in life think she's ugly. should I just let this go? or should I worry? right now I'm in the middle...thanks!

[Motorcycle_Girl]

Us girls (and guys) are raised to think that all men are complete horn dogs that can't control themselves around a sexy and willing woman. This is not true at all! Guys get tired, stressed, sick, and some just don't have much of a libido (I'm dating one with no libido right now and went through the exact same thing as you when we went to Vegas! so your question made me smile). I promise you that him falling asleep had nothing to do with your looks, he was probably just exhausted from an active vacation. Do realize that while women can have sex for hours and hours, it takes a lot of energy as a man. If anything you should be happy that he wants to spend time with you with or without sex. :)

[Asker]

aw the same thing happened to you that made me giggle knowing I'm not the only one...<3

[Anonymous]

He was probably still tired from the day before. I've fallen asleep in the middle of masturbating before lol so I'm sure it can also happen during sex. I think the difference between men and women is that if a woman is tired she'll say she is too tired for sex but if a guy is too tired he'll try it anyways.

[Asker]

lol good way of putting it nd I have def falln asleep while masturbating also it was pretty hilarious, my best friend/roomie came in to wake me up in the morning and I was still undressed with my hand down "there" lmao