My boyfriend forcefully does sexual stuff with me, what should I do?

He just grabs me and takes my clothes off, sometimes he climbs on top of me and rubs against me. He kisses me forcefully. I keep saying stop, no.. but he continues to do it. He holds my hands and he physically over powers me. He hasn't penetrated me but I fear he will one day. He does this whenever I am at his place. Sometimes I bear with it thinking it's natural, he says he likes to get wild, or that I m just irresistible. but sometimes I cry and then he becomes a completely different person and he keeps apologizing. What should I do? He doesn't let me go away from him. I have no one else, I really need him. I can't dump him.
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  • This is rape! Talk to the police!

  • why can't you?

  • That's called sexual assault.
    GTFO

  • he may not realize how you feel.
    you should talk to him.

  • He doesn't understand no means no...
    You CAN dump him...
    I'd suggest a restraining order if you're afraid of him.

  • seriously?

    if he's doing something like that and you don't like it... stop seeing him!

  • Leave him or you may get raped 😶

  • That's sexual assault. Leave him.

  • Going to the police is an option. I can't think of anything else right now.

  • I'm sorry but he's an asshole and if you're not comfortable talk to him about it. If he doesn't stop then call the police

  • Sounds like sexual assault. You gotta make an ultimatum. He can't be doing that anymore or you'll dump him.

  • It's 100 percent sexual assault.

    Any penetration without consent ( oral too ) is rape and even if it wasn't, all of this even just individually is equally bad.

    You will be okay, message me anytime if you need help getting out x

  • You realize that in the end you are responsible for your actions and what you allow other people to do to you? He is acting like a fucking asshole and for some reason you're putting up with it. Well I'm sorry to say but in the end you are the one who allows people to treat you one way or another.

  • Break up with him. I was in the same situation, it went on for a few months. Then one night he went to a party, got drunk and when I said no I dont want sex he hit and raped me. It will escalate to that. Apologies don't mean anything if he's ignoring you saying no.

  • Are you gay?

  • Well that repeated sexual assult

  • you don't need anyone but yourself so yes, you can dump him

    don't be another statistic