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My boyfriend likes to spit on my face during sex.....is this just a harmless fetish or lack of respect?
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The spit is just saliva, he likes to dribble in my mouth too! and told me he wants me to swallow his 'juices' every time we have sex. Am I overreacting or do you think he doesn't have respect?
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I feel I love him so I don't mind this that much but I'm more concerned about if he respects me or not by doing it in the first place
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He also asked to p*ss on me...that, I will not tolerate
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15 18I did spit on my current gf and ex wife many times that doesn't excite me anymore. I guess I have make her drink from a dog water bowl next to get excited.
Personally I feel spitting on someone is the nastiest thing someone can do, let alone spitting in someone's mouth. Don't even get me started on all the germs and bacteria that are present in the oral cavity. Not to mention some people never ever see a dentist, except when they have a toothache!!. I guess in my case a person who would want to this probably does not respect or care for me.. like someone else said seems like he's just testing your limits.. which is really mean and he's definitely no gentleman. .. no respect for women... at all.. parents FAILED big time. If he loves you he should treat you like a QUEEN.. not a crack whore..
your man just horny, that's all.
swallow it, girl.
It is very strange. I doubt if you see that even in p*rno. It is hard to figure out such behavior without knowing what kind of person he is. But the most important thing for you is to not let him do anything if you don't like it. You should not have to tolerate strange behavior unless it is your choice. He should understand and accomodate your decision and opinion. After all, sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience for both the guy and girl, in the nature of giving your partner what they want but also not doing what they don't want...flexible, experimental if desired, but accomodating and considerate. If it interferes with your pleasure, it is not considerate or accomodating.
I like my guy making me dirty and enjoy sex nicely
I just spitted in my boyfriends face
That is gross.. But if you don't mind, then let him have his thing. :)
UghUgh this makes me so sad! and just really frustrated.
To me sex is all about respect for your partner... There is no way I would let my guy do this to me and I know for a fact that he wouldn't even dare do it. However, the one thing we BOTH like and enjoy so therefore it is not humiliating to me, or disrespectful, but he does it because I like it... is pulling my hair. Especially when giving head. I like for him to work my head up and down fast slow.. whatever, we both communicate very well to where we know when we are doing something out of line.You really need to talk to him about this... but it made my stomach drop when I read this. goodluck!