My boyfriend loves trannys and wants to be pegged. Serious Question.

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Well me and my current other half have been together for about 14 months. We spend a lot of time together including work, home and even on the weekends as we have a lot of the same interests and friends. Although we have the odd tiff we generally get along really well. We both seem to enjoy time spent with each other. Over the last year or so I did come across shemale p*rn on the computer history and also just the other week I found a couple of corset/gstring set hidden away in the cupboard. Although this kind of worried me I just forgot about it and did not mention it. Our sex life is reasonably good... although he has only ever gone down on me about 5 times since we have been together. I give him head all the time... pretty much every time we have sex. Last time he went down on me was because I said until he started returning the favour I wouldn't be giving him head. He of course obliged but since hasn't bothered. We both got fairly drunk on the weekend and I said that I wanted to try new things and maybe get a little kinky. This was when he opened up to me saying how he gets so turned on by shemale p*rn, loves corsets and wants both me and him to wear them while having sex. Which he did that night. He also mentioned how he wants me to **** him with a strap on. We have had anal sex quite a few times in the past which we both enjoy and I am definitely open to trying new things with him but I have never done much with a males ass. He got me to lie on him the other night like we were ****ing missionairy with me being the male/on top. He did not want me to tell anyone and said that I am the only person he has told... as he can see me and him being together for a long time and so we should both be able to get each other off. He has also commented and is members of transexual groups on Facebook and has asked trannys on there to add him to chat. I am totally open to new things and do not judge him as everybody has their own niches/fetishs. I spose it just comes across rather femenine and I am attracted to the vin diesel/the rock manly type. I spose I am just wondering how many other males are into this sort of thing? I spose I am just worried that he is possibly gay? Maybe he will come out eventually? He is not feminine at all and is very manly. He loves all things most outdoorsy masculine men like. definitely not someone you would pick to be possibly gay.Im sorry this is so long. Anyone with any knowledge on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First off, if it was just the shemale p*rn, I would have said he's almost certainly not gay.

Shemale p*rn is enjoyed by guys who identify as straight, not gay.

Ask any gay guy. They'll tell you, they don't like tranny's or shemales. They like the male form.

However, the fact that he doesn't go down on you too often, is a concern to me.

To me, that says his obsession with **** is actually supplanting the normal hetero desire for the puss. Know what I mean?

Couple this with his desire to get pegged (a desire not shared by every straight guy with a shemale fetish) and I would certainly lean towards thinking he's bisexual.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some of these things would, frankly, turn ME on too... for instance, I'd like to be penetrated by a woman wearning a strap-on. As you must have heard, the male anus contains some pleasure spots which, when aroused, can cause instant orgasm (for the male).

As for transvestites, I am revulsed by the idea of a sexy woman with a pen*s too! I'd prefer a normal woman just to wear a strap-on and "do" me.

Being dominated by a woman is a regular fantasy of many persons. Me too... (At the same time, I like to dominate a woman too, and find it attractive!)

Bebegunn · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend also doesn't go down on me. I found out he's been drunk dialing a tranny that he had a year long relationship with. I've found shemale p*rn on his computer. I, like you have wondered if he's gay. I've asked him and he says no but watches some freaky stuff on p*rn and as a result our sex life is non existent.

I feel for you! What a turn off to have both of you in corsets. It's not you...I'm sure your sexy but I too would wonder if he preferred working on manly parts instead.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Did you end up doing him with the strapon before you split?

CuriousEddie · Answer

Some of those things interest me, too -- but they are in addition to, and not substitutes for a woman. For instance, I love cunnilingus, and would always prefer that overall... but the idea of variety and the things you mention sound quite fun.

Kreneman · Answer

It sounds like you love him and enjoy being him. Your a great women and I commend for not judging him but at the same time your boyfriend is becoming by Bisexual (He probably is by now). I am very confident he will be thrill if you perform this on him but be careful on what your engaging in because that can affect your sex life meaning he will not be passionate to satified you no more (losing interest towards vagina or women) and becoming more passionate for his desire and feelings (Meaning Love to be the anal receptive male most of the time and more interested towards Males and Males trying to be women).

Jamupwelder · Answer

I'm saying ven diesel likes penis in the but too soo fuck that man with a strap on and watch bow your pushy drips

Anonymous · Answer

Clt piercing is sexy

Maybe he is gay

I'll admit I've looked at that stuff from time to time

But only cause the thought of a girl f***ing another girl without the need for a strap-on is pretty cool

You should talk to him about it

Because even though I like all that stuff

I wouldn't miss a chance to eat out my girl

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