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My boyfriend made a rude comment about my boobs!
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My boyfriend and have been together for 2 years now and things have been great! Last night we laid in the sofa and I started getting a little frisky :) I started kissing his neck and massaging his penis. He started massaging my breast and said "You know...if you had bigger boobs you would be perfect." ...i was so turned of and embarrassed at this point. I just crawled off and said "Do you not like my boobs? He said "No, no! Not saying that at all but I mean if you had bigger ones I would enjoy it more." I was so embarrassed and I just wanted cry. Is this a problem? I didn't think I was that small! I never knew he had a problem with my boobs. I wear a 36C... She I let it go or should I be mad?
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38 2636 C is very good ... huge t*ts aren't really a turn on as much as large/ midium sized t*ts... punish him by making him get naked then.. act that you have been turned off by his d*** .. say his same words and be serious abt it ... you can say that ur ex bf's have much bigger d***s
when you are lying in bed beside him 2nite tell him "if you had a bigger penis you would be perfect" ! see how he responds to that!
well if after you ask him and he said I dident mean it like that then for get it but I think your boyfriend needs to learn that life is not for sex but exp or as I say life isnot made by the breath's you take but the things that take your breath away tell him that and say that its like the humps he dose or the sun sets you share
He must like really big boobs because 36 c are big to me. If I was you I would have said I think if you had a bigger penis I would enjoy it more and I have said nothing.
I'd be p*ssed, just sayin' xDD
Let him go what a jerk, a man or should I say boy that would say something like that to the one he loves, Well he does not really love you so tell him to p*ss off and find a guy that likes everything about you and complements your body. he is shallow, how would he feel if you said hey babe if you had a bigger d*** I would be happier. good luck with that punk
wow -- what a rude dude
what an o,g! straight him norte! homeboy...hes an o.g for saying that I'm sorry but he has my respect
WOMEN ALWAYS WANT US TO SAY WHATS ON OUR MIND WELL KNOW YOU KNOW...
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What a douche
Shut up hoe some1 got knocked up ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Just let it go otherwise he will become fixated. He probably just made it as a remark, rather tactless but only a remark. After all, if he had wanted big boobs he would have chosen someone else! You could strike back by saying "Your penis is too small/big." or "Your legs are too thin." or even "Your hair is not what it was."
However, I think a better response would be "Big boobs go saggy, would you like me to have saggy boobs?"
I do not know what you think of certain things but my reaction, if I was a girl, would be to follow up by saying. "Have you ever seen strip artists with tassels and big boobs? No you haven't because big boobs are not suitable. Smaller neater boobs are best and they stand the test of time, anyway, it's not the size of the boobs, it's what I do with them that counts."
You will now have him eating out of the palm of your hand!
That's ridiculous most consider C to be the perfect size much better than B's which I have.
he's a complete d***. you should start taking new boyfriend applications. I'm serious. for a guy to say this to you without even thinking about how it would make you feel means that he is not mature enough to love you the way you deserve and isn't a good enough guy for you. also show him how it feels and hurt his feelings back. tell him if his d*** was bigger he would be able to hit your spot correctly without you having to fake it. if you let it go he will never respect you because he knows he can talk to you any kind of way and you will accept it. and yeah I was serious about you looking for a new bf.
don't be mad. but at the same time, do not let it go.
tell him of the situation and how you feel about it. tell him how they will not change or grow any bigger and you're not gonna change yourself for him. well, the thing is, it's been two years with you guys so I doubt he wanted to hurt you. just inform him how you feel and I think that should be fine. (:
lmao ur boobs are big I have a-cup boobies nobody ever complaind..they shouldt because then ill complain as much and be truthful too them about their d***s because you always had some1 better...
the fact that he didn't say "you have nasty t*ts" but just that he'd be more turned on if they were bigger should count for something.
save the passive aggression for childhood and just let it go, talk about it, or end it like so many girls are saying you should do. Don't run around screaming short d*** man lyrics or anything. it's not going to help at all.
Just let it go, tell him you are who you are, and they won't get any bigger.
I would totally be angry and embarrassed. Wow, he made one huge mistake here. Instead of getting his fantasy fulfilled, he's going to be getting a whole lot of rocky sex from a girlfriend who will now be quite insecure and not turned on. He will remember this lesson for life.
Hopefully he realizes now that he said something real awful. If not, ask him how he would feel if you told him you would like his d*ck to be bigger, not that you don't like what he has but you would enjoy it more if he was bigger. I can only hope he apologizes profusely. If he cannot wrap his mind around what he has done and how awful it is, I would break-up with him.
Withhold sex from him for a month. That seems like a good punishment. Though, you might need a toy to avoid your own punishment.
What an asshole! You should be really mad... What kind of guy says that?
Your boyfriend sounds like an asshole. You shouldn't tolerate rude comments like that.