Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I told him I don't feel sexy because my boobs are so small. He suggested I should get breast implants. I know they are small but are small breasts really that bad? Are small boobs a turn off for men? Can small boobs be sexy? Or do they have to be big for men to want them? I feel so ugly and unwanted. Even by my own boyfriend and I feel so pathetic for crying about it.
This isn't a picture of me but her body is similar to mine. Slim with small boobs. Would I look better with breast implants? Should I get them?
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My boyfriend said I should get breast implants? Should I?
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This was the first time I ever said anything. I was trying on a bathing suit and I said how unsexy I felt. I have never complained about my small boobs to him until now. We were also at the beach and he was staring at girls with big boobs the whole time.
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What Girls & Guys Said
25 30You don't have to do that. How did he loves you at first place?, lols... he just want a big plastic bag to put on your chest.. LMAO
I voted no bc I think smaller breasts are sexier
The poll should give you your answer.
Guys don't like fake plastic boobs, the few who do are usually douche bags.
No! Absolutely not!! Your boyfriend is a fool! I guess if you want them then it's a little better. But I would rather see a natural A then a fake any size!!! I think no matter how good of a job the doctor does or how nice there suposed to be... There Fake! It's like putting a mask on your face to try to be some one your not!!
Get a real man! One that will love you just the way you are!! Not fake body modification!!!
It's like asking if a small dick is unattractive. Yes, they are, according to most women. Dump your boyfriend though, guys an idiot
Do what makes you happy. If you want them, get them. If you both want them, then great :p but if you don't want them, then don't do it. I do think that he should love you the way you are, and it shouldn't be something he complains about. As as for him staring, An old man (late 80's at the time) who has now passed away once told me "A man will always look at, and appreciate a womans body. That is what we are wired to do. The moment he stops looking is the moment he is no longer a man." Just as long as he doesn't compare you to them. If you aren't what he wants, he should just leave you.(sorry to be harsh) and if you feel he doesn't love you the way you are, don't try to change for him. Leave him. But talk to him about it first before you make any decisions.
Don't do it.
First of all I don't think you should change yourself for someone else, if that was your choice then I'd say nothing wrong with it even though breast implants are not my preference. On top of that your relationship is still not definite.
"I told him I don't feel sexy because my boobs are so small"
How often do you say this to him? Some guys get tired of having to comfort insecurities 200 times a day. So maybe this time he said what he thought you wanted to hear.
I'm not defending his actions, I just want to know more about it.
I was trying on a swim suit. And it was the first time I said it to him.
If it was the first time then he was completely over the top, I'd never ask my girlfriend to change something for me. It wouldn't matter whether we're married or not. I'd love for for who she is. I think you should talk about it but overall I'm doubting if he's the right guy for you.
Yes, you should.
Thank you for your honesty. Are they to small? Do boobs need to be big for them to be sexy to men?