My boyfriend takes a while to cum and it hurts me?
I was always used to the guy that only lasted a few minutes. Do you girls have any tips or have you ever been in this position?
My boyfriend is also like that so usually what we do is - lot of foreplay, I love giving extensive orals, I ride him, we go doggy or me lying down and in the end I go down on him again and he cums by masturbating. I like that you could try this. Also if you don't like to go for 30 minutes or more just tell him that you'd rather go down on him or you could try riding him in a squatting position, it's very pleasurable!
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The more he does it the more stamina he builds and the longer he will probably go each time. Personally 3-5 times a night? Wow you guys are super hero's... I would say take a break a bit. Talk to him about it. See if your pain doesn't subside, but the more you do it with soreness, the more sore you will be. Take time to heal and just pleasure him if he needs it that often. Best of Luck
This actually happened to me when my husband and I first started dating. I just told him what was going on, and obviously he doesn't want to hurt me so he understood. We still messed around but didn't have sex for like a week and when we finally did he was very gentle about it, bless his soul lol If you tell him what's going on he'll understand.
Just tell him what you want instead. Does he know it hurts?
well i think the first thing you need to do is cut back the amount of sex. of course after even the first time it is going to take longer and longer ejaculate. you can only produce so much lubrication naturally so after the 1st time and each subsequent act you will have less and less lubrication
so one thing is to use more lube
the second is to cut down on the amount of times you are having sex so your body can re-build it's natural lubricants
I'm like your new boyfriend and last 30 minutes before I cum as well. Some men like myself don't cum quickly very often and so have the stamina to keep going until our body reaches the point of no return to orgasm!
Read this article link below:
www.bustle.com/.../96412-how-to-make-him-come-faster-because-sometimes-you-just-need-to-switch-positions-or-grab
Thanks for the upvote 😉
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You should use more lube. And you can always stop him during intercourse to apply more as well. He could use one of those penis health cremes too.. these are made to moisturize and improve the texture of the penis skin. I use one and my girlfriend loves it. Hope this helps.
You need to lube. Try Durex. I think that will solve a lot of your problems.
do you use Durex?
@8hardinches what if she does
@8hardinches Yup they are a good brand for lube. Never had problems with em.
He may have
NO alcohol
NO cumming within a day of sex w/you
LOTS of foreplay on him
With alcohol he is worse, but the other two could definitely be an option. I'll try give him a lot of extra attention get him closer maybe he won't last so long.
3 to 5 times a night lololol
Try lube
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