My boyfriend wants me to get plastic surgery. Is this a bad idea?
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I know it sounds weird, but my boyfriend suggested that I should get plastic surgery - implants. He even offered to pay for it. I'm flat-chested and have always wanted bigger boobs, but I'm not sure if surgery is a good idea. I have a few friends that have gotten implants (and lip injections) and they look amazing, but do you think it's a bad idea? If not, should I let him pay for it?
Yes, I would get plastic surgery for a guy!
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No way, I would NOT get plastic surgery for a guy!
If he offered to get them for you because he KNEW it bothered you and thought it would build your confidence and its something you want and he's cool with, I see no issue.
If he's telling you to get implants because he is attracted to larger breasts and he doesn't like yours, then he's an asshole.
My point overall is I have a feeling he meant this to be a positive thing. Obviously if he got with you as you are he has no issue with your boobs, but if he suddenly were to it's because he's a jack ass. Now, as to if you should go through with it, this is my advice: if you are willing to go through with it properly (looking for a good doctor, pricing, taking the appropriate time off, etc) and it is something you want for YOUR confidence, then do it. If you don't feel like its something you can handle then absolutely do not do it.
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canadachicXper 6
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It's your body which means you choose what you do with it. He needs to accept you for who you are and if he can't that means you should consider showing him the door.
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Afro-dite9Yoda
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First of all that question wouldn't be asked from me because he would be my EX boyfriend. An EXample of what I shouldn't be fucking with in the near future. Plastic surgery now, threesomes later. If a mf isn't comfortable with u than u should curve them long story short. If a mf tell me I'm too big... oh I'll lose lbs alright... I will... I will dump his ass so now our relationship is lighter lmfao 😂 I'm out👌✌ u seriously don't need a mf to tell u these types of things, why even tell u at all. A secure man wouldn't suggest this, just a little b**** would.
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Afro-dite9
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A dude told me he loved long hair, so I cut my shhh bald😏 and thus I'm loving my non permed hair a. k. Afro✊✊ be a woman of ur own mind. And what if u do this and he leave's u. Tell him if he doesn't like it to find a new girlfriend. Boyyyy bye👋👋👋
DasVoz
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Damn that MF playing himself!
Afro-dite9
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@DasVoz hmmmm who... the bastard telling her to mutilate her body?
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DasVoz
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Of course.
Afro-dite9
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@DasVoz lol I just wanted to call him that honestly. Yes but it's really up to her, she can ask over and over again... but she knows what she wants to do already. I just pray it's not surgery😯😑another mf will want u kiddo just the way u are believe me... leave that fuck boy alone👌
SexyStudentXper 5
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Don't you dare you look fantastic. You will regret having plastic surgery for the rest of your life. Natural breasts are the way to go. Unless you plan on going to be a professional wrestler
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GhostedXper 5
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r u serious? I've never heard someone say that to someone else. wow. i thoght guys were veery against implants cuz they dont feel the same.
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seby1607Xper 5
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It's your body, not his, you do whatever YOU like with your body, NOT whatever HE likes
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peachblossomluckGuru
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I think you should replace him or just be single. I'm pretty shallow myself but when people are willing to let themselves get cut up and unnaturally reformed to make someone else happy that's low self-esteem 911.
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MaisGem21Explorer
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Dump him.
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BeautifulWreckXper 6
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I would never get plastic surgery on the simple sake that a man wants me to have bigger boobs. However, it sounds like you want them as well so its a mutual agreement on your part. I wouldn't feel comfortable allowing him go pay for it however. Its a modification to your body so I would suggest paying for it yourself.
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meesh1220Xper 6
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What do YOU want? Make sure you're not doing it for him. It's your body, you make your own choices.
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MeesterlijkXper 6
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I think it's kind of weird, but it depends on his motives. If he just wants a girlfriend with a big chest, he's just thinking about himself I think it's selfish and wrong to have someone else to undergo surgery just for you. If he sees you're lacking confidence and wants you to be happy (and more confident about your chest size) he might offer you to pay just to help you out.
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LittleSallyEditor
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Yes, it's a TERRIBLE idea... Just be who you are and if you're satisfied with who you are and what you look like don't change for someone you might not even be with in the future...
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justbanANNAzEditor
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I'm refraining from saying so much but ill just stick with, don't feel like u have to do that for anyone.
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rsstanfordYoda
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You never want him to throw it in your face. And say "if it wasn't for me you would still be flat chested you owe me". If you want bigger boobs you pay for it don't ever have a man pay for them.
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Girl_ScoutXper 5
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You'll look so sexy when you're sixty and have fake titties, a wrinkly face and fake lips...
That is nightmare fuel AND THE REASON I HATE FAKE BOOBS or anything fake in particular x. x
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Girl_Scout
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@ArchieTheMage haha, nightmare fuel...
BertMacklinFBI
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she's still young at heart. ughh blech
MrOracle
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I just threw up in my mouth! +11111!!! ONE111!
Girl_Scout
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@BertMacklinFBI did she have a new heart as well as new tits? What gets me is she always looks so proud of herself!
Girl_Scout
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@MrOracle yeah... not so sexy now are they!
9mfeo
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That's horrifying.
Girl_Scout
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@9mfeo a glimpse of the future...
9mfeo
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Not my future! I'm going to need to employ two little people to stand in front of me and hold my boobs up.
Girl_Scout
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@9mfeo hahaha! At least you're creating jobs!
9mfeo
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I hope to be able to provide a good insurance package to cover the inevitable therapy expenses.
Girl_Scout
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@9mfeo I'm sure many would be happy living in the shadow of boobs :)
MrDetermined
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That's disturbing
BOUBOUXper 4
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A guy who does not love you, of who you REALLY are is not YOUR guy. I mean, of course, you can do whatever you want with your body, but be careful here girl. Most men are influenced by female models who are marketized to the public eye as the IDEAL females and as a result, they (men) tend to believe these girls are sexier than a girl who is more '"NATURAL". Please take into consideration if you really want to undergo this kind of surgery. Don't forget that it is painful and costs an arm and a leg.
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Girl_Ex_MachinaXper 5
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The fuck is wrong with him? Look, if you're insecure and have wanted this for a while, go for it, but not for a guy! Never for a guy. Your body belongs to you. Your breasts belong to you, not him, plus, plastic surgery comes with a lot of risks. I wrote a paper on it a couple years ago. Surgery is a big deal. Someone is using drugs to make you unconscious and then cutting into you to implant a foreign object into your body. There is the possibility of nerve damage, infection, the implants bursting, or just looking fake AF. My advice is as follows: Dump his ass and find someone who sees you as a person, not a fucking object he can modify to his liking. You are human being, you are important, and you are beautiful, don't ever let this guy, or anyone, make you forget that.
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dogbert444Guru
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Small boobs are best, so don't ever consider implants. They'll get bigger naturally as you get older and have kids anyway. As for lips? NO WAY! Natural is always best.
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madhatters4Master
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i personally don't like fake breasts. they look ok sometimes but there is no comparing them to the real thing especially to the touch,
if u get plastic surgery do it for you and not for anyone else
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bhale2012Xper 5
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No one is going to think every thing about a certain person Is perfect. I would consider changing my hair for a guy, quitting smoking for a guy, working out more, going back to school, and yes even plastic surgery. I wouldn't do anything that I think would make me like myself less (face tattoo or piercing for example) but if it's something that I would like to do anyways or have thought of, I see no problem with him suggesting it too. And even if my husband did want me to get something done that I despised the idea of, I wouldn't get mad, just tell him no and move on
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145 116I may have a shocking opinion here:
If he offered to get them for you because he KNEW it bothered you and thought it would build your confidence and its something you want and he's cool with, I see no issue.
If he's telling you to get implants because he is attracted to larger breasts and he doesn't like yours, then he's an asshole.
My point overall is I have a feeling he meant this to be a positive thing. Obviously if he got with you as you are he has no issue with your boobs, but if he suddenly were to it's because he's a jack ass. Now, as to if you should go through with it, this is my advice: if you are willing to go through with it properly (looking for a good doctor, pricing, taking the appropriate time off, etc) and it is something you want for YOUR confidence, then do it. If you don't feel like its something you can handle then absolutely do not do it.
It's your body which means you choose what you do with it. He needs to accept you for who you are and if he can't that means you should consider showing him the door.
First of all that question wouldn't be asked from me because he would be my EX boyfriend. An EXample of what I shouldn't be fucking with in the near future. Plastic surgery now, threesomes later. If a mf isn't comfortable with u than u should curve them long story short. If a mf tell me I'm too big... oh I'll lose lbs alright... I will... I will dump his ass so now our relationship is lighter lmfao 😂 I'm out👌✌ u seriously don't need a mf to tell u these types of things, why even tell u at all. A secure man wouldn't suggest this, just a little b**** would.
A dude told me he loved long hair, so I cut my shhh bald😏 and thus I'm loving my non permed hair a. k. Afro✊✊ be a woman of ur own mind. And what if u do this and he leave's u. Tell him if he doesn't like it to find a new girlfriend. Boyyyy bye👋👋👋
Damn that MF playing himself!
@DasVoz hmmmm who... the bastard telling her to mutilate her body?
Of course.
@DasVoz lol I just wanted to call him that honestly. Yes but it's really up to her, she can ask over and over again... but she knows what she wants to do already. I just pray it's not surgery😯😑another mf will want u kiddo just the way u are believe me... leave that fuck boy alone👌
Don't you dare you look fantastic. You will regret having plastic surgery for the rest of your life. Natural breasts are the way to go. Unless you plan on going to be a professional wrestler
r u serious? I've never heard someone say that to someone else. wow. i thoght guys were veery against implants cuz they dont feel the same.
It's your body, not his, you do whatever YOU like with your body, NOT whatever HE likes
I think you should replace him or just be single. I'm pretty shallow myself but when people are willing to let themselves get cut up and unnaturally reformed to make someone else happy that's low self-esteem 911.
Dump him.
I would never get plastic surgery on the simple sake that a man wants me to have bigger boobs. However, it sounds like you want them as well so its a mutual agreement on your part. I wouldn't feel comfortable allowing him go pay for it however. Its a modification to your body so I would suggest paying for it yourself.
What do YOU want? Make sure you're not doing it for him. It's your body, you make your own choices.
I think it's kind of weird, but it depends on his motives. If he just wants a girlfriend with a big chest, he's just thinking about himself I think it's selfish and wrong to have someone else to undergo surgery just for you. If he sees you're lacking confidence and wants you to be happy (and more confident about your chest size) he might offer you to pay just to help you out.
Yes, it's a TERRIBLE idea...
Just be who you are and if you're satisfied with who you are and what you look like don't change for someone you might not even be with in the future...
I'm refraining from saying so much but ill just stick with, don't feel like u have to do that for anyone.
You never want him to throw it in your face. And say "if it wasn't for me you would still be flat chested you owe me". If you want bigger boobs you pay for it don't ever have a man pay for them.
You'll look so sexy when you're sixty and have fake titties, a wrinkly face and fake lips...
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Oh I'm not sleeping for awhile.
@ArchieTheMage pretty grim eh?
That is nightmare fuel AND THE REASON I HATE FAKE BOOBS or anything fake in particular x. x
@ArchieTheMage haha, nightmare fuel...
she's still young at heart. ughh blech
I just threw up in my mouth! +11111!!! ONE111!
@BertMacklinFBI did she have a new heart as well as new tits? What gets me is she always looks so proud of herself!
@MrOracle yeah... not so sexy now are they!
That's horrifying.
@9mfeo a glimpse of the future...
Not my future! I'm going to need to employ two little people to stand in front of me and hold my boobs up.
@9mfeo hahaha! At least you're creating jobs!
I hope to be able to provide a good insurance package to cover the inevitable therapy expenses.
@9mfeo I'm sure many would be happy living in the shadow of boobs :)
That's disturbing
A guy who does not love you, of who you REALLY are is not YOUR guy. I mean, of course, you can do whatever you want with your body, but be careful here girl. Most men are influenced by female models who are marketized to the public eye as the IDEAL females and as a result, they (men) tend to believe these girls are sexier than a girl who is more '"NATURAL". Please take into consideration if you really want to undergo this kind of surgery. Don't forget that it is painful and costs an arm and a leg.
The fuck is wrong with him? Look, if you're insecure and have wanted this for a while, go for it, but not for a guy! Never for a guy. Your body belongs to you. Your breasts belong to you, not him, plus, plastic surgery comes with a lot of risks. I wrote a paper on it a couple years ago. Surgery is a big deal. Someone is using drugs to make you unconscious and then cutting into you to implant a foreign object into your body. There is the possibility of nerve damage, infection, the implants bursting, or just looking fake AF. My advice is as follows: Dump his ass and find someone who sees you as a person, not a fucking object he can modify to his liking. You are human being, you are important, and you are beautiful, don't ever let this guy, or anyone, make you forget that.
Small boobs are best, so don't ever consider implants. They'll get bigger naturally as you get older and have kids anyway. As for lips? NO WAY! Natural is always best.
i personally don't like fake breasts. they look ok sometimes but there is no comparing them to the real thing especially to the touch,
if u get plastic surgery do it for you and not for anyone else
No one is going to think every thing about a certain person Is perfect. I would consider changing my hair for a guy, quitting smoking for a guy, working out more, going back to school, and yes even plastic surgery. I wouldn't do anything that I think would make me like myself less (face tattoo or piercing for example) but if it's something that I would like to do anyways or have thought of, I see no problem with him suggesting it too. And even if my husband did want me to get something done that I despised the idea of, I wouldn't get mad, just tell him no and move on