My boyfriend wants me to watch him have sex with another female?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked me last night would I like to watch him have sex with another woman. I told him "yes, depending on the circumstances", to try and get some more information out of him. He then said when he was finished with her, we (her and myself) could then fight over his appendage to see who won him. A bit confrontational I feel. Were not young people, but are both divorcees. Is he just exploring his new found freedom? Is he just showing a voyeuristic side? I went out with this man over 16 years ago (for about a year) before he got married and he never showed any of these signs before. Any suggestions to help me understand what exactly he is trying to ask me would be greatly appreciated.

[Phoenix52]

He's doing it for an ego boost, to feel like a man who's in control and has sexual market value.

In all honesty, having a threesome with 2 beautiful women at once is a big male fantasy which we'd like to have at least once in our lives.

I don't know why he wants you to fight for his d*ck, though. Not worth it. I think the better idea is to just do YOU after he does her.

[Anonymous]

Is he good enough to satisfy two women? If not you need to tell him. If he is well you might consider it. Its a good way to keep him faithful.

[udolipixie]

Yes he's exploring his freedom most guys want a threesome- a ffm one since mmf is the bad threesome.

If you want to do it agree but ask first if he's open to mmf.

If not tell him you want a mmf first before you do his thing.