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My cousin and I have a mutual crush. Yesterday, we acted on it.
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My cousin (First) and I have liked each other for a very long time. Its always been a running joke that we'd act on it if we had the chance. We are kinda like cuddle buddies. Every chance we get, we cuddle. Anyway, she came up to stay a few days with me and it was absolutely amazing. It was just me and her and we cuddled all weekend. Not just normal cuddling but if you could make cuddling hardcore, that was it lol. Well on the last day we were in each others arms, she was in panties and a tank and I was in boxers and a tee shirt. We were face to face and it was feeling really nice. We looked at each other and we kissed. We had never done that before, it kind of shocked us both. We kissed again and again and eventually we were making out. When we cuddle it was normal for me to rub her inner thigh or her tummy or whatever. This time it went a little further. My hand slipped under her panties and there was a lot of finger play. She came and we continued to make out. I then removed her undies and there was a lot of tongue play. She came again and we went back to making out and fingering. It never went beyond that and she didn't do anything to me. She wanted to, she kept giving subtle hints that she wanted me to ask for it but I always feel weird asking so I didn't. Anyways... So basically it was everything but sex and it will never escalate to to sex. We were at it for about 3.5 hours till we finally had to get up and leave. My question is, would you have acted on it if you were in my situation? Would you continue to do it? I know its wrong but what's done is done so no need to preach about it if that's what you are going to answer.
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ok... It escalated to sex.
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We are basically in a full blown secret relationship right now.
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That's really not okay, you shouldn't be alone together anymore and I wouldn't act on those urges ever again. Is that even legal?
Actually, I think in 1/4 of the U.S. states, you can marry your first cousin.
yes that's rong its nasty
that was naughty.
i don't know but as long as she doesn't get pregnant and give birth to a ton of inbred webbed feet babies I'd say go for it and enjoy BUT make sure you know that you cannot get married and should stay ready to fall in love with a nonrelative and to keep this to lust so that you can break away at any time x
what's wrong with webbed feet?! Not that I have them (shuffle shuffle)
maaan you are sick. no matter how hot she is or how much you attracted to her You DONT FUKC AROUND WITH UR COUSIN LIKE THAT get it. unless you are from the south its normal there
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LOOOL! "DUDE THAT'S GROSS!" ... (unless u're from the south it's normal there).. XD
Yup she wuda been bucked.
sick, just sick
Man your f***ed! You do relize that is your COUSIN! There is something seriously wrong with that. She is part of your family!
"I know its wrong but what's done is done so no need to preach about it if that's what you are going to answer."
Well what did you want people to comment about this. To just tell you to keep having a thing with your cousin. becuase all this is messed. maybe you guys shouldnt see each other anymore. Because this is some crazy sh*t!!!! but I'm sure some people experience the same thing. but they just might not act on it. but whatever do what you want!!! :) :)
Fuck her
it is hard to imagine that you can be attracted to your cousin, you generally don't have feelings liek that for your relatives even distants once, just doen't happedn that often. but if you want it each other more power to you as long as you are happy and the sex is good :)
Ask your self, is it love or lust? Then you'll know the answer.
Dude don't listen to any bull that they have told you already.
Look first of all it's not wrong on the bible there is a section that is about incest, (incest in the bible is brothers, sisters, half brothers , half sisters) it doesn't mention anything about cousins being prohibited. Religion wants for al people to be happy in life and if that is with a cousin then be it. All that you have to do is talk with the priest and he will get a special permit for you to be married. The only thing that gets in the way is the civil laws in the city and genetics.
If you want more detail on this send me message and I'll be glad to help, I can even give you an example.
well my boyfriend is from a paligamist family. they marry their cousins. I don't think its weird at all. everyones just weird about it cause they werent raised around it and they were taught it was wrong. but who became king and declared that? now I wouldn't have done it just because there is no way in hell that id ever be the least bit attracted to my cousins. I say its okay. it might just be aphase. I say run with it:) you only think its wrong because your parents raised you that way. but that's for you to decide if you thought it was okay or not. forget what your parents say and just ask yourself.
personally this situation is not the best but follow your heart ya'll are not gonna be the first and damn sure not the last
DUuude, if you like her... nothing else matters. I would have acted on it. what if she's your cousin? so what? just because society thinks its wrong to have a thing with your cousin doesn't mean you can't. I'm open minded. I don't see the problem.
Ok i have a cousin and we both have a crush on each other and i stayed at her place for a week and it was great and we would both cuddle when get the chance and on the last day when i was there she kissed me. So we are both kind of in the same situation but not soo sexual like you but in this case im not going to judge you at all
I think you're fine my man. I would have done it if it was my cousin. I have the same issue with my cousin and we're both cool with it. If you don't express your true feelings to her, your relationship will never be the same
I have fucked my cousin
I would fuck the shit out of her
Alright imma be real with you on this one, i have a bit of feelings of my own with a cousin that is not related by blood, but she doesn't know that we aren’t. So i have never acted on them or mentioned them. I know that sex could always lead to deeper feelings for eachother and could lead to marriage and kids but since you are related by blood, personally i would stay far away due to social aspects and scientific aspects of it. Since if you have a certain amout of related blood and have kids it can have serious birth defects, as well as giving the kids more likely chances for hereditary diseases. Personally I would not act on it anymore, but you do you.
What area of the US are you from? Not a joke just wondering?