My friend told me I should be more grateful for having big boobs. Is she right?

My friend told me I should be more grateful for having big boobs. Is she right?

I have DD's and I think they're a pain in the rear to deal with. I have neck and back pain and if I wear a V-neck shirt or swimsuit, guys won't look me in the eye while they're "talking" to me.

I cannot for the the love figure out why women are willing to go under the knife to make their boobs bigger unless it's due to an illness like breast cancer or something like that. Besides, most guys like women who are slender anyway. My boobs were weighed and together are 12 pounds. And on top of that, I'm only 5'2 so they make me look fat no matter what I'm wearing. And being 5'2, it makes it easier for men to look down my shirt. Plus there's not a lot you can do to hide them or put them away unless you wear a garbage bag or something but still feel comfortable.

My friend is a size B, though, and she thinks I'm being very ungrateful. She's 5'7 and she has said several times she wished she had big boobs like me. She told me I need to stop complaining about something that so many woman pay thousands of dollars for and they make it easier to attract guys. But I told her it attracts men for the wrong reasons and instead of wanting to talk to me, they just really want to squeeze my rack real quick. I also noticed that the bigger they are, the dumber men seem to think I am. This was after I made a comment that I may need a new bra because my 36DD one is getting to be too small. And I'm 27. And I haven't even had kids yet so if I do get pregnant these big bastards are definitely going to get larger.

So am I being ungrateful? I don't know if she wants her boobs to be bigger because I didn't ask. But it does make me mad that she thinks I should just be happy and have nothing to complain about.
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  • i think u should be grateful

  • My girlfriend has e cups or something and she is always complaining unless were in bed together having sex. If were just in bed together then im no help.

  • Yep, she's definitely correct! You're quite fortunate to be blessed with them. Not many girls have them and so that makes you quite special.

  • You know it like she's having small so she jealous of you and you have big so you want little small. Just accept what you have. Don't think much

  • thats just so big on such a short girl. i feel theyd take up the whole top half of u haha

    • That is exactly what is so desirable. As soon as you get a little more experience with women you'll understand.

  • Yes, be grateful for what God gave you is how i see things.

  • Id have thought it depends if you have a strong core so back pain isn't an issue and if you like getting more attention from guys or if you find it annoying.

  • Being in constant pain is all the reason you need. Your "friend" has no idea what you feel. But is the real issue your feelings of how others see you with large boobs (natural breboobs?

    • It's both

    • And at least your being honest with yourself.. I bet almost every woman who was given larger breasts, wished she didn't at some time. Dont let your boobs make you who you become. They are only an accessory.

  • I am an F cup and I do have a bad back sometimes but I find a massage always helps. Men always look at them regardless of size but I always feel more attractive if I wear a V-neck. I personally would hate to have small boob but maybe that is because I am use to having big ones

    • at F cups even d cups must look small to u

    • @Toobig4u everything looks smaller than me haha

    • ha at 11.5 inches i know what u mean

  • No, she isn't, but since society tries to convince small breasted women that they should have big boobs to sell products, she likely believes she needs big boobs.

  • I have back and neck pain to and i have no tits.

  • are you crazy?
    big boobs means happiness.
    definitely be grateful. ❤

  • Yeah, big tits are the best as long as they ain't saggy.

    • Saggy is gorgeous!