I really really don't think you should do this especially if you are going to meet him someday and visit him...would he expect real sex then when you went to visit? If that is the case would you be willing to do that? (just something to think about). And there is so much about this guy you don't even know, I mean yea you have seen him on cam but you don't know his true history or anything. But I can relate I've gone through the same thing as you and I kinda gave in but not all the way at first and now I refuse to do cam stuff because you never know that may come back to haunt you just look at all the sex tapes and nude pics that have been leaked of celebs. Bottom line I think you should really think this through before you do this because the decisions you make now could come out 5, 10 or so years later
0 0 0 0thanks for answering my question. I know exactly what you mean that's why I'm scared and doubtful. but I i did it twice already although not all the way, still it's me that got naked. :(( I want to tell him no but how will I tell him? I mean I don't want him to think that I'm kinda accusing him that he recorded or tend to record it. he's been nice to me and he didn't really force me to do it. I mean I did it already so how can I tell him that I changed my mind?
just answer your question: I would be willing but I think I have to know him personally.
Just say that you have thought about it and changed your mind, your entitled to that. Say you aren't comfortable with going any further than you have or doing it anymore at all. If he likes you he will understand and if he ends up not talking to you anymore then you will see he just wanted to have some fun that's all.
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You are taking a risk -- photos and recordings live forever. If you each go your separte ways one day, he will have them and there won't be anything you can do about it.
0 0 0 0i appreciate your answer, you're a guy so how will you take it if you're him (my online bf) that after "me" doing it twice all of sudden I just said no and changed my mind I mean we actually had a meeting on cam after work but I didn't go on line cause I'm scared and doubtful. would you feel that I accuse or I see you as a bad person that will do such thing? thanks again
As your boyfriend I wouldn't like it but if you explained to me that you were uncomfortable showing your face because you never know who is watching I might understand.
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