Ok, so big breasts are better. Got it.

[Anonymous]

I've been reading answers here on GirlsAskGuys. Answers to girls asking about breast size. And while men get all "small breasts are so beautiful!" when an insecure small chested girl is asking, the moment big breasts are put into question, then "small breasts are not attractive!". Why do I believe the latter most? Well, obviously just look around and SEE how many big breasts are placed in ads, Playboy, Maxim (or whatever crap) and of course porn, strip clubs, prime time, etc. Got it. Bigger IS better. Stop lying guys. I know a couple of you prefer small breasts. But the vast majority (as a lot of you have said) prefer and give "preferential treatment" to women with large bosoms. And it is noticeable in real life. Yes, I'm bitter, and hurt and frustrated, because sure I may have other appealing qualities, but what gives? the moment a woman with the same great qualities walks by with her huge cleavage then I'm just not going to be as sexy. Plus, it's so stupid, sometimes people will say "well, maybe you don't have great breasts, but you have beautiful hands". yeah, because HANDS are sexual! I'd like to feel sexy, to feel like someone capable of making men lust after me. One fundamental truth about women is that we all want to feel beautiful and desired. Not "cute". People always refer to small bosoms as "cute". WTF? I'm not 11 years old, I don't want to be "cute". How I hate that bigger is better. That even implants are better. Men go gaga over them. I'd never have implants though. Why does there have to be a "best" size? Why can't all breasts be good just because they're breasts, why can't they all be head turners? Why do I have to be so ugly? Don't lie guys, you all look if a woman with huge cleavage walks by and lose your mind for a second, but if a modest sized woman walks past you wearing cleavage, she doesn't quite make the same impression. Sorry for the rant, I just hate my tiny breasts! I wish I had D cups. I want to feel sexually attractive.

[ilovelegs]

I just had to answer this one too because it's such a damn good question and makes me glad I'm not a woman. I had to laugh when I read it, not because it was funny, but because it makes so much sense. Okay, here's my take. Do big breast look sexy? Of course they do if the girl is attractive to go along with her melons and her waist and butt are proportional. But I've heard many a "nice" girl say they hate their big boobs because no matter how they dress guys think they're showing off and being all sexy and flaunting their figures and that they're easy prey. When I see an attractive girl with size 36 or 38 D's I don't wish she was my girlfriend or that I could fondle them or whatever. On the contrary, I'm glad I have a girlfriend with size 34C and if she was 32 D or C that'd be just fine. Of course I look at the girls passing by or in the room with those huge jugs but not with a "Man I'd sure like to f**k you babe!" kinda look of mentality. I pity her if guys are gawking at her all the time. So I'm quite satisfied with the average size breast and they only need to show enough that proves beyond a doubt that she does indeed have boobs. I realize that girls are under so much pressure to look as good as the next girls and I can see where it hurts their egos when their breast are smaller than the average. Let me finish by saying this. The guys that you attract because you are who you are with the smaller than average breast will love you so much more than the guys that you would attract because you have larger ones. Love, romance, trust, respect, fun, commitment, etc., are the things that make for the wonderful and fantastic relationships that you seldom find and elude most girls for the very reason that too much attention by guys is centered on the sexual features of a girl and the sexual attraction that they believe will lead to the sexual satisfaction in a relationship with her which has very little to do with love, romance, trust, respect, etc. Any wonder relationship get in trouble early on. Just dress in a way that makes you feel beautiful and hot with what you have, and believe that you look as sexually attractive as any of the girls with those size 36D's, and you WILL!

A guy can tell when a girl "THINKS" she looks sexy because then she" IS". I know I can! I see it almost everyday. It's amazing how when a girl "thinks" it suddenly becomes reality in the context of what we're talking about here. You start loving what you have and you'll be as sexy as you need to me. :-)

[Asker]

Right... C's... well C's are freaking huge compared to what I have.

[ilovelegs]

Just be thrilled with what you have. read that last paragraph again and don't wish for those that sag when you take your bra off. don't wish for those that guys look at quick and think sex. rather, treasure those that guy look at and are like, she looks like the sweetest and prettiest girl and I wonder who she is. :-) that's because they noticed the rest of you too

[confused1081]

Honestly as a female with a big chest I don't feel I flaunt it or anything of the like. I end up feeling more like it just looks like this huge extra stomach on my chest. It's not fun being big chested and I hate when girls and guys go on about how it'd be great to have big boobs. Big boobs aren't usually the most flattering thing and it's hard when you have them naturally and don't have the means to reduce them.

[wiseman1]

PLEASE, PLEASE, READ THIS!

On the issue of big breasts. Let me tell you, as a fact, most all men desire "FULL" breasts. Their is a difference between full and just big. Big breast catch our eyes because they are big. Don't big things catch your eye? Full breast, however, are breasts that fit the body. Advertisers use big breasted women because it catches your attention, this is not to say that they are preferred. (No, I'm not lying).

The reality of the whole thing is that there is so so so much more that goes into human attraction. And it doesn't start with breasts. Objectively speaking, there is so much more for a guy to look at. eyes, hips, lips, neck, butt, legs, nose, mouth ext... But that's only the half of it! What is even more important is the sole. What kind of woman are you? What are your dreams and hopes? What's your personality like. These are the things that get men "hooked" the body is fleeting.



Feeling sexy is more than just filling your bra, it's having the confidence to know who you are and what you want! THAT is sexy. All men can attest to seeing big knockers on a dumb broad. Big boobs don't help their case in any way.

Your issue is not your breasts, it's not being okay with the way you are, not being happy for who you were made to be. This is what is unattractive. Know yourself! Believe in yourself!

Good Luck ~

[musicrocks44452]

Awww. that's sweet.

[Asker]

Ok. I believe you.

[GaavensGirl]

Ur wonderful!

[Standingpretty]

Best answer!

[Bettering_Myself]

Totally blew it out of the water there, man

[lotus-blossom-08]

I have small breasts (34A) and I used to be very self conscious about them. The first time a guy got me topless I was pretending to be all cool about it but in reality, I was freaking. I even dropped a subtle comment about how I was glad that he didn't appear to be bothered by my small breast size and he said that they were well proportioned to my body (I'm small and skinny).

These other guyfriends of mine were talking about boobs (forgetting that I was in the room...again) and mentioned how the little "Catholic School-Girl fantasy" is a little more convincing on a girl with small breasts (which is when they apologised for excluding me from the conversation which is when I begged them to leave me and mine out of it...eesh).

Personally, I like the freedom I have to wear tops with plunging neck lines so I can flaunt my neck and predominant neck line (both of which I'm very proud of) and not have to worry about this screaming "look at me" cleavage. I heard that girls with big breasts have back problems later on in life and I couldn't imagine having to put up with constantly reminding someone that "my eyes are up here".

My only complaint is that I find that 34A is a hard bra size to shop for...but that's about it.

Don't worry about small breasts because there are so many fun ways we can be creative with them and honestly, do you want to deal with the added stress of wondering if a guy likes you for YOU or for your big boobs?

[Anonymous]

I have natural big breast. Trust me, they are not a cracked up to be as you would think. I never get attention from men, so it really isn't the most important thing like the media makes it seem. Remember, the media is geared towards women. For example, those magazines have basically anexoric models with no curves. Men do not actually like these women. Women are being told the wrong messages. Women don't understand men. They really are not as shallow as we assume them to be. They like having sex with a women with big t*ts, but marry one, that is different.

Here is the truth about men. They do like bigger breast, but they are not expecting it or would refuse to date a women just because she is a little smaller. It is just like this with women & d***s. Women say they like big d***s, but no women is going to base their decision on whether or not to be with a man based on his d*** size. Men are the same, they like big boobs, but as women really don't care in the end about d*** size, neither do men care about breast size. And just for the record, those magazines that have women with implants, you should know those women have hard breast. Men like to look at them, but do not have as much fun touching them. Men want a woman to be soft, not silione. Hope this helps you. Remember, the most attractive thing to a man is confidence. If you think your hot, they'll think your hot.

[Jellyfish]

I think it's most important to wear your breast confidently. I think above all, a guy doesn't want to hear a girl complain about her breasts and have a low self image. And of course magazines for men are going to be sporting the grapefruits on an ironing board look, just as I have never seen a man in a magazine that didn't have huge pecs and a six pack. It gets your attention, makes you feel bad, and then you go buy stuff to make you feel better. Don't ever pick a magazine up again, it is made to make you feel bad so they can make money off of you.

The real question is, how can you feel more sexually attractive. First, is throw away the magazines. Next, look at your breasts and discover all the attractive aspects such as the lift or the symmetry, the color, or a birth mark. Get on the Internet and look at breasts on breast augmentation sites (before pics), or amateur pictures. You will see some weird looking boobs, and grow to appreciate your own. Pamper your breasts and go buy pretty bras. Touch your breasts and learn to love them, and you will begin to feel sexually attractive. I've always had small breasts, and once thought they should be big for me to be sexy, but as I got older I realize that always being confident and wearing my breasts proud was what made me feel and exude sexiness.

Also, we don't suffer from back aches!

[sweetheart18]

Love this answer, well said!! :)

[jadedcynic]

just because you have a cleavage doesn't automatically make you sexy, its about your attitude. I do have natural DD's that seem to be the "target size" for a lot of girls, but with great power becomes great responsibility. well more of a with a great rack comes great inconvenience. Some of these guys that you seem to be after can't get past the whole "oooooh 2 big playthings" mentality which I'm sure freud would have a lot to say about, the question is, do you REALLY want someone that shallow? do you have the money, bigger bra's cost money, especially the nicer ones £20 or $30 each, they get in the way physically not only when you're trying to have a conversation and his eyes are 6inches south of your face. you can get so many (non surgical) things to make your breasts look bigger, push up bras, inflatable/gel filled etc etc. also I've found that there are so many clothes that I can't wear because of them, if they fit round my boobs then it hangs off the rest of me in a really unattractive way or make me look enormous (tent like action).

FYI hands can be sexy.

[Anonymous]

i found what you said very interesting, because I have big breasts and I find myself wishing that I had smaller ones. yeah, it's great sometimes (especially when dressing up) to have big breasts, but it's REALLY annoying to have guys constantly staring at your chest instead of making eye contact! it's true that guys are attracted to me more than they are to my smaller chested friends, but sometimes it's only because of my physical appearance. I don't even dress in a revealing way, either. at least a guy that looks at a girl with a smaller chest isn't instantly thinking of the nasty things he'd like to do to her! and big boobs are freak magnets, too! I get creepy older men in grocery stores trying to start conversations with me, and men old enough to be my father honking at me while driving past! bigger is better? not always. big boobs just means that you get to see how big of pigs guys are.

p.s. if you really want bigger breasts, victoria's secret has some amazing push up bras! ;D

[Bettering_Myself]

I would like to take a second to say that I'm sorry for the way you've been treated. You deserve better and I will do my part to treat the women in my life with more respect

[lost-angel]

I love this question, and all the answers to it.

I have really small breasts too, so I know how you feel.

I've finally learned to accept it though, and now I just joke about it.

I did notice, girls with small breasts have a nice ass, or long legs. Now those things you can't get by surgery. No wait, I think they have butt implants now. lol. sigh. I can never keep up with this culture.

Ok on a serious note, if you want to look sexy (even in bed) you have to FEEL sexy. Wear something that makes you feel sexy. And you really have THINK/FEEL that you are, or it won't work.

Trust me, I never thought I could ever attract anyone, but now I turn heads wherever I go.

My boyfriend canNOT resist, and he seriously gets weak to his knees in bed. And, my boobs are still small! smaller than before I think.

Im telling you, it's all in the head.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

To whoever wrote this, if you're still around this place, please add me as a friend. I really want to discuss something with you that I am quite confident will be something that you will find to be quite interesting. So please give me a chance - add me up!

[paintballguy]

I don't want a flat chested girl, but I don't like big boobs. To me really big boobs are a turn off...yes I know I said turn off. My preference is B or C cups. I also don't like the huge nipples either.

[chopper1977]

I hear ya!!! The men liking the smaller breasts are like the outliers. Sure there are some that prefer; however, it seems like it's a fetish... kinda like someone preferring feet, pixie cuts on women, tattoo sleeves etc. What pisses me off, is like men like my husband, goes on and on when my boobs were swelled up before/during/after pregnancy, sexy, sexy, and not that they are back to normal my breasts get ZERO attention. Furthermore, oh, he says, I don't want to be with a woman with breast implants, they are self-centered etc. etc. etc., okay? well then why are you staring and probably getting off on women showcasing their fake tits? Hypocritical right? I don't want you getting breasts implants but I sure as hell want to oogle them more than I oogle yours. I'm sorry, but I hear ya, feel ya, and I am pissed with ya.

[mattSmart]

Why isn't this a poll? That would prove your point correct or incorrect. Also Any kinda breast is good. Big breasts sometimes make a person look fat, so bigger does not necessarily mean better. It is the same as the guys paranoia about penis size. It doesn't matter, as long as you have them.

Also to the feel sexy speal, guys will go after girls they feel they have higher chances scoring/getting. Big chested women showing off cleavage seems to imply she is easier (since she is showing off sex stuff). My point is this: Show off sexually. To put it bluntly, men get excited over girls because they think they have a chance or it is easy. Girls are complicated. So dress more revealingly, be more assertive. If you wanna be sexy you gotta STAND OUT sexually (maybe be more handsy or something not typical of a goody goody girl). For the love of god, don't get a boob job.

[nonyabiz2002]

Do you know how sad your update sounds?

You're seeing what you want to see. Out of the 18 answers I looked at, here is the breakdown as far as I can see them:

0- They are an absolute must. Girls are not attractive if they don't have large breasts.

13- They are nice, but either unnecessary to be sexy or only to look at, not touch.

3- Idiotic or not serious answers (like the "eat chicken" deal, I mean come on!).

2- Other Answers.

Notice the top number. YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE LARGE BOOBS TO BE SEXY!

Stop and think about it for a second- you're quitting. You've given up on trying to be sexy. For what? Why, so you can teach us big bad men that big boobs ARE attractive? You're gonna give up what it means for you to be a woman, to feel needed, and to feel SEXY like you are, all for what?

Sexy is a state of mind. It's how you carry yourself, it's how you present yourself, and it's what you think of yourself. Not the size of some stupid fat bags. Yes they do turn heads, but not as much as a girl that knows how to shake her money maker!

You want to be lusted after? Show up naked in front of a guy. I guarantee that, unless he's gay, he WILL want you. He would look at you naked even if a fully clothed large breasted woman walked by.

What makes men attractive? CONFIDENCE! That's right, confidence. The guy could be old or as butt-ugly as a rhino and STILL attract beautiful women. Look no further than Hugh Hefner or Ron Jeremy.

The choice is yours. You can either be defeated and give up/deny yourself of what you want and need, or you can accept yourself for who you are and achieve what you're looking for- men to lust after you on a constant basis.

If you want guys to lust after you, posting a few provocative pictures would be nice (some would digress to the Anonymous User that's 30-35's comments about self-gratification). ;-P

[Asker]

Hugh Hefner? Ron Jeremy? Really? Money, that's what they have, sadly some women are only into fat wallets, like some men are into huge tits.

[nonyabiz2002]

Alot of guys will start feeling sorry for girls that have small breasts when they don't care about:

1. The endowment of men

2. The height of men (like Danny Divito)

3. The muscle mass of men (like Arnold S.)

4. The facial attributes of men (like Fabio)

5. The way men dress

6. The car men drive

7. The money men have

I could go on forever. The point is that most girls are just as shallow if not moreso than most men out there. I'm sure you've discounted several guys based upon their lack of attractiveness. It's a fact of life.

BTW, personally I like smaller breasts to larger ones, not just because of their attractiveness, but often they are attached to girls that are lower maintenance, funner to be around, and more beautiful outside AND inside.

Women with big boobs for the most part treat others like crap and are truly ugly people.

You don't like being "cute"? Let me clue you in on a bit of a secret- guys have one night stands with "hot" women. Guys love and marry *cute* women. Which one would you rather have?

No doubt you are beautiful, and a highly-sought after commodity. Why else would somebody call you "cute"? ;-)

"Why do I have to be so ugly?"

Did you read what you typed? Do you actually believe this?

I haven't seen a picture, but I can say that 99.999999% chance that you aren't ugly. I'm sure you're a beautiful and nice person that's just frustrated with your situation (trust me, you're not the only one here, lol). But don't get discouraged or be so hard on yourself. You're worth so much more than saying negative things to yourself like "I'm ugly" or unworthy, because you're not ugly, and you are worthy of what you want in life.

If you need someone to talk to, post back or PM.

[DirtySouthCornbread]

Wow, I agree 100%. Men and women are both shallow.

[BustedKimmy]

Wow. You're not judgmental and shallow at all. (Sarcasm). Maybe women with big boobs dislike you because you're a sleaze ball and a jerk. I'm sure it's not them. It's you.

[BustedKimmy]

It sounds like you are extremely bitter about large-breasted women. Bad experience I guess? Never read anything so ridiculous in my life. Did you know that blue eyed men are cheaters, black haired men are losers, skinny guys are shallow and guys who work out are arrogant?

[nonyabiz2002]

@BustedKimmy I am judgmental- there isn't a soul alive that isn't to some degree (you yourself judged me). Shallow? People that know me say the exact opposite. I do have physical preferences, just like everybody else. You must be one of those high-maintenance women. You know... the kind that (at the very least) thinks she is so damn good looking that guys should grovel at her feet. Here is a news flash- I am not one of those guys. I would much rather be with a 7 with a 10 personality than a 10 with a 3 personality. Which is why a girl like you will never know what kind of guy I am like. Why? Because frankly you have proven that you are not worth my time. I am a man with self respect that will not put up with that crap, which I guess you have never seen before. If that means I am a jerk or sleaze ball in your world, then whatever floats your boat. And with the attitude you have shown me, I bet all that you attract are real jerks and sleaze balls.

[LonelyLillie13]

guys do not really see this though, you are smart and see that a lot of women think big tits are their ticket to the good life.

[LonelyLillie13]

@BustedKimmy You are obviously big breasted and can't stand not having all the love and attention you are used to = high maintenance.

[chopper1977]

Men and women are both shallow... agreed. Men marry the cute girl over the hot girl, agreed. BUT, it doesn't do anyone, anywhere, any good, if the man marries the cute girl, and then oogles the hot women... and trust me, we notice. So save all us smaller breasted, cute girls the heart ache, and spare us the bullshit, and go with the larger breast from the get go. Trust us... we will eventually know that you are not physically attracted to them and it will crush our confidence.

[wrali]

Bollocks. I can only speak for myself, but I prefer small breasts. That is, all other things being equal, I would go for a B-cup or smaller before a C or larger. I know for a fact that I'm not alone.

Seriously, you gotta be more confident than this. Play with what you got; wishing for something you don't have is a waste of life. Besides, you can get away with going bra-less without sagging -- now that's sexy. Ignore the dopy boyz drooling over the busty girls and focus on the boys with more pride and discernment.

Also on the up side, you might now have a little sympathy for men with small penises ;)

[SLL2019]

Actually statistics show and are proven acurate that men would choose butts over breasts. If they were small breasted but had nice butts they would be completely satisfied... and if they had large breasts and no ass a lot of men wouldn't be with them... butts are the new breasts if you want to put it that way. Yes some men like big breasted women but many complain they get in the way during sex and other sexual activities. I hope this made you feel a little better.

[Cool-Relax]

There is no "perfect size." You're insecure because you don't feel sexy enough, I'm insecure because guys just see my boobs. I'm very big on personality, and it's really frustrating--degrading, even--to have a guy focus on the physical things I have no control over. The perfect size would be adjustable so we could decide when we want to look hot and when we want to be taken seriously.

I understand your argument, men can be pigs, but there are positives and negatives to both sides.

[a-nn-a]

I have and had pretty small boobs all through junior high up till now. You have to learn to accept that nobody is prefect and you always want what you can't have. Woman with smaller breasts wished they had bigger ones and woman with bigger breasts wished they had smaller ones due to back problems. Feeling sexy is a state of mind and learning to accept yourself and not being afraid to show it off. It has very little to do with what cup size you are. Keira knightley for example has no boobs at all but she is extremely hot and tons of guys think she's sexy.

[Kymroi]

Guys all think bigger is better

But then when the girl is like 60

and they start drooping to the floor

Its like OMG, why did I think that!

Thats why I don't care

In fact, looks don't matter to me at all

I only care about personalities

[Sugashawtie]

Thanks, way to make a big breasted girl insecure ;s

[IHateMeganFox]

Yeah haha same here.

[Watermelon15]

@IHateMeganFox Way to make Megan Fox insecure with your username

[freeview]

I've gone out with women with all size of breast and for me it's not the size, but the shape of the breasts that is most attractive and sexual.

My current girlfriend is an A-cup and she has the sexiest pair I have ever seen that go marvelously with the rest of her body. She is one of the sexiest women I have ever seen!

That said, I find her confidence about her body far more sexual, sensual and attractive. In fact, this is THE most important thing to me with a woman (they love their bodies, themselves and find themselves sexy and beautiful).

BTW - delighted to hear that you'd never think of getting implants. They're horrible :-(

[ALWAYSclassy]

You don't need large boobs to be sexy. Plenty of men would take a small breasted athletic girl over a large boobed chubby one. I'm sure you have other body parts that can rival any rack. Some guys are butt men, leg men, stomach men, etc.

[alsuzzaa]

I think that when you're younger it's like that, but when you're older they would rather medium boobs...like seriously I wouldn't want big breasts!

[blue-kev]

actualy they are now saying that the chemicals in chicken are causing girls breasts to be bigger then ever. if you eat a lot of chicken your tits are gona get bigger and bigger. just google it.

[Cool-Relax]

Is that what it is, the chemicals? Haha, when I was in junior high, a bunch of girls said to eat a lot of chicken! I thought they were all out of their minds.

[willow]

Eating lots of chicken will also make your body fat ratio higher. hm, must just be the chemicals...

[blue-kev]

But remember a lot of girls with big breasts feel ignored by us guys. Cause while we are salivating over her breasts we are missing her eyes, smile and personality. Then they feel used. That isn't fair either.

[Asker]

But at least they know they're sexy, desirable... that's really YOUR problem as males for focusing only on big breasts, but you know, it'd be nice to have my boyfriend salivating at MY breasts and not some other girl's. It'd be nice to know I'm his ideal from head to toe. Of course I know he loves me for thousands of reasons and that he thinks I'm beautiful, so why not have large breasts so he can enjoy and not feel self conscious that he may be looking when a huge breasted girl is near?

[Duchess930]

You sound like a NICE thoughtful guy. A girl would be lucky to have you. -hope my compliment made your day =]

[ITISJUSTME]

You are just not confident. Men like confidence and boobs or no boobs the confidence shines past all that crap. Its just easier for girls with big boobs to act confident because they feel that they all ready have it all, which in most cases they don't.

[Kayaking]

Sorry to disrupt your story but, I promise, you are completely as lovable, sexy, hot, worth looking at as your bigger-chested sisters. We may "notice" big ones, or even ogle them, but, for a guy, it's who is behind them that really counts. I've had big and small attached to amazingly beautiful women, and everything in between, and I absolutely, promise you that the most beautiful girl in the world was always the one I was with . big or small or medium.

[Asker]

But what if no guys approach you ever but flock to the girls who are busty? Let's face it they have and advantage, they are justa s loveable but have BETTER breasts, therefore are more attractive. Plus I don't even have a gorgeous face, or smile, legs, butt, hair.Yes, I have pretty hands. all I really have going on for me and that I really lvoe about myself and that I can really be proud of is being smart. But that isn't "hot".

[Kayaking]

Hmmmm...I understand better and completely relate. I have felt like such a geek, at times, and overshadowed by my better looking peers. Well, the most important thing to get is that better looking, richer, smarter people are no more happy and no more better off than you. Not only that, but we can never be good looking, rich or smart enough. So, a bigger set gets you five minutes of stares and temporary satisfaction. Focusing on creating a kinder, more compassionate world gets you a life of joy.

[attractiveontarioguy]

She simply needs to find out what makes HER sexy, focus on that and show it! forget the negative shit, WE ALL have issues etc

[needaglassawata]

i have small boobs and guys love me, it's about overall hotness.

[Sultan-]

well I Disagree With the Rule Bigger is better when it comes to breasts .

yea breasts are something that we really love in girls but as you said playboy girls come with big front light to cover their tiny brain So What I'm trying to say is that girls are attractive by nature, in the end of the day we are looking for the girl who have the full package ask any guy Would you u prefer to be in love with a girl that you really like her look and how she thinks or would you like to be with playboy girl who don't know to talk about except one thing and too dummy to go out with if any of them said playboy girl then he is only thinking how nasty she can be with him in bed

it's really make me feel bad when I see wonderful girls is changing the way they look or think to pleas doggy like men



at the end if a man is not ok with how you look don't change your self to pleas him because he will find another girl with bigger more poping breasts ,

would be that the man that you really think deserve you

hop that I helped out her ;)

[Asker]

Not all girls with big breasts are dumb, that's an insult to them. And you yourself admit it, big breasts are attractive. But that "it's love that matters, it's brains that matters" thng makes it feel that "Physically you're still NOT enough... but don't worry, you have other things". Like a pity answer. Go figure. I want to feel that my tits are just as hot as if they were big, not that the others are hot but mine aren't but don't worry because you''re a smart ugly girl.

[Sultan-]

Well , put it this way if a group of girls depending on their breasts so they can live are they Smart girls actually they insult all girls by what they are doing , about the other thing Have higher self steam , we don't always put breasts test to rate girls we see how they talk how they walk how they think I'm Sorry if I Hurt any body ... Just trying to help out

[maddhatter]

HEY! Not all girls with large breasts are stupid. I have a 4.0 GPA AND I scored a 76 on my ASVAB test. Jerk.

[Sultan-]

OMG , I Can't Believe it , My Point was about the Playboy Girls they become the standard for guys and how they Want there girls to become , and sadly the Girls Seems to be ok to Have obsession to look like them , I'm not trying to make a rule big breasts means small brain Don't Get me wrong , so many Smart girls have a natural big Breasts , Girls You Are Sexy by natural don't be obsess of how the other thinks You Should look Like ...

[JustMe2008]

Heeeyyyyy. No. Even though you say not to fight over this and you are talking as if you concluded it and know it all but I am going to talk. Oh btw, I dunno. maybe you are just talking about lust. But in case you are talking about relationships breasts are not all that important. Once someone likes you, he likes you, and he doesn't care for your breast size. You wanna fight over this. Fight. But that's true. My heart is pure because I know I am not lying. I know it from myself and have seen several other guys and its not that big of a deal. But if all you care is turning on strangers sexually then I don't know.

Don't feel so bad about your body. Come on, large breasts are just chunks of fat. Just look up the anatomy of breast online and if all I need for a relationship is fat then I would just go to Wal-Mart and get myself couple of pounds of butter or something. In a relationship what I care for is the girl - whether she is my type or not, whether she loves me or not stuffs like that. Compatibility, chemistry, time, person, mood, location everything affects a relationship. I would date even a double breast amputee if she is really into me and if I think she is really someone I want to be with.

[JustMe2008]

Oh and btw if no one approaches you just go up and talk to guys you like. Appearance-wise I am quite unattractive too. But I don't care. I won't go for anyone who thinks I am unattractive. I was surprised when this girl told me that she actually liked looking at me. Oh god. You got me in nostalgic mode. We are not talking for last two weeks and I am still to get over her.

[Maxfield]

The same woman with bigger tits would sexier.

Any woman who is kind or smart or funny or skinny is better than a woman with big boobs who isn't.

Guys still like playing with small boobs, but ass is more sexy anyways.

More men will go after big breasted women the same way more women will go after huge/hot/rich guys, because we are all shallow human beings (some more than others).

There is so much you can do to that trumps the sexiness of big boobs it's not even funny. Be flirtacious and have a nice personality and you're better than 80% of the women I meet, and that means you'll be on guys' radar for sex a lot longer than the woman who just walked by.

[Asker]

But you just said they would be hotter! Plus, if you're not sexy t0o begin with, men just won't come to talk to you. They won't want to get to know you. PLUS... women with big breasts can be just as kind. Ah, shit, I'll just give up and try to be happy with who I am, no matter if my boyfriend prefers big tittied women, I'll just let him have sex with me, and that'll be it. I'll know his fantasies include bigger breasts. I'll just move on from sex, I'll let him do me but I won't get attached

[Maxfield]

If you are looking to be the ultimate fantasy, you are dreaming. We still fantasize about the one we love, but few people will ever be considered perfect for the perfect fantasy. The other things you said are already addressed in my post.

[Asker]

Oh really? then how come the girls in pornos are considered the ultimate fantasies? then don't say that no one can be the ultimate fantasy because clearly men think some women are or the wouldn't watch that kind of porn.

[Maxfield]

I said few people, you need to read before you speak.

[Asker]

Ok, so these fake women are considered the perfect fantasy then? the ones in pornos? Fine, I'm getting implants. seems to me like the only way to be better than the porno women.

[Maxfield]

I just said there are tons of ways to be better than big breasts, and I'm done responding to your rediculous nonsense. You can't read and you can't think, I don't understand how you have lived this long and I pity your life as a human being.

[Asker]

"The same woman with bigger tits would sexier." "I said few people, you need to read before you speak." There, you admitted there that big breasts are better. Plus, it irritates me. A woman with large breasts can be uglier or duller. But a woman with small breasts can't she has to be pretty, or have ass, or be really kind, in order to be hot. She has to work more than a big chested girl, that's what you said, so I think I can read. That's what upsets me, that small ones have to be made up for!

[Asker]

Anyway, I forgive for telling me I should be dead. I forgive you for being so insenstive, that you also don't understand how women with small breasts like me struggle with the obsession that men have with large breasts.

[oldmaninthemoon]

woooooo I'm coming into this late but wait asec. I truly to do love small breast honest I do. the big ones sag and have streach marks all over them, and blue vaine running everywhere too. I have been with sexy woman with small breast from a 32 a to a 36 c and one bigger I have no idea how big but they was ferm lol. any thing over 36c is getting to big. Now with that being said YES I have and most likely will again look at large breast and cleavage but I stll look and prefer tiny tities, beside its not what you have IE like a big penis its all how you use it. I personaly love small woman with small everything lol hehehe But then I'm not like most MEN but I am a MAN stand proud and stick them out gf

[zazzy]

i don't want a big breast I love mine! they are cute..

but you are right...

[Kearra]

O.o You Don't have to have huge boobs to be attractive! Hell I'm small and very self concious.

This is my mesurements NO JOKE!

Around the boobs- 39"

Around the ribs-36"

Around the wast-29"

Around the ass-42"

I have odd mesurments or at least it seems. I'm a B...but I have a big ass! I can still turn heads. Hell I can wear a skirt that goes part my nees and people look! Boobs are nothing but Fat! This I have learned. It took a few guys personally explaining this to me before ever got over the fact that I'm small. Most of its confidence!

Hey no matter what's adverticed its not the boobs! Most guys I've found love a girl with a nice ass just as much. Its not that big of a deal chicka!

[linksterboy]

I have to agree with you one some of your points. Guys will generally pay more attention to a girl with larger breasts, but this isn't always one of attraction or lust, its just what we do. I love breasts as much as the next guy, but my girlfriend has B cup breasts, and I don't want to look at any other girls breasts anymore. I think most guys notice a girls breasts, but as far as I'm concerned, as much as I love breasts, its got more to do with the overall look of their body.

I know plenty of girls who have B + C cups and look sexy. As much as guys would have you believe, we DO notice more than just a womans breast size before we decide that they are attractive. For the record girls : BIG BREASTS DO NOT INSTANTLY MAKE YOU SEXY. if you want guys to lust after you, buy a sexy dress, act confident, be open with people. try and avoid complaining about people. you don't need big breasts to make a guy come after you. I can say that for a fact.

[WeaponZero]

A lot of guys like smaller breasts because they usually imply a more athletic girl. A lot of guys like athletic girls and small breasts are just part of an athletic figure. I mean lets face it, how often do you see girls who have both defined abs AND big breasts? Never because it can't really happen naturally since breasts are fat and fat gets worked off as you build muscle. So unless they're fake guys have to choose one or the other, and some girls would rather see their girl with defined abs than big breasts.

[Standingpretty]

There's so much more to a girl than her t*ts! Most guys are ass people anyway! I have huge t*ts, I have large D's almost DD's and I don't turn heads either. I have a cute face and a butt too, but just because I'm a size 8 men won't even look my way either. Big boobs hurt your back and can make you self-conscience too because when you take your bra off most are saggy and you don't ever want a guy to find out you have saggy breasts! And besides, I've seen guys lust after girls with hardly anything. My sister has B's, but she has to beat guys off with a stick. Boobs are nice yes but most guys look at the whole package!

[ekkks]

well bigger can be better for guys I guess, don't know why, but I think having big breasts can be potentially problematic. its hard to find cute bras in a d cup, at least for me it is. but I'm not complaining, I like my boobs.

[Blankname1]

I find that most of the time I first have to like the face before I really look at anything.

Big is not always better.

You can hate men all you want,but that's not gonna change the way you are and I feel you just have a bit of bad luck,so give it another try and I'm sure you will find a good man.

Peace!

[lavarule]

It's like girls saying they only like guys over 6', when you aren't 6'. I'm just out of luck. 90% of us have something we wish was different about our bodies. Just the way it is.

I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that think you are beautiful, just gotta go find one.

[strotter4]

you my friend are extraordinarily wrong... I prefer small t*ts... natural is better... especially in the long run... they don't sag nearly as much... sorry I just joined a couple months ago and just ran across this question... but yeah... B cups are perfect to me... ;)

[Standingpretty]

Besides, silicone is NASTY

[ski-stud-mike]

That's just the way we are, sorry. but you can still turn guys on. And the girl that walks by guys with huge boobs might get stared at more, but how often does she get laid by them? Better yet, girls want romance, so how often would she want to get laid by them? As much as you want them, they'd probably be more a burden to you because guys will always be wanting you just for sex. But smaller boobs, even though they're not as attractive and eye catching at first, can still turn a guy on, but won't make him lust after you so much. I hope that helps.

[Asker]

Yeah, because all girls want is romance, to get married and be the wifey type... not! I want to be an angel/whore. I want to be sexy for him. It's stupid, but you know, I'm just giving up, I can't stand that I'm "not as attractive and eye catching"... That I "won't make him lust after you so much"... It hurts, f&#% I'm quitting sex, I'm sorry but this hurts as it's my body and something I can't change and I'm not even gorgeous to begin with so I have nothing going on for me. F%&# BIG TITS!

[ski-stud-mike]

NO seriously, let me say a couple things: 1. you CAN and I'm sure DO still turn a guy on like crazy! When you're doing stuff with your guy, he won't just be wishing you had big tits! Guys prefer them bigger, but its not necessary! 2. Girls that have big boobs get used more and usually get sick of guys staring just at them 3. Honestly, if you have nice legs and stomach (which you CAN control) you can wear tight shirts and pants and probably get just as many stares as if you had huge boobs.

[ski-stud-mike]

One more important thing. If most guys could choose to marry a skinny girl with little boobs, or a slightly bigger girl with big boobs, the guy will choose the skinnier girl. Honestly! Because one of a man's biggest fears is for his wife to get fat, and a thicker girl with big boobs is much more likely to get fat. PLUS, your boobs will grow for sure when your pregnant. SO DON'T GIVE UP! THERE'S HOPE!

[ski-stud-mike]

I feel bad you feel this way. Trust me, good legs and/or stomach is just as nice as boobs!!! Just because we like boobs, doesn't mean that's all that we like and that's all that will turn us on. Trust me, guys are not that hard to please. If you're skinny, especially if you're mini skirts and sexy stuff, guys will want you!!!!

[Asker]

Don't worry. I mean, yeah, it kind of sucks. Yeah, I know I must have other things going on. Obviously, I can't be that hideous! Lol. But anyway, I guess it's just all these years of constant exposure to big breasts and guys' reactions to it. Guess smaller breasts can make me stronger in other areas. Like finding my true self worth. Don't feel bad though. I may have been a bit upset at first, but it's just because of what I said above. I do appreciate your honesty though. so don't feel bad =)

[thatonechick]

Listen, I have D cups, and its not all its cracked up to be. Ever tried going for a jog? Ya, try doing it with every guy you see making jokes with his pals about you. Ever wanna work out? sports bras have to be so tight to work you can barely breathe. Bras are more expensive, and bigger boobs sag.

I won't deny there are DEFINITELY advantages, but there's some drawbacks too. So go easy on us busty chicks. Aside from the ones who paid for it, we just wanna live our lives.

[Sir-Robert]

Honest to god I think small breasts are hot, and I am with you on the "cute" thing, my girlfriend did that to me for a while and I got sooo fed up

Dont worry about the sexy thing, if you want to be a slut and get in playboy or w/e, go ahead and get breast implants, in fact, I encourage you too, however, if you want to get a genuine guy, stop freaking out about your body, none of my girlfriends wore makeup, ever, and one had huge tits, the other was flat, one was blond, one was brunet, so, honestly, it really doesn't matter, just find a real nice guy, if he pressures you into something you don't want to do, tell him you dont, then if he keeps doing it drop him, find a guy who wants you, not your breasts

[bluehen46]

Na bigger is not always better. Some girls look better with medium sized hooters.

[lanky1]

Male brains are wired that way because back when the only known method of raising a child was breastfeeding they needed a woman who could provide the most nourishment for the child. Women with large breasts were subconsciously seen as more likely to raise a child at least until they eat solid food. I know that in today's world it doesn't really apply but male brains are still wired that way. Therefore if a female with the same values as you but larger breasts is going to be more attractive. But since everybody is different you shouldn't worry so much. I happen to very attracted to this girl with somewhat small breasts. Personality and intelligence can make you much more attractive than just being well-endowed.

And there is a border line where breasts can be too big. Once they get past a D they start to not be as atractive (at least to me). I would prefer C's or B's but as long as they are in good proportion it is ok.

[denyfortunes]

As a guy I prefer small to medium boobs. Big is a bother if you ask me.

[attractiveontarioguy]

TRUST ME, while big tits are more EYE catching, and noticeable, they get in the way of sex, very sweaty, heavy, and awkward,.dont get me started on what they look like when running lol. I like to LOOK only at big breasts, but nothing sexier than a tiny breasted woman without a bra in a tight shirt.,.mmmm I love small boobs!

[St-Dank-Tanks-LG]

I couldn't care less of the boobs!

It's all about the bum!

[The-Pixel-Ninja]

Natural B's to CC's = Best t*ts ever. Frankly D's are about as attractive as smaller boobs. DD's generally aren't attractive. The only girls who look good with DD's are the one's who's frame matches them, also applies to to smaller breasts.

None of that really matters though, The thing that makes a girl hot, is if she knows how to work what she has to work with.

Irrelevant to size: Natural>Silicone

[dark-fox]

you "hate men"? Um, well, maybe your boobs aren't the problem, maybe it's because you're so negative and cynical. Really it's no big deal, I like big boobs, but that doesn't mean ill choose just that over personality.

But, it has to be proportional, some girls look bad with big boobs and some girls look good with smaller boobs.

But seriously, cheer up, and don't blame your inablity to feel attractive on men, I'm not saying you're not attractive though.

[rocksongwriter]

Reminds me of one of Jeff Foxworthy's stand up routines where he talks about when he was in middle school, all the boys wanted a woman with "bodacious tatas", and he said something like "bodacious tatas didn't really appeal to me because the only ladies that had 'bodacious tatas' were the ladies that worked in the school cafeteria."

Kind of ties in with iamg1n's comment about the face is what matters. I'd say body type too. Small breasts work well with skinny/athletic body type. Look at the twiggy fashion models. They have small breasts & they're models!

[Enideqa]

Twiggy also died from her eating disorder.

[IHateMeganFox]

Twiggys still alive. She was on americas next top model for years.

[areucherr]

Guys always think big is better! Don't be feel insecure about having smaller breasts, because you also have lots of advantages. Small breasts doesn't make someone ugly, or less worthy. Your beautiful with or without small breasts.

[maddhatter]

NO! YOU DON'T WANT BIG BREASTS!

I have a small bone structure and huge breasts. I feel so out of proportion.and I can't run anymore. I went to state when I was 13.

it's embarrassing.

plus, that's the first thing a guy looks at.

consider yourself lucky.

[jessie63]

I know exactly how you feel!!!!!! I thought I was the only one who didn't like the way I look.

[beastman88]

i like boobs

[Pancakes]

You know what annoys me? People saying that if you have big breasts you look like a slut or a porn star. By the way, I don't have big breasts (I'm a B cup) but I have many friends with large boobs and it doesn't have ANYTHING whatsoever to do with their personality. People who always complain about their bodies annoy the hell out of me too. Ugh. People should just deal with what they have and stop their whinging. GET OVER IT!

[cardioman65]

First of all, it depends on the guys age. Huge breasts are operated. I guess guys look, because the aren't a lot of women with huge breasts, like a circus act. I would admit as a young guy, I thought huge is better, but it isn't. I like all shapes and sizes and it fits the woman. Sometimes guys only look at huge breasts, but the rest of the woman looks like crap! That doesn't mean we love her! If I were in a speedo, god for bid, just to make a point, and I had a huge penis( bulge) you are going to look!. Just because it is not the norm to see a huge bulge like that. I don't like them huge and it is also the shape that count as well as the other parts of the woman. I also hate implants because they look fake to me and if the woman is tiny, she looks funny with huge implants.

[lost-angel]

I like this answer. Very honest. I have to admit though, I have a crazy imagination, and the whole speedo image was pretty..... funny. lol I wish there were a lot more guys out there who think the way you do.

[cardioman65]

Why, thank you! I am glad you enjoyed the speedo story! lol

[cutekid]

I prefer bigger boobs like ummh 36C or DD

[05Jueey]

I understand what you're saying about bigger breasts catching men's attention quick, but still many guys are attracted to smaller ones too (my boyfriend included). And are you thin? Many guys are attracted to thinner girls too. I know it's just one example but I'm not thin or small breasted and my boyfriend finds me hot anyway. It's about the whole package of the person. I'm going to guess you are beautiful

[Tech21]

woahhh you have this TOTALLY wrong, look at models do they have big breasts? nooo are they pretty yes.

brest are an addition a supplement there nice to have but anything to special, a girl with a nice ass and legs will get ten times as many stares as a girl with a nice rack. althought she may not notice because guys are looking at her from behind.

do you really think guys like fat girls? HELL NO I don't care how big ur tits are for most guys if your fat of course you got big tits...boobs are FAT.

so it supplements big boobs are nice if you have a nice stomach, a nice face

same with a girl with a nice ass its important she have a nice face and obviously if she has a nice ass won't be fat.

now if a girl has EVERYTHING its just a bonus we won't complain but it won't be the deceing factor if your hot or not.

i think your problem is your insecure, look at all the dancers, models, personal trainers who don't have huge tits there beautiful maybe if you had more confidence and didn't worry about your breasts instead remembered you have other features that would give you great success :)

a few last things guys always prefer natural over fake and super huge saggy boobs never as hot as smaller firmer perky boobs hope this helps

[Asker]

Yeah, it helps a bit. But since I'm like, I don't know, 10, I've known that guys DON'T like models. I mean, models like fashion models, the skinny types that are in women's magazines. But there are other models, ahem, Playboy anyone? They have huge breasts and tiny waists. Those are the models I'm talking about. I'm sorry if I sound too bitter, the truth is since I'm young I've let it affect me a lot, when I should've been stronger and be content with just being loved...

[Asker]

... but I also want to feel hot, hotter than all those models, but it's hard you know. I know, I know, I have to be more confident. as I said, it's a bit hard, but I'll work on it.

[Tech21]

Im just saying most guys are into ass over boobs you should promote your ass instead of worrying about your boobs, hopefully you have a nice butt

[Asker]

What about women who have big tits (even if they're fake, which men drool over just as much, see what happens at Hooters) and an ass?

[EddyMetal]

Meh. Big or small, as long as there's something there I couldn't care less.

[here4you]

no not necessarily if they are too big then its just ughhhh

but they have to be the right size like B or C or D pushing it and e thing bigger is wayyyyyyy to big

because you should be able to hold it and suck and kiss etc

but when there to big you ruin the beauty of the breast and you don't hate men you just hate how SOME men THINK

[steveisbored]

C's are the best size and ideal to me IMO. Breasts can be too big and then they are not attractive, as is a flat chest. Preferably in the B-D range, and I do not like implants

[Smh7969]

For me it’s more about your overall package than it is your boob size. Sure large boobs are fun and nice to look at. But if you just have a sexy way about you and are proportionate, small boobs can be super sexy.

[chiefnavarro]

i like smaller boobs and every one I know does too. I prefer booty. I would rather the girl I was with have nice feet and hands then large breast

[Zachary8]

small is bad HUGE is good average is best

[Hotboy_booblover]

I love boobs..

[bsnell80]

bigger is better because to me it makes a woman look more like woman and that's my preference but that is not the most important who a person is and that is what matters. I have many friends that are small and i don't hold it against them i just choose not to date them because there are things i wanna do when i get married and those things are going to be more pleasurable in my opinion. and that's why for dating purposes i search for large C to DD range.