Pegging?? have you ever done it

[Anonymous]

How many girls would actually use a strap-on and f*** their man up the ass if he asked? And how many girls would actually ask if they could do that to their man? Guys how many of you secretly want a girl to shove a dildo up your ass, but are too shy, or too "macho" to admit it? Or guys that aren't scared to admit it and are open about it? It feels good because of the prostate..so why not do it? scared of what people might think of you? guess what, this poll is anonymous so no one will ever know you picked yes...It doesn't make you gay at all. What makes you gay is being sexually attracted to another male. Wanting a male d*** attached to a male body go up your ass.

[Ruby_Ryder]

Pegging is simply one more way for couples to find pleasure in bed.

Men have a Prostate gland, which when stimulated, can provide intense pleasure and orgasms 10x more powerful than a normal orgasm - that is their motivation for anal stimulation.

Women can enjoy switching roles and running the show. They can also enjoy providing their partner with amazing amounts of pleasure. And some women can reach orgasm while pegging.

So - there is a lot of incentive to explore pegging for both the man and the woman. Pegging gives you the chance to take a walk in your partners shoes, sexually, which many times results in deepening intimacy due to compassion and understanding.

The most common misconception about pegging is that men who enjoy it are gay. Incorrect. The area of your body that you enjoy having stimulated has no bearing on the gender you prefer to do the stimulating. Plus, only about 35% of gay men even have anal sex, so everyone would do well to let go of the old, tired assumption that men who enjoy anal stimulation must be gay.

The next most common misconception is that it hurts. Not when done correctly, if fact not only does it not hurt, but it can provide intense pleasure for the man.

I do it. I teach about it. I write about it. I love it. I am not looking for anyone to do it with.

[WonderingNomad]

I wouldn't really suggest it to a guy, nor is it something I have any particular desire to do. However, if he wanted it and he asked, I don't think I'd have a problem doing it for him. And I wouldn't think any different of him either. I personally believe in a wide range of normative human sexual expression; I don't even like the terms "gay" and "straight" because I think they are social constructs separate from the activities of sex themselves. Basically, I think that if you close your eyes and something feels good, who the f*** cares what you wanna call it? I'm not trying to suggest that liking your girl to dominate you makes you gay or anything. Just that humans are very tricky creatures when it comes to sex, and that normative societal standards often diverges from biological pleasures. Basically, I find your enjoyment of this activity pretty normal, and I wouldn't have a problem doing that for a guy I liked. That is, s long as he was willing to dominate me afterward ;-)

quid pro quo, baby!

[Asker]

haha, what about the other way around? he dominates you for hours, and then afterwords you dominate him? or does that have to happen first? haha

[WonderingNomad]

Sure! I mean, ladies first, right? It's the only gentlemanly thing to do! haha!

[Asker]

haha right! only do me in the ass afterwords, if 1 I can't go anymore. I've reached my maxed out point. aka become soft. and if I'm in the mood. as a man, during sex my first goal is to please the woman to the best of my ability. My own sexual satisfaction is non of my concern. It is her job to get me off, so I'm not gonna worry bout it. it is my job to get her off. is this a bad outlook on sex? or good from a females standpoint?

[WonderingNomad]

nah, that's an awesome outlook on sex!

[selfishstars]

I've done this with a few different male partners and they all enjoyed it. As did I.

[Asker]

I see that you're in a polyamorous relationship, not something I could do. Not intimately anyways. Maybe two girls as a friends with benefits relationship. But hypothetically speaking of course, if you nailed me, while I eat out another girl. That would be amazing

[selfishstars]

I have no idea how that's relevant to this question or my answer, lol.

[Asker]

haha its in a way relevant. But not really haha. Just me fantasizing, because I'm not in a relationship like that, and never had two girls at once. And if one of those girls happen to like pegging, then it would be one wild night. and they small bit it is relevant is, since you enjoy pegging, and if you were to peg me, while there was another girl in the mix as well. And I got to eat her out while you peg me. assuming you have a feminine physique. I'd be in eternal bliss haha

[selfishstars]

Well, I suppose, unfortunately for you, I'm not into anonymous guys on the internet. :D

[Asker]

hahahaha, also unfortunately for me, even if I wasn't anonymous haha.

[Anonymous]

Prostate stimulation is completely normal and several men, myself included, enjoy when a woman uses a larger object to stimulate. If you consider me gay for enjoying this and letting my wife do it then you may have some homosexual tendancies that you are stuffing away. In order to want to do this you have to be secure with your sexuality. If you have never done this start small with lots of lube and go slow.

[Asker]

Couldn't agree more, if someone is comfortable enough with their sexuality they won't have a problem with admitting they do this. And last I checked women like men who are secure, and seeing how people who find this gay must be insecure about themselves. they probably don't have a girlfriend, so therefore they don't have someone to do this with

[Anonymous]

HAHA its not abnormal for a man to shove something in his ass. the male gspot is located in there. once in awhile during masturbation, ill stick a finger up there because it feels damn good. it doesn't make you gay. if my girl asked me if she could, I love her enough I would let her.

[Asker]

exactly

[ItalianBro]

I like feeling dominate in bed. I would never let a girl shove a dildo up my ass.

[colt1819]

That last part of your post makes it seem that you're justifying the act to yourself. I don't think straight dudes want dildos up their ass. They want to do the drilling. lol

[Asker]

I understand where you are coming from, but I just stated that because I have read several of questions on here about this very topic, also being the reason as to why I asked this myself, but a lot of guys automatically think you are gay if you like having your GIRL do this to ya. And yeah, obviously guys are gonna want to do the drilling, but when you have sex for a long time there comes a point where you can't get hard at that very second, and pegging turns on your girl too.. then go for it

[Asker]

if** pegging

[colt1819]

I personally believe its gay dude but if you enjoy it, then its up to you to decide what it makes you. If you don't identify as gay then you're not.

[TwistedLogic]

Never tried it, but I would absolutely do it, if my girl desired it.

[Anonymous]

Yeh I have, he cums so much harder than normal. And there is so much more cum too

[Anonymous]

I voted D just for fun! Hahahahahahaha

[Anonymous]

Hmmm... what if you bought yourself a butt plug shaped like a penis? ;)

[Anonymous]

Actually my guy has said if I ever wanted to I could. He's the dominate one but very oocasionally there's a switch, though I haven't done it and I don't know if I actually could.