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Question about oral sex.

I have an absolutely serious question that I've always wanted the answer to. Background: I'm 24, have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He's the only person I've ever slept with. So I guess I'm what you call 'inexperienced'. However, he's had other sexual conquests before me. Overall, I think I'm pretty good in bed, but then again I could be very wrong. I know how to move and rotate my hips and find the perfect rhythm to make him come, touch him in all the right places, I give great BJs. I love watching him get into it; slowly moving his hips and holding his breath every time I take him in deeper makes me go nuts, and super wet. Unfortunately, he rarely does this. I have problems reaching orgasm, and having one was unimportant to me, until recently. His orgasm and the intimacy we share were much more important. Now I'm really starting to try to pay attention to my own pleasure. I'm pretty sure I could come if he went down on me, but...the one thing that's holding me back... Question: Since I've noticed that he doesn't frequently show how much he enjoys me going down on him, I think I've got it in my head that he wouldn't want to see me enjoying HIM going down on ME. I've watched porn (lots of it) and I've noticed girls moving their hips and sort of "bucking" when a guy (or girl) is giving them oral. That looks amazingly hot. Now onto my question: Do you guys like girls to buck their hips while you're down there? Does it make it harder for you to breathe, or the job more difficult? How about letting a girl come in (or on) your mouth? I'd love to get into it like that with my guy. I'm just afraid of looking like an idiot. Also, as a bonus: What is the best thing a girl can do while you're having sex with her? Thanks a lot, guys. I appreciate it
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  • I have never really enjoyed girls going down on me, it just doesn't feel right to me, but my girl loves to give me head. So for her I let her do it, but I don't even try to fake being into it. on the other hand I love going down on her and when she moves her hips and really gets into it, it makes me want to do it more I love when they come in my mouth, on my tongue, or just licking it off her. but also remeber a lot of what you see in the movies people just don't do I mean to an extent we do but they over-play it and it that's why we watch it. don't be afraid to ask him he may really want to but thinks you don't guys have to be told what to do otherwise we just do what we know. On to your bonus question I personally like when they do the kiegel when your riding not when I'm on top because it can throw off our rythm

    • That's one of my classic moves: tightening it up when I'm on top. I love it! And thank you for your honest opinion! :)

    • You are very welcome and I hope it works out for you.

    • "... have never really enjoyed girls going down on me, it just doesn't feel right to me," I'm glad there is at least ONE of you out there lol

  • Go for it. If you do all that for him, the least he can do is reciprocate. Just tell him what you want. Bucking, rolling, twisting, moaning, screaming, it's all part of the deal. If he can't hang on, he'll just have to practice more. When he goes down on you, it's about your pleasure and he needs to do what it takes to help you get there. As for coming in/on his face, it's been my experience that women don't have another option because they need fairly constant stimulation right up to the point of orgasm. If he pulls his face away, he's stealing your orgasm. If he can't deal with it, tell him to quit being a sissy. Bottom line, you've served him well for 8 years. Now you deserve to be paid back, and I would suggest you insist on it.

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  • I think it is great when a girl shows that she's into receiving oral sex... the idea of "bucking"? -- I'd say that face-sitting is even better, and this gives her complete control.

  • Coming in a person's mouth is nasty and degrading.

    I don't mind going down and I like it especially if the girl doesn't have a foul smell.

    If she stinks down there, I wouldn't want to go down and I'd definitely wouldn't enjoy it.

    yes moving your hips is very sexy, unless you're shaking like you're having a seizure then no.

    just don't squeeze our heads between your thigh that's all.

    but once again, cumming on the face, in the mouth = degrading

    might as well let him take a dump on your face

    • Cumming on the face, in the mouth = degrading might as well let him take a dump on your face " Many may not agree , but I TOTALLY agree with you.. I am glad some guys feel that way. :-)

  • I like when a girl moves her hips, squirms around, and shakes a little while I'm going down on her. I don't know exactly what "bucking" is though. When I'm going down on her I like when she rubs on my head too, while I'm down there. I also like when she sits on my face and she can move how she wants to. I don't mind her cummin while I'm eatin her and she cums on my face. Its the same as me cummin while she gives me head. So I don't think you will look like an idiot if you get into it like that. He should want to know that you are getting pleasure out of it.

  • I don't like women to buck their hips but I like when they slowly rotate the hips while I'm going down on them. Or hold open her lips with her fingers while I lick, so hot. For the bonus I love a girl to rides on top cow girl. It gets so deep inside that way.

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