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Real men don't give oral sex. Do you agree?
Anonymous
My girlfriend threatens to break up with me because I refuse to give her oral sex. Why would a man give oral sex? It's humiliating and degrading. Girls are supposed to serve their men/supposed to be submissive. Men are dominant. Why would a man humiliate and degrade himself like that? How is she supposed to respect "men" who give oral sex? Impossible. What do you think? Why is she expecting me to give oral sex? Is she trying to annoy me?
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look at all the wimpy and submissive beta males who give oral sex to their girls. where is your pride? do you also lick her anus? her feet? the smell of a vagina, clean or dirty is disgusting to me. it's impossible to give oral sex in a manly/dominant way. a girl giving a blowjob to a man is actually a traditional symbol of male dominance... a man giving oral sex to a girl = abasement of pride (he turns into her slave). real men please their women. true. they have sex. "normal" sex.
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"it's really manly to leave your girl unsatisfied in bed." sex is all about the man. a woman needs to fulfil her man's sexual needs. that's the most important thing. it's not the end of the world if he doesn't fulfil her sexual needs. sissy boys who are unable to satisfy their women "the normal way" feel the need to give oral sex. it's obvious these meek women-pleasers aren't real men. real men don't humiliate themselves. they'd never put themselves in such an emasculating situation.
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26 28@ update: UMM real men pleasure women any way that they have to. So men are only allowed to have oral sex? What's next, only men can orgasm? Good luck with that one buddy.
I'm like 88% sure your a rapest.
completely illogical. nice try though.
Ok just read that update make it %99
And Its not illogical at all you think girls should just subment. And that sex is only about male gratfication. And you still haven't denied bing a rapest you just said I couls have figured that out but aculy you can.
I think its safe to say that if granted the opportunity, he would probably be one :P
@goflipaburger. I think so too if he wast one alrady. (Notice he still hasn't deniaed it)
isn't that degrading to girls too?
how would you feel if you were suppose to be the submissive one? would you like to give it all and receive nothing instead?
at least men don't need to put a huge piece of flesh inside their mouths.
i just think she want's to receive from your relationship as much as she gives to you. if you don't wanna please her, I wouldn't blame her if she stops doing that to you or (at the most extreme act) break up because you can't put your manly pride and make her happy once.
P.s- I'm sure you don't know but
only around 8% of females reach the orgasm through ''normal'' sex (with any kind of stimulation
and more than 75% reach it through receiving oral sex.
and, to the part of giving the guy oral sex:
- 30% likes it
- 46% she likes because HE likes
- 19% do it but don't like it
- and only 5% of females refuses performing oral sex
"at least men don't need to put a huge piece of flesh inside their mouths." We do; they're called boobs, and we (i.e. real men, not this 5 year old QA) enjoy it!
Oral sex isn't degrading. In fact it's not submissive to give it at the least bit, if any thing you are the one that is in controll. You controll her orgasm, you don't have to be submissive in the way you give oral, you can be dominant and still give oral in a "masculine" way just depends how your doing it.
"giving oral sex is humiliating. that's a fact. only weak and submissive guys give oral sex."
Let me fix that for you.
"giving oral sex TO ANOTHER GUY is humiliating. that's a fact. only weak and submissive guys give oral sex TO ANOTHER GUY."
There. Fixed it for you.
You're like the male equivalent of some female user that was on here a whole ago, lol.
*while*
No I think you're very wrong. And most men will agree with me.
Real men love the puss.
We love the smell, the texture, the taste, the way she squirms under our tongue...
Eating girls out is the best. You don't know what you're missing.
The only men who don't like the puss, love the c0ck instead.
We call those men homosexuals.
being dominant/refusing to humiliate myself/having sex with a woman makes me homo? good to know. truth is, nerdy beta males do everything to please their girls... they even give oral sex. sad and pathetic. do you also lick her anus? what about her feet? come on, where is your pride?
I think you'll find I was right about everything I said, including that most men agree with me. Your attitude is very typical of more primitive countries, for example Eastern European countries or the Middle East, where women tend to be seen as inferior. I knew a Moldovan chap once, who had the same attitude about going down on his wife. What he didn't know, was that she had a lot of affairs behind his back, with guys who were eager to eat out her lovely box. You remind me of him. Ignorant.
submissive wimpy sissy boys/beta males agree with you. congratulations.
You don't know the meaning of the word. Your girl will most likely dump you, assuming she even exists in the first place. I think I scored a hit with my analysis of your cultural background too.
I disagree. Real men can give oral sex allll day :)
I don't think it's humiliating and degrading. I think your ideas of a relationship are very backwards. Being a man doesn't mean being dominant and in control. You are truly hyporcitical to suggest that she should give you oral sex but you shouldn't give her any. I think that you sound too ignorant to talk this through with logically and every girlfriend you have will probably leave you once you show this side of you.
who thinks his girlfriend should dump his a**?haha
Redbaren, who DOESN'T think his girlfriend should dump his a**? LOL!
Giving oral is completely dominant. Anyone who's given oral sex knows just how much control the giver has. The giver controls the tempo, the intensity, the focus, whether or not the recipient cums, when they do; they have full control! They can take them to the edge over and over and tease them mercilessly. All the recipient can do is lay there and hope the giver lets them orgasm. And Redbaren, I think everyone (including his soon-to-be-ex girlfriend) agrees with you!
Sorry but that's one of the dumbest things I've ever read and I'm a virgin lol.
giving oral sex is humiliating. that's a fact. only weak and submissive guys give oral sex.
and I will say again, that is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.