Sending dirty pictures to the guy?

Ive sent the guy I'm seeing dirty pictures in the past, nothing gross or anything just flirty stuff. He promises he deletes them so no one can find them on his phone. I believe him, but everyone has told me, if you send a nudie pic to a guy, all his friends would have seen it. Is this true?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It depends on the guy and what your relationship with him is. I've taken photos of my then girlfriend, now wife but never EVER shared them with anyone else. If it were someone who felt the need to brag or show off then they they might be more likely too. It could be a generational thing too. Younger (god I feel old now) people have been exposed (literally and figuratively) to this technology from a younger age so it might just be an "instinctual" thing where as with me I would not even consider sharing private stuff in a public way.

    You should probably talk (not text or email) to him and make sure he knows how you feel about these images and how they are not for anyone aside from him. That way there is no grey area and if he does share them at least you've made your feelings known and he can't play it off.

  • Yes, it's very likely true.

    A friend of mine showed us all in the pub one night, pics sent by his then girl friend. She was HOT. And he was proud. He wound up marrying her, so he clearly did love her.

    But bros before hos, he showed the guys her pics.

    The first time I met her (not long after that) I was SOOO tempted to say "I didn't recognise you with your clothes on" but of course, I didn't.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on the guy. He may be proud and want to show you off, he may be following some odd aspect of the "bro-code" or he may send them around to spite you if you have a bad break-up (touch wood that doesn't happen).

    But it can and does happen.

    When I started doing that, they were sexy pics but pictures I wouldn't be embarrassed about if they showed up somewhere else. And they still got him off when I wasn't there.

    Be careful...and follow clovisx 's advice. Its good.

  • It's almost always true. Send nude pic expect a multitude of people to end up viewing it and enjoying your body.

  • More than likely! And it's possible they're online! Be careful!

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  • chances are high his friends seen them

  • You have a 99.9999% chance that he WILL show it to his friends and/or even forward them

  • he probably has. he probably just shows them on his phone, not email them their own copy though. if you don't want him to show them though, he needs to respect that.

  • I don't think most guys would share that with their friends. I definitely never would. But I wouldn't delete them either. Especially if they really turned me on I'd want them to look at in the future too.

  • My boyfriend and I always exchange dirty photos, I wouldn't really care if he showed anyone.. considering I've shown a few of my friends his pics and he doesn't care !

  • I wouldn't do it but it depends on the guy.