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Sex toys and guys, can we compete?
Anonymous
Okay so here's a thought I had. I'm a virgin, so I'm not talking from any knowledgeable perspective, but what do YOU think? So we have not sex toys for women that are totally beyond anything any penis could ever do no matter what size or shape it is. They can't vibrate, they can't be made of jelly, you name it. Couples use sex toys in the bedroom and this totally enhances their sex life - sex is better than ever before, but now vaginal sex is never going to be as physically satisfying for a woman as using a toy. HAVING SAID THAT, of course men can compete with sex toys. In fact, sex toys can't possibly compete with MEN, because men can love and men have a warm body against you, they are a person that can switch up the sex as a whole and do your fantasies, whisper in your ear, give you a massage, run with you in the rain and surprise you with amazing expressions of love. But they can't be feel as good as sex toys, and this need not be a bad thing. My question is, do you think that the introduction of sex toys to sex has now completely eliminated the 'penis size competition' because that's it. All men lose equally to the sex toys. Do you think that as of today a lover's capacity and success sexually will be determined pretty much 97% by his romance and emotional/ psychological/ sex skills (i.e oral etc) / ability to relate sexually as an amazing boyfriend/ otherwise being hot / simply being compatible? Do you think size simply isn't relevant anymore? Because that's how it seems to me, but of course I have zero experience.
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What Girls & Guys Said
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There is no comparison between sex toys and guys. Sex toys are simply made for bringing extra fun to one's sex life. So, let's not compare!
secretsextoy. in
Using sex toys can be really fun, for both. Before using toys together make sure he/she know what makes them go nuts and with a little bit of help of sex toys, it will become a night to remember.
I usually go to taketoys. hk and order some interesting toys for both of us.
Do explore, both!
YOU ARE. ABSOLUTELY. RIGHT. I was having this exact thought (I've not had sex either) but at this point, women are more apt to go for a man for the man, rather than for the size, because why does size matter when you have all that fancy stuff in a toy, anyways?
I think real men feel 100x better than any toy. I can hardly get off with toys at all and I have had quite a few in many different sizes lol. I don't know why but I only orgasm if I am having sex with a guy.
I can feel the difference too, even when boyfriends used toys on me I couldn't cum... it doesn't feel bad or anything, a real d*** just feels so much better
I want dick so badly haha <3
Your right
@sweetlivy Ding dong, pizza delivery boy! What can I do to pleasure you?