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Should I take my best friend's little sister's virginity? (Girls please help!!! I do not know what to do)
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So my best friend from elementary school up through high school baby sister is turning 18 years old in a month. Well I am back home from college for the summer (I am 22 years old). I happened to see she the other day at the store. Well she invited me to her birthday party which I was like cool why not. Well a few days later I had to pick up one of her parents computers because my dad has a computer business and one of my summer jobs is to pick up & work on computer. Well I was talking with her for a little while. Growing up she would tag along a lot of times with her brother and I so we are friends and do know each other pretty well. Well we got to talking about her party & I asked her what she wanted. Well it took a while, but she finally told me she has wanted to know what sex feels like so she would like me to take her virginity, but I told her I did not know. There is nothing wrong per se with her, expect she is my oldest/best friends little sister. Otherwise she is great looking, smart, caring, and someone I can talk too, but once again she is my best friends little sister. She told me it would be a one time care free thing, but I am kind of afraid it would not stay that. I do think it is worth noting I normally do not have sex in fact I have not had sex in three years & I do not masturbate because if I masturbate I spend WAY to much time doing that a day. So part of me wants to have sex for the second time in my life with my best friend’s baby sister, but by the same respect I do not want to destroy the friendship with him. I need some advice should I take my best friends little sisters virginity? Also why would she ask me? She has know me for over a decade & never showed any feels towards me. She said it was not about a sexual attraction, but knowing the guy she lost her virginity too and she is tired of wondering what sex is like. This is not a fictional post so girls could you try to explain what she is thinking and what I should do?
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21 14First off ask yourself if you want to.The fact that you're asking internet strangers probably means you really want to, you just want someone to assure you its okay! And who knows! If you go through with it, you might see each other in a new light.
As a teenage girl, and virgin, I can honestly say she most likely wants to have sex with you because she trusts that you won't give her diseases or be an ass about it. I think that subconsciously she knows you two care about each other in some way.
And about your friend, even if he did find out (he probably won't), he'd eventually realize he's happier it was you and not some jerk who broke her heart.
Lol I hope he fucked her
nooooooooooooooooo. I shouldn't know about the bro code for reasons that are blah blah blah to girls but I know some of it. pretty sure sleeping with a best friends sister is in direct violation, especially without consent from said best friend. also, if she is someone you can talk to and cares about and everything that would come to an end. sex changes things. she'll be clingy and it will just not be good.
No it will ruin the relationship you have with your friend. you are just horny and I don't think it will go over well. she should wait for a guy who loves her and you should keep your penis away from your friends little sister. NOT GOOD. both of you will end up regretting it
Honestly, if she wants you too, then that's her choice. Nobody can stop her. Honestly, if I were your friend, I would rather have you have sex with her then some random dude that I don't trust.. but that's just me. I hope it works out!
opportunities like this don't come very often in life, if at all. Just do it and enjoy the moment with her.
Don't do it. She is just using you to have sex. Doesn't sound too appealing. I don't know why she would decide to do that. But, if she just wants to see what it's like, she doesn't view sex as very important, then she doesn't view you as very important. Meaning she might have sex with other people, not just you. That would make you feel bad. The fact that it is your brother's little sister doesn't really complicate things, because if she was sincere and really liked you, then it would be OK. But, don't let her use you for sex!
Doesn't matter what she was thinking when she asked you. You need to randomly bring it up to your best friend. Don't tell him what she said but just somehow mention her to him a few times see how he feels about all of that. If he doesn't seem to care much (which I doubt), then have sex with her and try not to tell anyone...hopefully that will work (but I doubt it)
idk I f***ed my friends sister and we are no longer friends, he could have been upset because she was engaged, it was a good time though tig o bitties
She will go stage-5 clinger. Or, being that you never get laid, you will go stage-5 clinger.
I'm sorry, but I do not date so what does stage 5 clinger mean? I am kind of lost her? I grew up with all guys I can take a car/computer/computer program, or house apart no problem. However I have no idea about relationships/girls.
One of you will become obsessively infatuated with the other. Usually, its the girl ... but when a guy can't get laid, it is often the guy (due to never having sex).