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Small boobs make me feel ugly and unattractive...help...very depressed.
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I have always been small breasted but at age 35 and after 2 kids I feel so unattractive with my 34-B's. My boyfriend of a year and a half has never once complimented them, he hardly ever touches them, and doesn't offer to remove my shirt before sex. I am considering breast implants. I am 130 lbs, 5'4", blond hair, blue eyes, tanned, but SMALL deflated boobs. I am miserable, I feel like less than a woman, and I feel like dying because my Boyfriend has never said he likes them, even if I make comments about how deflated my boobs are and how unattractive I feel, he says nothing at all. One night in bed I took my own shirt off and asked him after sex if my boobs were enough for him and all he could say is "yeah they're fine" and he didn't even touch them when he said it. Should I have breast implants or feel like a piece of junk because I can never be considered hot or beautiful due to my B cups. Please guys, give me your honest opinion on the importance of breast size. Because my Boyfriend stares at girls with nice plump breasts.
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well, I finally started 2 feel better about myself. I told my Boyfriend I decided not 2 get breast implants.He didn't comment so I asked him what he thought about me the way I am. He said I was fine like I am but he would like 4 me to get implants :(
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i feel like dying. I feel so pathetic and unworthy.Even after I have told him the dangers of the surgery, he says he would like for me to do it. My heart hurts so bad right now that I can't breath.
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 16Did it ever occur to you that he just isn't a boob man? What gets him excited? Some guys just prefer legs... Or butts... Or hips.. Or boobs... Or whatever it is... If he isn't touching you at all then I would worry... Does he take care of your "needs" or just himself? Do you want him to pay attention to your boobs cause YOU like that or just because your self consious? If the two of you are enjoying each other and the sex is good then I wouldn't worry about it. If YOU NEED to be touched there tell him!
I'd give anything for B cup. I'm nearly an A... my little tatas need help...
Hi I have small blobs I'm lookin at getting implants an my by said he's worried that it will change me as person an I might go with someone else what should I think an do x
I was 32b a few years ago but had my boobs done. I am now 32e/f. I love them now.
hey hun I'm only 18 and have saggy stretch marked A cups after having my baby.. I went from some nice C cups getting complimented by people all the time, to this :/
oh and I have horrible stretch marks all over my stomach and my body has just really gone to sh*t
dont feel too bad it happens to the best of us..
my boyfriend don't want anything to do with my boobs either
Well, you are 18 at least you have time to work on getting back in shape. My skin has lost all elasticity I think and there's not much I can do at 35. Thank you for your reply. :)
Well hopefully I can get somethi done about all this lol i think with the stretch marks I'm just totally screwed there's no return lol
have you ever seen celebrity beach bodies?many of them have a-cups, link that is kate hudson, and every one considers her beautiful. the problem is not your breasts its your attitude, b cups are not that bad.
Mmmm yes, kate hudson t*ts... just about perfect....
I totally agree that its the girl's attitude that makes them hot, not just the body. I've previously been with a completely flat girl but she made her body seem so damn hot I'll remember her forever. If ur unhappy with your boobs, make your nipples the centre of attention for example, it worked for her
First, do not feel so bad, nothing good will come of it. Then, If you feel like you have a good thing going with your boyfriend, then talk to him about it and see what he has to say about it.
If it helps you, I actually prefer smaller breasts :)
Thank you...may I ask WHY you like smaller? This world portrays BIG BOOBS on TV, magazines, etc....it just feels like if we have small boobs, we're pathetic.
I can't really say why, It's just one of those things. I have some ideas like my desire for proportions (big breasts can just look out of place), but really there are some things that one can't really explain. :/
Also, the guy above me also has some valid reasons :P However, on the field of why some men prefer bigger breasts, it's actually part of our evolution to look for the "most fertile female": https://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/03/23/brizendine.male.brain/index.html?hpt=C1
That's true. I think now that I'm 35, and my Boyfriend looks at 18-20 year old women, that aslo makes me feel disgusting and worthless. I'm amazed at how many guys say they like smaller breasts but I am SO having a hard time grasping it.
Given your update, in my opinion, you should leave him. You obviously really don't want to go through with any operations and if he doesn't like you for who you are then he doesn't like you.