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Telling him he has a small penis?
gravygirl Yoda
Guys, has anyone here ever had someone tell them that they had a small penis? If so, what was that like? I imagine it being terrible, but I don't really have any way of knowing. And just to avoid any anger, I would never do this. Girls, have you ever just flat out told someone that they were small? What affect did it have? Were you trying to be cruel? Did you feel bad afterwards? And if anyone is wondering this question is coming from just having witnessed my friend tell her boyfriend and two other couples that he was the smallest guy she'd ever been with. He turned all red and stormed out of the bar. I don't think she was even mad at him, I think she was just drunk. This might have made it worse for him because if everyone thought she was mad we'd be less likely to believe her, but I think most of us think she was telling the truth. I can't believe she did it though.
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I have an update. This is probably unsurprising, but my friend hasn't spoken to her boyfriend since the incident. He hasn't taken her calls or answered his door. She feels terrible, and only kind of remembers the incident. I guess she was really drunk
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Why do you get so few characters to update? Anyway, I was going to say that I haven't asked her if it was true, but from the way she's been talking about it I'm pretty sure it is. So it's not a huge surprise he's so upset.
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In case anyone was curious, they broke up. There was some back and forth, but I don't think things were ever actually good between them since she announced that to everyone. She feels terrible. She told me that it was true, but that she didn't care. Oops.
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 36My ex asked me once if he was small. He was but I lied and said, "Nooo sweetie of course not!" and he was like, "well my ex told me I was...am I really?" and then I fessed up and admitted it. He then proceeded to ask if I knew any guys that were bigger that I had come across in the past. Talking about his smallness and comparing to others was a HUGE turnon for him as it turns out. He'd ask me to talk dirty to him...which meant he wanted me to tell him how small his thing was. I thought it was strange, but I guess it might just depend on the guy?
This is a symptom of a guy who has agonized to the point he is either going to kill himself or embrace his inadequacy. He chooses to embrace it then gets a twisted psychology like you saw. I find it disgusting guys are pushed to this point but I can see why.
I'm the same as your ex - love hearing my gf tell me I'm small. Better she's honest than lies about it :)
How big was he in inches if you look at a ruler
I'm pretty big, so I've never had a girl tell me THAT. But I have had girls tell me I'm a quick cummer, which is pretty much a similar experience I'd think. Yeah, of course it's totally embarrassing but I guess I can understand where it comes from. And as in your friend's case, when a little alcohol is involved something that normally you'd keep to yourself might slip out.